My husband cheated me. What should I do?

When you find out that your husband is cheating, you should first calm down, learn to safeguard your rights and interests in marriage, safeguard your legitimate rights and interests through legal procedures, and consult some evidence to prove the other party's cheating.

How to protect your rights and interests when your husband cheats?

1. If my husband is cheating and wants to protect his rights and interests, we must actively create a warm family atmosphere at this time, so that my husband can think about going home when he gets off work. Once a man feels the warmth of home, he will want to go home even if the distance remains the same.

My husband has a certain circle of friends in his life. When these activities appear, he must actively cooperate with his husband. Otherwise, it will give a third party an opportunity to participate in these activities with her husband if they want to.

In life, the husband must also have some consumption and expenditure. At this time, it is necessary to grasp the purpose of these consumption. Look where my husband spent his money.

4. If you find that your husband is cheating, you must ensure that the economic power is in your own hands. It is best to transfer some assets to your own name or the name of your child.

How to protect yourself when your husband is cheating?

Divorce with him must be calm, don't hurt the marriage with a lose-lose attitude, don't punish your husband or a third party with extreme means, and choose to break up peacefully! Leave smartly and finish his secret love with her. You are the greatest person. If you are indifferent to this, I suggest you defend your marriage. Bound by marriage for too many years, the love between partners has already slowly disappeared and turned into family affection. Perhaps it is because love has faded that men are looking for passion and love. And you are numb, and you are not nervous about it, then try again to defend your marriage! Maybe you take it out and accuse him of letting him turn against you, and then you take the initiative to leave; But if you blame him for this, and he admits his mistake and makes a promise to you, then forgive him. You say it, and then choose to leave or stay naturally, which may be the best ending for everyone. Men's selfish desires are really terrible. One is their love for their wives, and the other is their passion for a third party, which makes their love become three people. What should I do if my husband cheats? Reach out your hand and touch your heart. It will tell you whether to go or stay.

The best way to check a man's infidelity

1. If you want to investigate a man's cheating behavior, it is best to locate the other person's mobile phone at this time. Now many mobile phones can be located. When the other person doesn't come home and tell you where he is, then you can locate him. Is he really in that place?

Nowadays, many people will spend money through online payment. You can investigate your husband's consumption records. If you don't know his consumption record or didn't spend it on you, you may have spent it on mistress by this time.

If a man spends less and less time on you, he will even ignore your existence in life. When you decide whether something is right or not, or when you ask someone something, he always perfunctory you, indicating that he must have cheated.

The correct way to deal with a husband's marital infidelity is as follows:

1. If a wife can communicate with her husband, she can sign a marriage agreement with her husband to safeguard her legitimate rights and interests through the agreement.

2. If the wife thinks that the husband's cheating behavior leads to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, she can choose to divorce her husband. There are two ways of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. The specific choice is decided by both parties.

How to collect evidence of infidelity

Evidence of infidelity can be collected as follows:

1. Letter of guarantee and repentance signed by one party;

2. If there is a prostitute, the police will record it;

3. Double-sending letters, text messages and WeChat screenshots;

4, photos, audio and video materials.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC).

If the husband and wife voluntarily divorce, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.

The divorce agreement shall specify the expression of willingness of both parties to divorce and the consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposal.

Article 1077

Within 30 days after the marriage registration office receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, it may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration office.

Within thirty days after the expiration of the time limit specified in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall personally apply to the marriage registration office for a divorce certificate; Those who fail to apply shall be deemed to have withdrawn their application for divorce registration.

How can women fight for their rights when their husbands cheat and divorce?

Ways for divorced women to fight for their rights and interests: the woman should try her best to collect the evidence that her husband made a mistake in marriage, and then submit it to the court to ask the man to compensate her for divorce damages. As long as the woman can produce evidence to prove that her husband not only cheated, but also cohabited with the derailed object, or remarried with the derailed object, then the woman can claim divorce damages based on her own fault behavior and ask her to divide less or no property according to law.

legal ground

Article 1079 of the Civil Code

If one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

When trying divorce cases, the people's court shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation is ineffective, divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, divorce shall be granted:

(a) bigamy or cohabitation with others;

(2) committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

(three) gambling, drug abuse and other bad habits;

(four) separated for two years due to emotional discord;

(5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the marriage relationship.

If one party is declared missing and the other party files a divorce lawsuit, the divorce shall be granted.

After the people's court ruled that divorce is not allowed, if the two parties have separated for one year and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, divorce shall be granted.

According to custom, registration is used to obtain the validity of marriage. I want to prove some necessary evidence that I really have the habit of suing a man for bigamy.

1. If they live together, the Marriage Law stipulates that if one of the spouses is at fault, the one at fault shall pay economic compensation to the other.

"Husband and wife agreed in writing that the property obtained during the marriage relationship belongs to each other. If one party does more to support children, take care of the elderly, and assist the other party in their work, they have the right to demand compensation from the other party at the time of divorce, and the other party shall pay compensation. " "In any of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the spouses:

(1) one party's premarital property;

(two) medical expenses, living allowance for the disabled and other expenses obtained by one party due to physical injury;

(3) Property determined to belong only to the husband or wife in the will or gift contract;

(4) Daily necessities used exclusively by one party;

(5) Other property that should be owned by Zhan Mingya. "Study hard.

If you don't worry, take your time to find evidence. You still have an advantage in property seizure.

Second, if you don't want to wait, leave. The Marriage Law stipulates that "if one party conceals, transfers, sells or destroys the property of husband and wife, or forges debts, and attempts to occupy the property of the other party, when dividing the joint property of husband and wife, the party who conceals, transfers, sells or destroys the property of husband and wife or forges debts may analyze the whole case with little or no points. After the divorce, if the other party finds the above-mentioned behavior, it may bring a lawsuit to the people's court and request to divide the husband again.

Wives share the same property. "

Don't forget to talk about child support before divorce.

Actually, you'd better get a lawyer. They are very experienced in all aspects.

See if you want a divorce or not.

Go to a lawyer to do property notarization, he calculates, plans to make a meal, and make an offer first.

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If you don't want a divorce, you must save your husband's heart and never let Junior Three have children.

Let's talk it over.

1. If they live together, the Marriage Law stipulates that if one of the spouses is at fault, the one at fault shall pay economic compensation to the other.

"Husband and wife agreed in writing that the property obtained during the marriage relationship belongs to each other. If one party does more to support children, take care of the elderly, and assist the other party in their work, they have the right to demand compensation from the other party at the time of divorce, and the other party shall pay compensation. " "In any of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the spouses:

(1) one party's premarital property;

(2) Medical expenses, living allowance for the disabled, etc. Obtained by one party due to physical injury;

(3) Property determined to belong only to the husband or wife in the will or gift contract;

(4) Daily necessities used exclusively by one party;

(five) other property that should be owned by one party. "Study hard.

If you don't worry, take your time to find evidence. You still have an advantage in property seizure.

Second, if you don't want to wait, leave. The Marriage Law stipulates that "when divorcing, if one party hides, transfers, sells or destroys the property of husband and wife, or forges debts in an attempt to occupy the property of the other party, when dividing the property of husband and wife, the party who hides, transfers, sells or destroys the property of husband and wife or forges debts may be given less points or no points. After the divorce, if the other party finds the above-mentioned behavior, it may bring a lawsuit to the people's court and request to divide the husband and wife's property again. "

Don't forget to talk about child support before divorce.

Actually, you'd better get a lawyer. They are very experienced in all aspects.

The idea is more realistic, I have experienced it personally, and I have suffered a loss and don't like it. It depends on the husband's mentality. If he wants a divorce, don't make trouble, the property can be transferred quickly, and then he must find a lawyer to handle the divorce. If he doesn't want to leave, he just looks for excitement outside and turns a blind eye. There are too many such things now, but the property can still be transferred as much as possible, just in case.

Generally speaking, if the man is having an affair, you can protect your rights and interests with factual evidence. If not, a child will usually be sentenced like this. To tell the truth, you love so much that you lose your principles, lose yourself and don't cherish your performance. For such a family that wants a son, you have repeatedly chosen pregnancy and abortion, and your body has collapsed. In the middle, if the man can't have sex with you, or is dissatisfied, he will naturally cheat, instead of speaking for him, because this is the nature of men, which is manifested in the lower body. You have been in such a state, and he naturally found reasons and opportunities for cheating. Now that it's like this, you should also think about your future, leave it and start over. Such a man is not worth your nostalgia. If there is evidence that your husband is cheating, so much the better. If there is no evidence, I hope you will take it lightly. Just spend your youth to buy a blood lesson! Remember to be nice to yourself next time, don't humiliate yourself like this!