Why can't some relatives see you?

This is because people are jealous, especially relatives, who think you are better than them, which makes them feel invisible pressure. They can turn a blind eye to the good life of others, and even their loved ones are even worse than they expected.

Many people feel this way. If you have something better than him among your relatives, although it looks good on the surface, there are always all kinds of malicious speculations behind it. Even you think you should send them flowers when you make money, otherwise you are heartless.

This kind of relative thinks: Isn't it natural to give us a little money? Lend them money and never hear from them again. If you don't pay back the money, you won't pay it back. Treat others as ATMs, they just can't see that you are doing well, and if you are not doing well, he will be happy.

This kind of relative thinks: Isn't it natural to give us a little money? Lend them money and never hear from them again. If you don't pay back the money, you won't pay it back. Treat others as ATMs, they just can't see that you are doing well, and if you are not doing well, he will be happy.

They don't want you to have a good life at all They laugh at you if you don't live well, but if you live well, you are the target of public criticism. They think you are a threat to them if you are doing well, but they are relieved if you are not doing well. Your good fortune means that he is not as good as you. If he is not as good as you, he must have a feeling in his heart that he wants to make you bad and drag you into his quagmire.

As the saying goes, the heart is separated from the belly. Living well will bring great stimulation to relatives. You can only express your disdain for your own psychology through slander in your words, so as to get comfort. Especially in the past, you were not as good as them, and now you are better than them, which makes them even more unbearable.

In fact, many people have this kind of psychology, and everyone wants to control the people close to them within their power, so as to better grasp the balance between the two. It's not so much that you want the other person not to live too well as that you want his living standard not to be too different from yours. When you suddenly have a successful career, it must be hard for the closest people to accept it.

Seeing that the clothes you wear are bigger than your own brand, the restaurants you eat are more upscale than your own, and the books you read are more difficult to understand than your own, you unconsciously feel inferior and lost. If your life is not a threat to others, then they are relieved, because once someone passes them, someone may stretch their legs and trip you up, saying that they are embarrassed.