Why do some people like to joke?

Sometimes, when we communicate with the people closest to us, we unconsciously express our thoughts and feelings in a joking tone. There is also some truth in these joking words, either our deep feelings or our true attitude towards life. In this article, I want to share some of my real feelings after joking.

Perhaps my deepest impression was when my girlfriend and I first started dating. We played a joke together, and I asked her, "Do you know? If you leave me now, I will go to practice, never get married and have children, and concentrate on practice! " Then, I immediately changed my mind and said, "Don't go, I only like you in my life!" " She smiled, then blushed and said, "It's very kind of you to say so." "This sentence doesn't look like a joke, but at that time I did express my love in a joking tone.

In another chat with a friend, I said, "If time can go back, I choose not to associate with you, so that I can be free for a few more days." The friend immediately replied, "If you don't come, you'll leave. I'll be lonely without anyone to accompany me." In fact, I was joking in front of everyone, but my friend's answer made me feel that he really cared about me, and his words also made me realize the power and significance of loyalty to my friends.

Another time, I chatted with another good friend. I thought he had some difficulties, but he was too embarrassed to ask directly, so he said in a joking tone, "Do you know? When we were young, we dreamed of making a lot of money to buy a mansion, but now we don't know how to do it. " This sentence seems relaxed and humorous, but it actually hides my worries and worries about their economic situation.

These examples are just the tip of the iceberg. In fact, we all have such examples around us. When communicating with the closest people, we can always find some joking topics, but behind these topics, our true feelings and attitudes are often hidden. To some extent, the topic of our jokes is not a real joke, but an expression of our true feelings, which is just covered up in a relaxed tone.

Therefore, when we communicate with the people closest to us, we should always be sincere and frank, and don't hide our true feelings behind jokes. We should learn to tell them our thoughts and feelings bluntly, so as to express our love and care more truly. After all, love must be sincere in order to truly feel its temperature and strength.