It is said that women chase men's barrier yarns. Why can't I catch them?

Don't think that if there are more men than women, the bride price will be high. There is a saying in China that men chase women across the mountain and women chase men across the veil. A girl has a crush on a boy. A little hint, a finger hook, the boy will come up like a pug. I want to tell the girl: impossible! Girls have to accept two facts.

1. Boys also have the right to choose. Boys will not treat any girl as a treasure, because they are at a disadvantage, have little choice, are under great social pressure and have strong physiological needs. Marriage is not a question of who is active and who is passive, but a question of mutual choice. If a boy has no feelings for you, he won't go to trouble for three seconds of pleasure. Boys know how to weigh and choose best, so girls should first understand whether a boy has feelings for you, and don't be blind and confident.

Second, the door is right. The important words are said three times, and the door is right! Suitable. Yes! Suitable. Yes! Jiao Da won't fall in love with Sister Lin. Even if she met and saved her life, it would be difficult to be happy if she got pregnant unexpectedly for some reason. Only the same class has the same language and living habits, and it is difficult for different classes to understand each other. Poverty limits your imagination, and wealth will block your eyes, so that you can't see the diversity of life. Not yours. It's no use chasing. This is also a joke. A truly stable marriage is when two people are in balance. Confession is only the first step, and there is still a long way to go. If the gap between you is too big, this kind of love is very tiring. Your road to growth and transformation is also very difficult, so be prepared psychologically. Because there is such a sentence! In the past, the male culture was relatively low, and I thought it was enough to have a woman willing to follow me! And live in peace. But it's different now. The higher the level of knowledge, the better the choice of your partner! Men with strong utilitarianism will choose women who are beneficial to their own development! A man who values his heart will choose a woman who has the same topic hobbies. I'm not saying how beautiful a woman is. If she goes after a man, he will agree. If so, then the woman has regarded the man as someone who can be solved by beauty. Instead of knowing what kind of wife this man wants in his heart! In other words, there are many beautiful women around him, and you are not what he wants, so why choose you?

It is often said that a man chasing a woman is like a woman chasing a man through a veil, but things first depend on the feelings of both sides. In men's eyes, chasing women is the first feeling that they are on the right track. Through further contact, they feel that they often want to be with her and always want to see her, and she follows your steps. It's natural. It's the same on both sides. The feeling of being wrong will cause cracks on both sides, so there is no problem of chasing men over mountains or across veils.