When a wedding is held in the countryside, the whole family can eat after the guests finish the gift money. Why is the main family still happy?

First of all, people are happy when they are happy, and it is even better for people living in rural areas to worship their ancestors. Neighbors, relatives and friends get together to share happiness and celebrate together. In rural areas of China, villagers' committees are grass-roots administrative units with groups or teams. Residents in the same group are more like a big family. Because they live together day and night, aren't they more like relatives of a family? Anyone who has big things and small feelings will take the initiative to help and share. The long-standing rural life pattern will gradually become a rural custom in the future. There is no legal constraint, no government participation, and the people act spontaneously. Happy event dinner and toast, everyone is willing to get together, share a few days of worry-free, give 200 hearts, the main family is only for everyone. No matter how much the gift money is, it is only a symbol of reciprocity, and it will not be taken too seriously.

In rural areas, the popularity of farmers is the first. If a person's popularity is not good and there is no one at some wedding banquets, he will be looked down upon by others. Especially when the children at home get married and other guests come over, if you see many host families, it means that the host family is prosperous.

If the host family is few, in twos and threes, it gives people a feeling that the host family has low prestige in the village. Therefore, subjectively speaking, when holding a happy event, the host family especially hopes that the more people the better. After all, in today's well-off society, the host family doesn't mind a bite of rice, while the guests don't mind a bite of rice, mainly because people's living standards are better and they pursue a higher level. Therefore, the main reason why the host family wants the whole family to have dinner is the problem of their own face. After all, the more people there are, the more light there is on their faces, and the less people there are, the less they will naturally lose face.

Of course, rural people in the past were still very simple. No matter how many guests come to your wedding, you will make everyone eat delicious and happy, and you don't care if you eat a little money. But now that human feelings are getting thinner and thinner, everyone has begun to calculate economic accounts, but human accounts will not be ignored. After all, it is a happy event. There are many people, what's wrong with the excitement? Happy, of course.