Why did Jay Chou and Patty Hou break up? thank you

One day in September, 2006, Jay Chou turned over the newspaper of that day with a heavy heart. A photo of Patty Hou shocked him: in the photo, she squatted helplessly in the street, burying her face in her hands, and seemed to see tears of despair between her fingers. Behind them are blue-eyed blondes and tall buildings in new york ... Jay Chou and Patty Hou fell in love at the end of 2004. Jay Chou, born in 1979, is young, but he has outstanding performance in composing, writing and singing. He is one of the owners of Gem Music Company, and he is also involved in the film industry. He is called "the king of Asian pop music". Patty Hou, who is one year older than him, is the ace host of the brand program Entertainment Asia of Dongfeng TV. Because of her sweet appearance and strong affinity, she is known as "sweetheart anchor" and "the first beauty anchor in Taiwan Province Province". Talented people and beautiful women are a perfect match. Coincidentally, they all grew up in single-parent families. Such an encounter is like a match made in heaven. However, after the initial sweetness, this seemingly perfect relationship gradually faded from its original beauty. Because there are too many auras on Jay Chou's head, Patty Hou, as the woman behind him, had to give up her anchor job and join the drama career after her love affair was exposed. As a pop star, Jay Chou never dared to reveal his identity. She always avoids having a meal with her, and is often found by paparazzi to have eaten in the middle and left her and ran away. In September 2006, Patty Hou broke up with Jay Chou in tears. On second thought, Jay Chou agreed. Although there are too many disappointments and sorrows in his heart. Patty Hou is not only beautiful, smart and capable, but also can make good dishes comparable to the hotel chef, with a gentle temperament ... such an impeccable girl, but he has to let go because he knows that he can't give her the happiness she wants. His world is too noisy, all she wants is a quiet and peaceful love ... Patty Hou is on the verge of collapse. She didn't want to go out, meet friends, work, eat or sleep, and she lost 8 kilograms in just one month. Once she was driving at a crossroads and waiting for a red light, she suddenly threw herself on the steering wheel and burst into tears, causing a traffic jam without knowing it ... The agent specially took on the location task of new york for her, hoping that the distance would make her forget the pain, but from the photos, it didn't seem to work ... What a sunny girl she was, with a sweet smile on her face and full of curiosity and enthusiasm for everything, and now ... Jay Chou has a knife-like heartache. "Should I do something for her?" He asked himself. That night, he couldn't sleep ... On the night of September 17, 2006, Jay Chou, who has always been silent about personal issues, accepted an exclusive interview with ATV and made an exception to talk about his feelings. When the host asked, "There are many rumors about you, which one is true?" Jay Chou replied without hesitation: "There is only one paragraph, the one that everyone knows." "Falling in love with the female anchor?" "yes." "How do you evaluate your feelings?" "This is a healthy relationship, she is a particularly lovely girl. I can't keep such a good girl. I think it's my problem, so I won't consider looking for a girlfriend for the time being ... I often think that if I can fly back by time, I will start over with her and protect her so that she won't be hurt so much ... "This is the first time that Jay Chou has publicly admitted her love affair with Patty Hou. When we broke up, he finally gave her the name of a real girlfriend. Meanwhile, it's dawn in new york. Patty Hou watched Jay Chou's interview, looked at the familiar faces on the screen and listened to the familiar voices. Patty Hou only felt his eyes moist, his throat tightened, and his tears fell uncontrollably until he burst into tears. Those grievances, depression, bitterness and pain that have been accumulated for a long time poured out like this ... For a long time, she went to the window, and in the gauze-like sunshine and cool morning breeze, she told herself that yesterday had passed and everything had to start again. After returning to Taiwan Province, Patty Hou felt calmer and began to devote himself to his work. Only in the dead of night, the past will be constantly shown in my mind like a movie, which will make her indulge in it again and again. "I'm always thinking a lot of messy things in my mind ..." One night, she called Jay Chou on her own initiative. Jay Chou listened to her story, thought about it, and said, "I have an idea. Why don't you write it all down and publish a book to commemorate our feelings and accomplish a special job? " "Is that all right? Will others say that I borrowed your hype? " Patty Hou hesitated. Jay Chou smiled: "Fool, even if you use me, that's what I want." That night, Patty Hou really picked up a pen and recorded his complicated feelings. Since then, this method has become her special "stability", and she has to write a paragraph every day to sleep peacefully. "Freedom starts from the moment you release yourself, the pain disappears unconsciously, the memory is beautiful but gradually blurred, and love comes and goes. Selfishness hides behind lies, betrayal walks in front of vows, and tears dry and wet. Sorry to be a late hope, goodbye is the most perfect ending ... "I don't know from which day on, her writing gradually became a kind of relief-like relaxation. In August, 2007, the book "Words and Words" was officially published. On September 13, Patty Hou held a book release conference in Taiwan Province. While she was busy greeting the guests, someone handed her a huge flower basket. That's her favorite roses, lilies, wisteria, marigold ... The whole flower basket is like a colorful garden, complex and grand. Living at the gate of the garden, there is a photo of him and her, as eye-catching as the house number. Next to it, it says, "every word is a pearl, which means a seat." The workers below all signed his name: Jay Chou. Jay Chou, who wants to build a darkroom and lock herself up when she is in love, is getting higher and higher now. He is using this special way to express his deep apologies and make up for his mistakes. In this regard, Patty Hou has a deep understanding. "I think ... you've changed a lot ..." That night, Patty Hou said to Jay Chou on the phone. Jay Chou smiled: "If I had been so sensible before, wouldn't we have broken up?" Before Patty Hou could answer, he gently sang a song: "I can't sleep in the middle of the night, humming my mood/I'm going to the roof to find another dream/I was awakened in my sleep. I'm still not sure/why there are touching chords on the opposite roof/I quietly closed the door and walked up hopefully/It turned out to be the person who often appeared in my dreams … "It was the Southeast Asian disaster relief party in early summer of 2004, and they sang in front of tens of thousands of fans. At that time, they had just held hands, and love began to spread like a gorgeous brocade forging, which seemed to extend to the most distant future. Now, although the dream has split, he can still sing this song for her in this dark night. Love didn't turn into hate, but into another kind of love ... in the warm song, she burst into tears again. This time, it was a moving tear. Show your true feelings at the critical moment and you will know how difficult it is to restore the frontier. What Jay Chou did made Patty Hou return to the image of "sweetheart". And Patty Hou, who came out from the emotional injury, redoubled his efforts and became a decisive battle! The host of "Creative Makeup Award", and has hosted programs such as Hon Hai Weiya, Oriental TV's cutting-edge entertainment public welfare star, and "The same song enters Guangzhou". The performing arts career came back quickly, and flowers and honors were once again in full swing. See Patty Hou's life finally on the right track, Jay Chou hanging heart finally put down. However, one day at the end of 2007, when he was giving a concert in Hong Kong, five or six hours before the opening ceremony, he suddenly received a phone call: "Patty Hou had an accident and was being rescued in the hospital." It turned out that because she was too tired to work all night for several days, about half an hour ago, when Patty Hou was attending a product launch conference, she suddenly broke out in a cold sweat and fell down from the 2.5-meter-high runway ... She was in a coma and the situation was very dangerous ... The sudden news made Jay Chou unbelievable. After a brief panic, he asked his assistant to check the latest flight to Taiwan Province province immediately. After careful time calculation, he decided to fly to Taiwan Province province immediately after an hour, stay in Taiwan Province province for about two hours, and then rush back to Hongkong. "This is not so good? If the flight is delayed, the concert may not be held on time. If the concert is over, it's not too late to fly tomorrow. " Assistant and agent advised him. "I don't know what she will be like tomorrow ..." Jay Chou's eyes were red and her voice choked. In this case, no one can say anything discouraging. In this way, about two and a half hours later, Jay Chou, wearing big sunglasses and wrapped himself in a scarf and hat, appeared in the hospital. The doctor told him that Patty Hou was diagnosed with severe brain injury, and was currently undergoing brain hematoma removal and decompression surgery. He hurried to the operating room. Far away, Patty Hou's mother and relatives are sitting on a bench outside the operating room. When they saw him, they motioned him to sit down and wait with anxious eyes. She used to wait for him on dates. He is always so busy that he is late almost every time. The longest time, she waited for him for two hours, and he felt embarrassed. She looked at him quietly, smiled, and then said, "As long as you come, it will be worth waiting for me all my life." Now, it is finally his turn to wait for her. This seems to be an endless wait. That sweet smiling face, those gentle words, may never be seen or heard again ... When he thought of this, there was a file pain in his heart, which was a feeling he had never experienced when he was puffed up when he was young, so helpless, so uneasy and so heartbroken. Three hours later, a nurse came over and whispered, "Please ask Patty Hou's relatives to pick up the patient." Finally, a surgical vehicle was launched at the door. Jay Chou followed Patty Hou's mother's quick action and saw her lying on it, with an infusion tube of different lengths hanging on her body and white gauze wrapped around her head, showing only the five senses that were almost beyond recognition. I don't know if the anesthetic hasn't expired, or if she is in a coma. She closed her eyes as if she were asleep. "Peizeng" he called her name and shook her cold hand. Then he suddenly saw the corner of her eye, and a tear was oozing out ... before she woke up, he had to leave. When he left the ward, he looked back step by step. Every step, his concern was like a vine extending one inch, holding his hands and feet and winding his heart. Outside the hospital, he began to call Patty Hou's mother: "Aunt, she is awake, you must inform me first." On that day, Jay Chou appeared in the concert on time, singing and dancing, full of energy. No one knows where you will go after what he just went through ... Fortunately, the operation was very successful. Two weeks later, the congestion disappeared and the edema was relieved, and Patty Hou was able to recover and leave the hospital. Jay Chou finally breathed a sigh of relief at the news, but told her not to be careless and to have more rest. After returning to Hong Kong, he kept moving Chinese medicine to his home, which he had heard about everywhere. Mother cooks for him every day, and there is always a smell of medicine in the villa. One day, Jay Chou remembered something and asked his mother, "Mom, why don't you ever ask who these medicines are for?" Mom smiled: "Who else? People all over Taiwan Province Province know who you care about most. " After a pause, mother continued, "Jay, have you ever thought about bringing her back?" Listening to her mother's words, Jay Chou was stunned. Yes, since he loves her so much, why not? However, if they die around the second time, is he really sure to give her happiness? When Jay Chou hesitated, Patty Hou was also utterly confused. After returning to being single, she has had many suitors around her, but no man has touched her heart like him ... She seems to have passed the season of love, like a tree in winter, withered and full of vicissitudes. However, seeing what Jay Chou has done for her, she suddenly felt that there was new hope in life ... She always thought that she no longer loved him. It turns out that she still hasn't completely let him go. He clearly has her in his heart. Why can't they get back together? 5438+2008 10 One day in June, Jay Chou came to Hou's house with the cooked soup as before. Patty Hou made an excuse to spend his mother's money, then leaned back in bed and looked at Jay Chou and said, "This medicine is bitter. I don't want to drink it myself. I want you to feed it to me. " "Peizeng" Jay Chou let out a cry with some excitement, awkward. At this moment, his name suddenly appeared on the TV that was always on-Jay Chou was suspected of falling into a love triangle. Here, he interacts with his old lover Jolin Tsai and wears the same engagement ring; There is a newcomer, Jiang Yuchen, and a BMW luxury car worth NT$ 50 million ... "Nonsense." Patty Hou held out his hand and pressed the remote control. Jay Chou wry smile: "There is an old saying in China:' Lies come true three times'. Gradually, no one can tell the true from the false ... Take your medicine slowly, I am in a hurry, so I have to go first. " "I don't feel right anymore/I finally learned/I can't bear to read the story page by page. You are so tired/you have cried for me silently for several times/my heart is broken. You have suffered. Your beauty doesn't deserve me ... "When Patty Hou called Jay Chou again, he heard the bell, which was his new song" I don't deserve it ". He is expressing his feelings in this way. He understood her wish, but he could only choose to leave again. They can press the TV remote control, but they can't stop living. His world is destined to be so noisy, all she wants is a wholehearted lover, a feeling of peace and tranquility. He couldn't give these before, and he still can't give them now. "This day is no longer green/mottled/I left empty memories in the big house/the seats in the cinema are far apart/feelings. You play chess with yourself ... "She sang another song with tears in her eyes. At that moment, she understood and put it down. I wish you a happy and melancholy blessing, listening to the rain alone and looking forward to Patty Hou's new love, but it is not as smooth as Jay Chou expected. Because "Zhu Yu comes first", many media compare Fan Cheng with Jay Chou and follow him. And going to a party, a friend jokingly called him "Dong on Tuesday", which made him very embarrassed. Because of unbearable pressure, they broke up after dating for less than three months. Later, Patty Hou tried to associate with other men, but they all gave up halfway for similar reasons. "Once you have a girlfriend, you will always be an enemy. It seems that I will never escape you. " One day in June 5438+February 2008, Patty Hou joked with Jay Chou that this incident made Jay Chou very sad. At this time, Jay Chou realized that he was close to the limit in music and it was difficult to make a new breakthrough, so he decided to develop in other fields. He spent a lot of money on the film "Slam Dunk", but the box office was not ideal. Since his debut, Jay Chou has spent a lot of time and time together, and almost never suffered setbacks. The sudden blow made him very depressed. "I'm really unlucky. Nothing that touched me has a good result, and nothing that touched me has a good result. " At the beginning of 2009, Jay Chou and his good friend Fang Gang celebrated the New Year together. After a few more drinks, he complained to the other side with a little drunk. As he spoke, he suddenly popped out: "It's boring to live like this. Why don't I quit the entertainment circle? " As soon as the words came out, he was shocked. Fang Gang gave him an oblique look: "Good, so others will tell Patty Hou that it is a good thing for you to break up with Jay Chou." This sentence, like a cold water, suddenly woke Jay Chou up. Yes, besides Patty Hou, there are his mother, other relatives, hundreds of company employees and tens of thousands of fans behind him ... How can he be a loser with so many expectations? "Pei cen, let's try again together, ok? There will be good people and good works. One day, we will all get better. " One day, Jay Chou told Patty Hou that Patty Hou nodded thoughtfully. Soon, Jay Chou was involved in the production of the idol drama pandaren. Drawing on the experience of the previous two times, this time he made great efforts in script, shooting, publicity, packaging and other aspects. On February 20 10, the drama premiered in Taiwan Province province, ranking fifth in the ratings, and its "golden attraction" was even more surprising, attracting NT$ 6,543.8 billion. He followed closely, releasing his tenth new album "Through the Times". Less than half a month after its launch, the sales volume exceeded one million. To Jay Chou's delight, even in "The Loyal Wife", Patty Hou's love affair has progressed, sparking with financial genius Huang Bojun. Huang Bojun, tall and rich, is the girl's favorite Prince Charming. What Patty Hou values most is his status as an outsider and his gentle and honest personality. Huang Bojun was also very satisfied with Patty Hou and took her home to introduce her to her parents in advance. However, just as they were getting better, what worried Patty Hou the most happened. 20 10 February, Patty Hou's mother blurted out to a close friend that her family education was very strict, so Patty Hou never spent the night outside even during her relationship with Jay Chou. The close friend actually revealed it to a weekly magazine. The next day, the weekly reported on the front page: "Jay Chou is willing to be Liu Xiahui, and Patty Hou is still a virgin." When the news came out, the entertainment circle was in an uproar. Such a private matter has been put on the table to give orders. Patty Hou felt humiliated and angry, but in the end she was helpless-who let her have a famous ex-boyfriend? The word "Jay Chou" is like a huge whirlpool. Whoever touches something will soon be involved, and there will be no peace. Huang Bojun and his family were obviously shocked. In order not to show off, the whole family decided to cancel the wedding scheduled for September 20 10. He once again dragged Patty Hou into trouble. He has been calm since he apologized. When interviewed by the media, he was furious and bluntly said: "Bullying women is the most taboo thing for pandaren and the Green Hornet (note that both are characters in pandaren)." Some friends in the circle also expressed their support for Jay Chou. Weekly finally had to bow to Patty Hou and apologize. For Jay Chou, it's not over. 20 10 in may, Jay Chou told Huang Bojun through a good friend: petzen is a good girl and deserves the best love. I know that what you can give her most is a practical happiness. From this point of view, I can never compare with you. "Huang Bojun was surprised and moved by the opening of Jay Chou. He also told Jay Chou frankly that he understood that Patty Hou was innocent in this storm, but it was impossible to say that his mood was not fluctuating at all. But from now on, he decided to let bygones be bygones and be her lifelong harbor. " I believe, because of your affection for Peizen, she must be a very, very good girl. Otherwise, with your eyes and experience, you wouldn't cherish her so much now. "Huang Bojun said with a smile, two people's hands tightly hold together. 20 10 One day in August, Patty Hou officially announced his love affair with Huang Bojun, and announced that the wedding date was set for the end of the year. "I have already started to try on the wedding dress. It doesn't matter whether it's expensive or not, but there must be a lot of lace, so it will look more like a princess. "Facing the flash, Patty Hou smiled shyly and sweetly. At this time, Jay Chou is watching this scene happily by himself. On his mobile phone, there is a short message just sent by Patty Hou: "I can finally lean on a person's arms and grow old quietly." When reading this sentence, Jay Chou was slightly sad and melancholy, but more happy. Because he finally fulfilled her happiness after giving her so much hurt and pain.