If a man doesn’t take the initiative to contact you, does that mean he doesn’t love you? Listen to what men are saying?

The ancients said: "Not seeing you for one day is like three autumns." Men and women who are deeply in love are always prone to sentimentality and suspicion.

Perhaps, the other party didn’t reply to you in time, or didn’t take the initiative to come to see you, so you feel hopeless and feel that there is no way out for the relationship.

Especially women, women are the most sensitive and have rich imaginations. Even if it is a small thing, they can rely on their rich imagination to make themselves sad and confused.

Maybe, if a man just says something casually, a woman can feel that the man has changed his mind. But in fact, it was really just a man's casual words. The woman is attracted to her, and perhaps the man himself has forgotten what he said.

Especially, when men and women get along, if the man does not take the initiative to contact the woman, the woman will think more. The most frequent ones are "Does he not like me anymore?" It’s not that you don’t love me at all”.

But if a man doesn’t take the initiative to contact you, does it really mean he doesn’t love you? What are men thinking in their hearts? You will know if you listen to what these men say.

1. Cai Qiang, 28, is a courier. He said: To be honest, it’s not that I don’t love it, but that I don’t have confidence in myself. The woman I like is very good, but my conditions are too poor, so I dare not take the initiative to contact her.

If a man does not take the initiative to contact you, it does not necessarily mean that he does not love you. On the contrary, he may love you too much, but he does not dare to contact you because he lacks self-confidence.

In fact, it is not only women who underestimate themselves in love, but men too. Once they fall in love, there is no reason for them to speak. They always feel that the other person is too good and they always feel that they are worthy. Don’t fuck each other.

Therefore, when faced with someone they particularly like, men will also feel inferior. They will not dare to contact you, and they will be afraid that you will not respond if they take the initiative.

Think about it from another angle. If you take the initiative to send a message, but the other party doesn’t reply to you, isn’t it a joke? Or maybe the other party replies to you but rejects you. How can you accept it?

So, everyone will have an ostrich mentality. They would rather not contact the other party, not give the other party a chance to reject them, and still expect the other party to have feelings for them.

2. Wang Bo, 32 years old, is an ordinary employee of a company. He said: There is no way, my temperament is born like this. My wife says that I am too "straight" and do not consider women at all when I do things. thoughts.

The reason why a man does not take the initiative to contact women may be because he is born with such a temperament. He is relatively straight and does not think so much about it, so he does not expect to take the initiative to contact women all the time.

I am a straight man by nature. When my wife and I were still in a relationship, we had such an unexpected incident.

At that time, I was busy with work for a while. Every time I came back from work, I was late and very tired. I thought maybe she had already fallen asleep, so there was no need for me to bother her by sending her a message. She, so I almost never contacted her actively during that time.

When I finished my work and remembered to take the initiative to send her a message, I realized that I had been blocked by her.

Fortunately, I am a thick-skinned person and a big-hearted person. Before I could feel sad, I directly went to her company and asked her why she wanted to delete me.

She said that it was obvious that I had not taken the initiative to contact her, which meant that I no longer loved her. In this case, there was no need for her to cling to me shamelessly.

I realized how much misunderstanding I had caused by not contacting her proactively. Later, after getting along with her for a long time, she gradually understood that I have such a straight temperament, and gradually got used to it.

So, women need to know that if a man doesn’t take the initiative to contact you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. It’s very likely that he is too busy, too tired, and doesn’t want to disturb you.

3. Tao Yang, 27, has always been single and has many friends of the opposite sex around him, but he has no intention of establishing a relationship with them. Tao Yang said: If you don’t take the initiative to contact women, it is indeed not loving enough. If you really love, no matter how tired or busy you are, you will take the initiative to contact me.

Many women speculate that men don’t take the initiative to contact them because they don’t love them anymore. Then I can only say that women’s guesses are correct.

Although this is cruel, I have to admit that most men don’t take the initiative to contact you, maybe they are tired of it and are not willing to spend time on you.

A woman’s sixth sense is actually very accurate. Many things and feelings do not appear out of thin air. It is always the man’s actions that make women feel this way.

If I no longer love a woman and develop a tired feeling, I will no longer want to spend any extra thought on a woman, and I may not even be able to think of contacting her.

In fact, if a man cares about you, no matter how busy he is, as the first priority in his heart, he will take the initiative to send you a message to tell you not to worry. The reason for not wanting to pay attention to you is already obvious. .

After listening to the inner words of these three men, it is not difficult to find that there are many reasons why men do not take the initiative to contact women, some are intentional, and some are unintentional.

In fact, in my opinion, there are many ways to judge whether a man doesn’t love you anymore if he doesn’t take the initiative to contact you.

If a man just hasn’t contacted you for a while, then he may be like Wang Bo said, he has a straight temper, and he didn’t expect to contact you because of some things.

In fact, women should take the initiative sometimes. No matter what, if the relationship between two people wants to break the deadlock, there must be someone living with them.

If a man does not take the initiative to contact you for a long time, a woman can take the initiative to contact him. When you take the initiative to contact him, if a man replies to you a lot of messages right away, it is enough to prove that he does not love you, but just lacks self-confidence. If the other person treats you perfunctorily, then the fact that he has no feelings for you will also be obvious.

So, if a woman wants to know why a man doesn’t contact her, instead of making random guesses, she might as well take the initiative and see how the man reacts. After all, relationships are between two people, right?