Why do men lie?

Foreword Why do men love to lie? Why do men think they have to do everything right? Why don't men make promises to people easily? On the other hand, why do women always achieve their goals through tears? Why do they always catch a question and talk endlessly?

Why are they reluctant to ask for sex? The estrangement, misunderstanding and conflict between the two sexes existed as early as Adam and Eve, and still exist today in 2 1 century. We have spent nearly 30 years, through experiments, analyzing a large number of films, writing books, giving TV lectures and holding academic seminars to explore the differences between men and women. We also received a large number of letters, emails and phone calls, which raised thousands of questions about the differences between men and women. These questioners are all people who are puzzled and at a loss about the differences between men and women.

For example, on Sunday morning 1 the question that women have been pondering: "Why are men always interested in other women?" "Why does he always tell me what to do and what to think?" The book also answers questions that men are confused or ignored by their lovers when they wake up on Sunday morning, such as: "Why do women always beat around the bush?" "Why do women always nag?" "Why should I pick up my socks early on Sunday morning?" Women are always worried about the future before finding a husband; A man never worries about the future until he finds a wife. Modern science can explain why women like to nag, why they like to beat around the bush, why they like to inquire about the privacy of everyone around them, and why they rarely ask for sex on their own initiative.

Modern science also shows that men can't juggle, don't like shopping, and don't like asking for directions. They go fishing with a friend all weekend and don't ask each other's private lives. There are biological and evolutionary reasons. It explains many obvious but often overlooked facts: many women seem to have a physiological instinct, and they always like to carefully choose decorative cushions or rearrange the furniture at home (leading to tripping over their husbands who come home late at night); Few women can understand the pleasure of men watching the same sports video over and over again. Similarly, few men, like women, find it a great pleasure to find the designs of fashion masters from clearance goods. Why the situation of men and women has become so difficult now, and it is not easy to be a man. Since the 1960s, with the rising voice of women's rights and the development of women's rights movement, the suicide rate of women has decreased by 34%, while that of men has increased by 16%. However, the focus of social attention is still the fate of women.

In the late 20th century, due to women's constant struggle for freedom, men were often regarded as enemies, and family relations between the two sexes were extremely tense. Women's disgust makes men feel confused. Before that, the roles of men and women were clearly defined and divided. Man is the head of the family, the patron saint of the family and the provider of food and clothing for the whole family. A man's words are the law, and he should decide what is beyond doubt. And a woman should be a good wife and mother, and a man's helper. Men know their responsibilities, and women should know what they should do. Under this division of labor, life is very simple.

But suddenly, everything changed. Tv dramas and advertisements began to describe men as stupid and incompetent people, while women were more intelligent and outstanding. More and more women are calling for gender equality. The trouble is that in this movement, women seem to know what they want and the direction they should take, while men feel that they are behind the times. If a woman slaps a man in public, everyone will guess that the man must have made some mistakes. Men always seem unable to understand the new rule: if women call for equality with men, they will often win sympathy; If men call for equality between men and women, they will be insulted as misogynists. Nowadays, the jokes that belittle men far exceed the jokes that belittle women, and the ratio of the two is 10 1.

There is a joke circulating among women recently ―― a joke that makes men feel extremely discouraged: What is the definition of "man"? It is a life system that supports the survival of penis. This emotion of women is regarded as open hostility by most men. At present, it seems that a feeling of depression has swept a whole generation of men. There is no denying that the hostility of women is one of the factors that cause this kind of depression.

Now the suicide rate of men, women and children is higher than before, and the suicide rate of Japanese men is the highest. Now men don't know what they should be responsible for, and there is no clear gender role model to follow. Women's situation is also very difficult. Feminism begins with opposing gender inequality and promises to liberate women from the shackles of the kitchen. Today, about 50% of women in western society are working. In Britain,15 families are supported by single women, while only150 families are supported by single men. These single women should play the roles of mother, father and breadwinner at the same time. Gastric ulcer, heart disease and other stress-related diseases that have long plagued men are now beginning to plague women. It is estimated that the proportion of female college students suffering from bulimia is between 4% and 5%, while that of male college students is only 1/300.