The monthly salary of 17,000 is given to my wife. My mother is sick and needs 2,000 and she can’t afford it. What should I do?

If you give your monthly salary of 17,000 to your wife, and your mother is sick, your wife will "cannot give it" instead of "not giving it to you". The difference between the two is very big!

The man who makes 17,000 a month in salary will not give you even 2,000 when his mother is in hospital. Such a woman is purely "alternative". I believe that a man with a monthly salary of 17,000 will not find such a wife. , if your wife is really the kind of woman who cares about money, you would have discovered it long ago, and you wouldn't give her all your monthly salary!

No matter how beautiful and powerful a woman is, she should still understand this kind of human accident. It is normal for women to have petty fights and have a temper. If she can really do this, she is not a "human" If you do what you did, leave immediately. Finding such a wife has a lot to do with you. A "slap will never make a difference"!

If your wife really "can't afford it", it means that your family expenses are usually relatively large, such as credit cards, car loans, house loans, children, food, drinks, and other expenses every month. It’s your wife who manages it. It looks like you have a very high salary of 17,000, but in fact, you are living on a monthly basis. You should know the monthly income and expenditure of the family best...

The so-called "honest officials are hard to judge" "Housework", the trivial matters of family life are all accumulated over time. Without a cause, there is no effect. In our country, everyone understands that "filial piety" comes first. Your wife also has parents, and she will also get sick one day.

There is nothing wrong with giving your monthly salary to your wife, but there is no need to give it all to your wife if she can only get in and out. If the old woman is sick and can't get out 2,000 yuan, it proves that your wife has no filial piety. You should be careful about this kind of woman.

Now the old woman needs 2,000 yuan to get sick, which means it is not a serious illness. But when people get old, there are times when they need to spend a lot of money, so what do you do? What should I do when I don’t even have 2,000, but I need 20,000 or 200,000? So, borrow 2,000 from your colleagues first, and then you can decide whether it is necessary to hand over your salary starting next month.

In fact, it is normal for a family man to hand over his salary. This is a sign of loving his wife. If a family has its own expenses, is it still a marriage? I didn’t even do this part of trust!

But if the wife is too tight on money and doesn’t help her husband’s family when something goes wrong, it’s because the man chose his wife wrongly. There are still some truly reasonable women. Mother-in-law is mother. A good woman treats her mother-in-law as mother.

Some chauvinist men think that they earn their own money, so why should they leave it to their wives to manage! I take care of food and housing but not money for my wife. I can tell you for sure that women have complaints, but they don’t say them. This also has to do with personality. Try meeting a strong woman!

My husband is very strong, but he turns in his monthly salary. I prepare a good supply of cigarettes and alcohol every month, and his friends all laugh at him for being henpecked. Can you say he is afraid of me? No, he just values ??his wife and his family! Whether he needs money or my parents-in-law are in poor health and need money, I will give it to them. People’s hearts are made of flesh. It’s better for you than for me. A good wife also depends on how much a man has paid?

Managing a marriage is also a science. If everyone has selfish motives, then this marriage will not last long! Men's responsibilities and women's care for the family are complementary to each other. Only when women take good care of the family and children at home and honor their parents-in-law can men roll up their sleeves and work hard outside.