What exists is reasonable.

I often listen to people with so-called social experience and advise young people who are out of date to say that "what exists is reasonable", which means that you should get used to it and "adapt to society instead of teaching society to adapt to you". I've heard a lot, and I often resent it, but I don't know how to refute it.

I remember when I was studying in Xi 'an, I once ate in a small restaurant near Shaanxi Normal University. When talking about personal problems, the three girls in the next seat said: It is better to marry well if you study well, and it is better to live well if you marry well. After listening to this, I suddenly felt very inhuman. In this era where we live, you can see everything in the world, and how many things are incredible. Aspiring youth has become a joke, angry youth-young people who eat dung, don't blame society, it is a skill to get it ... hey! What's the use of personal struggle? If you don't work hard, you will get results. The meaning of survival in our time is more humble than ever ... A society like China is always hard to understand. There is a China proverb abroad: The longer you live in China, the less you know about China. I feel the same way. How to describe the feeling in this situation: antinomy or contradiction. It seems that how much effort I have spent to get rid of the situation will be denied at once and I need to go back to the beginning. It's hard, it's confusing, it's confusing. I don't know which is progress and which is retrogression.

People call me bookish, student-like, bookish. Isn't that nice? I just love being serious and I'm not used to being confused. Internet search, this sentence first came from Hegel (alas, how poor our nation is! Even if you talk about your own problems, you should quote the words of foreigners. However, Hegel seems to have said at another time and place: the living conditions of the bottom people in China are the most miserable in the world. Like farmers, like prisoners. What exists is reasonable! People with vested interests use this unpleasant folk discourse to paralyze the weak, while those who are unlucky and suffering use it to anesthetize themselves and realize self-comfort. The psychological balance has been adjusted: the competition for social survival is so severe that it is too late to seek the future. How dare you be dissatisfied?

The following is a passage on page 45/kloc-0 of Principles of Dialectical Materialism and Historical Materialism, the third edition edited by Li Xiulin, Renmin University of China Press: Hegel said, "Everything that is rational is realistic; Everything in reality is rational, which profoundly reveals the dual functions of social consciousness as human rationality in maintaining and criticizing social reality. All realities are reasonable, which undoubtedly reflects the maintenance of reality by consciousness. " However, in Hegel's view, all existing realities are by no means unconditional. In his view, the attribute of reality is only inevitable at the same time (Selected Works of Marx and Engels, Volume IV, Page 2 1 1).

It can be seen that we have distorted and smeared Hegel to what extent! But then you will jump out and laugh at me: silly X, what's the use of saying that in detail? Ah! It turns out that in your opinion, even the meaning of that sentence itself is meaningless. You just pick it up and use it. As said in "Water of surging waves", it turns out that the truth can be squeezed like this, and you can squeeze it into any shape you want. Most of our reasons are fallacies, and the so-called fallacies are all right.

China people constantly twist themselves to adapt, and finally go too far, so that they forget that at the beginning, they will always be fun and never have a mental crisis. It seems that for thousands of years, the cruel, severe and indifferent realistic pressure has turned the meaning of our nation's existence into an extreme animal. Just like the dark and sunny grandmother in Ghost Story. The real mainstream is actually the residue of the' culture' of the bottom untouchables and hooligans, and we have brought our cleverness to the extreme. The so-called rare confusion is just another name for numbness, playing dumb and fried dough sticks.

I remember watching a program about Russian national culture on Phoenix Satellite TV once, in which there was a commentary saying:/kloc-At the end of the 9th century, those ladies would rather give up their status, wealth and social circle and go to Siberia with their husbands exiled by the czar government ... Hegel said that existence is reasonable, but in the eyes of Russians, it is nonsense ... It really moved me and impressed me! But in China, what's the saying? Listen: husband and wife are birds in the same forest. When disaster comes, they fly separately. In ancient times, there was so-called loyalty, which was mostly forced out by feudal ethics. Now, what's more, they are all bitches and memorial archways, but they are muttering about personality liberation. Visible, today, the meaning of China people's existence has been unknown to what extent. However, when we know men wisely, we should not be vulgar, marginalized, despised and laughed at. We must work hard! We also want to have a successful career in society and live a happier and more fulfilling life, which poses a greater challenge to our lives!