Jokes and jokes about asking for leave.

At 8: 03 in the morning, I got off the bus with Jingyuan. On the way to school, Jingyuan said, Dad, I want you to pick me up from school, so I want you to pick me up from school.

Me: Wow, thank you, I found that you love your father more and more! (Actually, I'm embarrassed. . . )

Jingyuan: Dad, can you pick me up?

Me: Your school time is 16: 00 pm. If I want to pick you up, I will ask for leave from work at 14: 30. (expressing his embarrassment)

Jingyuan: Of course. Just ask for leave to pick me up (very refreshing. . . )

Me: Then I'll take four hours off (to express my difficulties).

Jingyuan: Of course (I think you are so calm, you are good at taking care of yourself).

Me: In that case, I'll make less X money. (the influence of expression)

Jingyuan: Dad, how much do you want for an hour? (The child is thinking)

Me: about x hundred x ten dollars (I estimated it)

Jingyuan: How much is it for four hours? (Continue to think)

Me: Then do the math yourself. X yuan an hour. How about two hours? (Guide children to combine mathematics with life)

Jingyuan: x yuan.

Me: What about three hours? Four hours (continue to boot)

Jingyuan: X yuan (I will respond as soon as I finish the calculation, all of which are hundreds or dozens of accumulations, and some of them surprise me)

Me: I find that your computing power is getting stronger and stronger! My memory is also very good, and my reaction is getting faster and faster! Appreciating and affirming children immediately will make them full of confidence in this calculation and increase their self-worth.

Jingyuan: Never mind. Just come and pick me up (very calm).

Me: Thank you for liking Dad so much. I wonder how much I can buy with so much money. (Guide children to the concept of money)

Jingyuan: If you buy QQ candy, 1 yuan a pack, then you can buy X- 100 -X packs. My favorite QQ candy, I immediately thought of it.

Me: Your logical ability is getting better and better! (Appreciate and affirm children)

Me: One pizza in 50 yuan, two meals 100 yuan. So how many pizzas can I eat? (Children like pizza very much)

Jingyuan: I quickly said that I want xx rice. I don't know how he worked it out, but I was really surprised.

Me: Ah! It's done too fast. How did you do that? I am curious. I'm still thinking. Can you teach me? Your computing power is really getting stronger and stronger! (Appreciate again)

Jingyuan: Ha ha ha ha. I smiled. Very happy (he is very happy to be appreciated)

Then I went to the school gate. (It seems that nothing has been handled, haha)

Jingyuan: Give me your schoolbag quickly and recite it before crossing the street. The backpack is really heavy. I helped him with his backpack, and he took a light meal bag. He didn't even ask me to pick him up after school this afternoon, because he is very happy now and has no negative emotions in his heart.

Then my son and I will give me five! Say: Dad loves you! I often say to my children: I love you! )

Jingyuan went to school by herself.

In this process, my harvest is:

1. In fact, there is no need to deal with things in a hurry. Just open your heart and express your feelings and situation, and the children will adjust themselves.

In the book "Children, I care about your emotions", it is also mentioned that when parents try to understand their children's emotions, children will explore their own solutions. This book is also the one I recently explained to you at the Smart Parents Reading Club.

Sometimes you can guide and appreciate children properly, and you will reach a state that is good for you and me.

It is important that children have a better concept of numbers and can combine them with life. Of course, I have been practicing this song for some time. As long as I insist, it will definitely have an effect, and the children's concept of financial management will become clearer and clearer.

When your mind is relaxed, the child receives comfort.

Express love and appreciation in time, do it gently and persistently, and eventually the energy will be full and the color will bloom.

Welcome to pay attention to local psychology, and will continue to share the case of parent-child growth that happened to me. Thank you!

Let's study together, grow together, meet better ourselves and meet better children!