After the 80-year-old man had a stroke, his children took turns living in a circle and finally went to the nursing home in tears.

Aunt Wang, 87, has lived in a nursing home for seven years. She said that she had almost forgotten what home was like.

One morning seven years ago, Aunt Wang got up and felt a little dizzy. I didn't have time to take antihypertensive drugs because I was in a hurry to go to the toilet.

As soon as I went out, I fell to the ground and never stood up again.

Aunt Wang had a stroke and the wheelchair became her companion for the rest of her life.

Aunt Wang's wife died more than ten years ago. She has four children, two sons and two daughters. The eldest son and two daughters live in the city, and she lives in the country with her youngest son.

Although I live in a yard with my youngest son, I usually live alone. She has a bad temper and can't get along with others. Her children are a little afraid of her.

After Aunt Wang's stroke, her children got together to discuss her future life.

Although the eldest son is younger than the two sisters, but the head of the whole family, he suggested that the old mother still live here with her youngest son, with the three sisters paying for it and the little daughter-in-law serving.

Daughter-in-law refused on the spot:

"Niang is what kind of person? You don't know that I can't serve her. " .

"His second aunt, you can serve my mother with snacks, and we can pay more money." The eldest daughter thought that her brother and daughter-in-law were unwilling to wait on her mother-in-law because of money.

Her words just say that finish, before kannika nimtragol to talk, the younger son said:

"Don't think that money makes the mare go. If you have money, you can take your mother home to serve and taste what it tastes like. "

Aunt Wang's youngest son is honest. He's been out of his mind for years. He said that he had lived with his mother for a long time and was forced out by her nagging and bullying.

So he usually speaks straight, and his sisters dare not provoke him. My sister was choked by him and never dared to speak again.

When the eldest son saw that his idea could not be implemented, he turned his attention to the second sister.

Second sister is a senior teacher. She usually doesn't talk much, but everything she says makes sense. She said:

"Let's stop arguing. Let's listen to mom and see what she wants."

Aunt Wang has long been anxious to speak. After hearing what the second daughter said, she hurriedly said:

"Don't put my old burden on the family. It's convenient for me to take turns living in your home. "

Now that I have said that, my children can't say anything else. The sisters agreed that my family would take turns living for one month.

So, Aunt Wang began to live in the children's house in turn.

Aunt Wang went to the eldest daughter's house first.

The eldest daughter's children are all married, and she and her husband live in a two-bedroom building.

The eldest daughter is a housewife and the eldest son-in-law has retired. Their children are very promising and well cared for. The couple live a very comfortable life.

Aunt Wang's arrival made their comfortable life even more uneasy. The face of the eldest son-in-law is covered with dark clouds all day, and there is no sunshine.

The eldest daughter's husband's family and mother's family are in the same village, and her in-laws have already had a big holiday because of their children.

Aunt Wang once hit her husband on the head with a brick. When a daughter and her son-in-law were in conflict, she chased her son-in-law all over the street because she was protecting her calf. After catching up, she also slapped her son-in-law in public.

This incident once became a joke in the streets and lanes, and it also became a knot that the eldest son-in-law could not solve.

After so many years, Aunt Wang and her daughter have forgotten all about it, but the eldest son-in-law has been obsessed with it. He has a long face and hasn't called his mother-in-law since she walked in the door.

In the evening, he also quarreled with his wife:

Son-in-law: "How long will your mother live here? She won't leave?"

Daughter: "I agree. We will take turns living together for a month. Why, don't you want to? " ?

Son-in-law: "A month is too long, who can stand your mother's temper"?

Daughter: "What happened to my mother? You don't have to wait on her, and she won't hit you or scold you. "

Son-in-law: "Why not? You forget how she chased me all over the street in the early years. You forgot, I didn't forget. "

The son-in-law turned over the old scores, and the eldest daughter was a little indefensible, but like her mother, she was never a vegetarian. She retorted angrily:

I can't forget what I can do. Can you throw her in the street?

Husband and wife are at odds, and you make a quarrel with me.

Aunt Wang lay on the hearth, listening to the quarrel between her daughter and her son-in-law, thinking about what happened that year.

The eldest daughter's mother-in-law is a mean woman and is not good to her daughter-in-law. At that time, Aunt Wang was so young that she could not rub sand in her eyes, not to mention her daughter being wronged. In addition, she is an unreasonable and unforgiving person, so she did not take a rational approach to her daughter's mother-in-law relationship.

As soon as her daughter and her mother-in-law have conflicts, she takes care of the calf, leans close to a village and often kills her daughter's mother-in-law. For a long time, she not only failed to help her daughter resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but made the contradiction accumulate deeper and deeper.

The son-in-law is a petty person, so he bears a grudge against her.

Later, after the daughter moved into the city and stayed away from her mother-in-law, the two families settled down.

Recalling the past, Aunt Wang felt very annoyed and even regretted that if she had been more rational and restrained, she would not have reached this point.

Although I didn't care about my son-in-law's smelly face, it was not a taste after all.

Fortunately, my daughter has a hard personality and can hold down her husband. The son-in-law is dissatisfied and dare not show too much. She just put on a bad face. Otherwise, aunt Wang really doesn't know where to put this old face

Aunt Wang lives in her eldest daughter's house, feeling embarrassed and wronged, but it's hard to say it.

So, like a year, she thought about what to do next.

After a month, it's time to go to the second daughter's house.

Aunt Wang's second daughter is a senior teacher, and her teaching level is well-known in the circle. Her second son-in-law is an official cadre, cautious and unsmiling.

Aunt Wang is very dissatisfied with the rigid behavior of her second son-in-law. She was not optimistic about her daughter's marriage.

At that time, the second son-in-law was just an office clerk, and her daughter was a famous talented woman in this area. She thinks her daughter deserves a better husband.

So she looked down on this son-in-law, and there was no relationship between her mother-in-law and her son-in-law.

After the daughter got married, an unpleasant episode happened because of her intervention, which almost disabled her son-in-law.

The second son-in-law neither warmly welcomed nor opposed her arrival. He is a cadre, but he still has some achievements. Even if he has bad feelings, he will not hang on his face like a big son-in-law.

Every morning and evening, the second son-in-law will greet Aunt Wang mechanically, which makes her feel embarrassed and even powerless.

Aunt Wang knows that the second son-in-law keeps a respectful distance from others because of the wounds left before.

The house where the second daughter lives is divided by the son-in-law unit. After the daughter gave birth, her mother-in-law was here to help them take care of the children.

On one occasion, Aunt Wang came to the city to see a doctor and lived in her second daughter's house. In the evening, my mother and I live in the same room.

"One mountain can't accommodate two tigers". At that time, Aunt Wang and her mother were both in their fifties, the most heroic age in their lives.

Two people were lying in bed, boasting about their children, and there was a strong smell of alcohol in their words. One emphasizes that the house is divided by the son, and the other emphasizes that the daughter is talented.

Aunt Wang is a woman who wants to get the upper hand in everything. She can't tolerate her in-laws pressing her head, and her in-laws talk about the house, which makes her very angry:

"What's the big deal about independent apartments? I didn't spend a penny. Didn't I pay some money? There is no share of my daughter in this money? Besides, with my daughter's talent, if I hadn't married your rigid son, I might have become the director or the wife of the county magistrate. "

As soon as my mother heard Aunt Wang say that her son is a rigid person, she immediately turned her face. When they quarrel, the louder they are.

Everyone who lives here comes from the same organization. The daughter and son-in-law were afraid that their colleagues would hear jokes, so they quickly came over to stop the fight.

Aunt Wang, who is unreasonable and unforgiving, won't listen to advice. She scolded her son-in-law regardless of her illness.

A good-looking second son-in-law jumped off the balcony in the angry voice of Aunt Wang. Fortunately, my daughter lives on the second floor and there is a lawn downstairs. The son-in-law is only injured in the waist, and other parts are not serious.

From then on, the second son-in-law learned about her mother-in-law's temper, kept her at a respectful distance from her and had little contact.

Aunt Wang's life in her second daughter's house was not a grievance, but it was not very satisfactory. She always feels stumbling and doesn't talk much all day, for fear of causing trouble to her son-in-law.

She lost weight until she went to her eldest son's house.

When the eldest son came to pick up Aunt Wang, he saw that she had lost a lot of weight and almost shed tears. There is nothing to say in front of her sister and brother-in-law.

On the way to the eldest son's house, Aunt Wang said to her son:

Son, why don't you send me to a nursing home? I'm afraid my temper is unpopular anywhere.

The eldest son sighed. He knows that my mother is definitely not welcome at my sister's house, otherwise he wouldn't say such a thing.

He said to Aunt Wang:

"Mom, the past is over, don't take it to heart, just pay attention later."

Although my son's words made Aunt Wang happy, I still had concerns in my heart. She had a problem with her eldest daughter-in-law, and her eldest daughter-in-law should be in her heart.

I had a fight with my eldest daughter-in-law's parents when I was babysitting at my eldest son's house.

Aunt Wang knows that this is really wrong for her and blames herself for being narrow-minded and not allowing outsiders.

At that time, the eldest son lived in a one-bedroom house. She looks after the children during the day and sleeps in the living room at night.

The eldest daughter-in-law's sister came to study in the city and wanted to stay at her sister's house for a while. My son and daughter-in-law were very happy. My son set a spring bed for her on the balcony.

Aunt Wang can't help but say to her daughter-in-law.

"Your sister wants to live here, so I won't look after the children for you here. Inconvenient. Please find someone else. " .

Mother-in-law said such a thing, apparently in order to get rid of her sister, the eldest daughter-in-law was annoyed, and she launched a temper at her husband:

"Is this what your mother said?" ?

Aunt Wang's son heard his wife say something disrespectful to his mother and slapped her. Seeing this, the elder daughter-in-law's sister was so scared that she left with her luggage.

The next day, when Aunt Wang was secretly pleased with her sister who squeezed out her daughter-in-law, the parents of the eldest daughter-in-law came.

She knocked on her daughter's door early in the morning.

Aunt Wang opened the door. When she saw her mother standing at the door, she knew something was wrong, so she greeted her with a smile.

In-laws, you're early. You are fine this morning, aren't you?

"What's good, what's bad, just be good to yourself". My mother pulled her aside, sat down on the sofa and shouted to her son-in-law who hadn't got up yet:

Get up and prepare a place for me. I want to live here. I can't stay from today.

Aunt Wang's son knew, and her mother-in-law was furious. This was revenge for her daughter. He is afraid of things make big, respectfully put in a good word for his mother-in-law:

Ok, ok, I'll let my mother go back. You live here.

He is a bully. Aunt Wang knew that her eldest daughter-in-law's parents were troublesome, so she packed her things and went back to the country until her eldest son changed his new house and never came again.

Living in the eldest son's house, the eldest daughter-in-law didn't show anything on the surface, but when the eldest son was not at home, her face grew long, and when she took care of Aunt Wang, she fell and hit her face impatiently.

"Tigers don't bite when they are old." When watching the eldest daughter-in-law take care of herself, she felt unwilling to look down. Aunt Wang gnashed her teeth in her stomach and could only bear it silently.

Finally, one day, she couldn't stand it anymore and cried to her eldest son.

"Son, take me to a nursing home. Even if the conditions are similar, I will not go door to door. Everything in the world has a cause and effect. Your mother deserves it. I won't get you into trouble or blame you. "

Aunt Wang's eldest son, watching my mother sad, also shed tears. Although all the stupid things I did before were for my children, people hold grudges. He has no right or ability to persuade his brother-in-law or influence his wife.

So he had to respect my mother's decision and discuss with her two sisters, brothers and daughters-in-law, and the sisters paid for her to go to a nursing home together.

Aunt Wang lived in a nursing home for seven years. In these seven years, although the children will visit her occasionally, she is completely isolated from the outside world, and her neighbors and old sisters in the countryside have become the past and memories.

In those days when she quarreled with her in-laws, her son-in-law and daughter-in-law became her most memories. She often told her daughter and son who came to see her that if she could live again, she would not do those stupid things if she was killed.

Those things seem to have won at first, winning face and mood, but finally losing people's heart and affection.

Gorky said: "It is one thing for hens to love their children", and each of us loves our children deeply.

But this kind of love should be based on respecting others and not hurting others. Those who fight and kill their loved ones for the sake of their children, regardless of their feelings and discretion, may eventually hurt themselves.

Because no one can really forgive others, and no one has the obligation to pay for your mistakes. Even the people closest to you will feel sorry for your mistakes.

If Aunt Wang Can had understood these truths earlier, she might not have spent her old age in a nursing home, and the happiness of her children and grandchildren would always be with her.

Cause and effect are true: the world will treat you as you treat the world; If you are kind, the world will treat you well, and if you are kind, the world will treat you well.