Sometimes, the benevolence of doctors is just bullshit

In a place like a hospital, the people who come in and out every day are either people who are worried about their lives or suffering from physical problems, doctors, nurses and other staff, or family members of patients.

In this place, various dramas are performed every day, some are thrilling, some are false alarms, some are life and death.

This may be familiar to people who work in hospitals, but for family members or patients, this is the first time in their lives. However, such a "first time" did not receive the most basic attention and respect from the hospital staff.

Sometimes I can’t help but wonder: Isn’t the hospital a place to treat illnesses and save lives? But why do people working in hospitals not even have the most basic respect for life? It's ridiculous, sad, deplorable, and ironic enough.

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Last week, I accompanied my mother to the hospital for a physical examination. The process was full of twists and turns. Not to mention the fact that the doctor made us wait for him/her all day long, but his attitude of saying you are fine for one moment and then saying something might be wrong for the next is enough to prove that this doctor's professional ethics is not very good.

Isn’t being responsible for patients the most basic professional ethics for doctors? Why, in the hands of some people, has it become a way to make extra money and earn dirty money? The morning examination report came out and I showed it to him. He said you were fine, but he still refused to give up and asked you to wait for him in the afternoon so that he could help you with further examinations. After the examination, I was told that your physical condition is rare and I don’t know what the problem is. Please, even if you want to cheat patients out of their extra money, don't be so mean.

Although it is undeniable that doctors are also a profession, doctors are also human beings, and doctors also have to consider their own survival issues, but come on, who doesn’t do this in this world?

As doctors, you can’t put your patients’ lives and safety in your hands just for your own selfish desires, right? If this is really the case, are you still worthy of being a doctor? Is there any medical ethics?

If you think about it this way, the so-called "doctors' benevolence" is nothing more than a joke, especially for those doctors who only have "money" in their eyes. Once you don't bribe them according to their ideas, they will use all kinds of means to scare you. If they can't scare you to death, then you are destined to die, haha.

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I really want to know what those little nurses are busy with all day long. They are so impatient just to answer a call from a patient. Do the patients care about themselves? I'm really sick, is it all my fault?

There is a kind of pain called "empathy". Can anyone who works as a nurse in a hospital ensure that all their family members are physically and mentally healthy and will not be succumbed to illness? If so, then I will also become a nurse. I just hope that everyone in my family can be healthy, safe and happy.

If not, then as the nurse who answers the phone at the front desk, is she responsible for the patients who call to inquire about their physical condition? As a nurse graduate, do you really not know how to read a diagnostic report? If so, I advise you to go back to the drawing board and rebuild the "basic professional ethics of a nurse". Otherwise, your "secret" "not knowing" will really scare the patient to death.

Perhaps, only when you have experienced this kind of worry and fear yourself will you know your original words of "I don't know", "I can't read", "I don't have time to explain to you, Come and get the results yourself” is so unsettling and worrying for patients.

The world is really desolate.

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In my understanding, the benevolence of doctors is the most basic professional ethics and qualities of a medical staff. Treating patients seriously and responsibly, with benevolence, respect and Respect every sick individual and sincerely care about the suffering of patients.

Instead of doing what some doctors do, in order to get patients to bribe themselves, they can use any means.

First, he is very friendly to you, because at that time, he seems to have seen a fat fish that he can slaughter in front of him, and he can play with it; after a period of time, he may think in his heart , why didn’t you give me the money in private? You really don’t understand the principles of life, okay, then I will make things difficult for you and let you know what it feels like not to bribe me. At that time, he will use all kinds of means to wage psychological warfare with you and force you to bribe him as soon as possible. , if the patient is not smart at this time, he can only wait to be tortured.

There are also those little nurses who are numb inside and don’t understand the sufferings of patients. They don’t know what they are busy with all day long. They are so impatient even when they connect to the patient’s phone. I really feel that their professionalism as a nurse is in vain. After learning, they don’t even have the most basic professional qualities. If such people who don’t know how to respect life and value the suffering of others become doctors, it would be a real disaster.

In a place where patients are treated and saved, the medical staff there do not respect life itself, so what qualifications do they have for such a sacred profession?

Hey, sometimes, the benevolence of doctors is just nonsense, a beauty fabricated by idealists. In fact, the reality is real and cruel.