What do optimistic Sichuanese look like in my eyes?

There is an earthquake in Jiuzhaigou. An online article "Why Sichuanese are Fascinated by Optimism" is also very popular. This paper analyzes the source of optimism of Sichuanese from the perspective of psychology and history. Just seeing this title, I feel that the whole world is bright and empathetic!

Did you find out? Every time there is an earthquake in Sichuan, jokes about Sichuan people when they encounter an earthquake will begin to spread on the Internet.

Small paragraph:

"When the aftershocks were predicted, the whole family took refuge in the playground of Dad's company. There is a family next to them. They also lit a lamp and told us to sit under it. Our family is grateful. The father of that family said, it's good that you are here. Will you come out to play mahjong? "

In the face of disasters, people's psychological panic is normal and inevitable, but panic and its spread are often catalysts to aggravate the development of the situation and obstacles to psychological repair and reconstruction. Looking at the reactions of local people around the world after the earthquake, you will find that there has never been a place where people can joke and joke so calmly and easily like Sichuanese, and this ability even exceeds the role of psychological counselors, so that people who have experienced it can quickly recover from psychological panic. This is really a natural superpower of Sichuanese.

What is true optimism? It is a powerful psychological self-repair ability after the crisis. In addition to fear and sadness, there is optimism and openness, and you can smile with tears in your eyes.

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The word "optimism" focuses on the word "happiness". Sichuanese's optimism stems from their natural sense of humor.

Anyone who has friends in Sichuan must be like me. Whenever I think of them, I always think of a joke or humorous words they once said, and I have a smile on my face. Then, they will always laugh for no reason. Even when I am alone, I feel very warm when I think about it.

Sichuanese are born with a sense of humor. They like to say things in the opposite direction and make a "lively" tone in a serious and tense atmosphere.

A colleague is very enthusiastic and likes to share the snacks he bought with everyone when his stomach starts to growl after work in the afternoon. Think about your office. Usually in this case, everyone will politely "give it to you", "thank you" and "delicious". Is that so? Then, if you buy today, he will buy tomorrow, keeping the dynamic balance of reciprocity among colleagues: you don't owe me, I don't owe you.

However, he didn't. Every time you take out delicious food, you just throw it on our table, and then you shout, "It's almost overdue, so eat three quickly." Ha, ha, ha, in fact, everything is very new, but we helped him become a human favor. After a burst of laughter, everyone began to eat without any burden.

I have always felt that zero psychological burden is a state that Sichuanese hope to achieve and bring to others.

My friend told me that they once passed a dangerous mountain road in go on road trip, and the warning sign on the roadside said: Beware of the gravel falling from the mountain! Several cars are driving carefully. Suddenly, the car in front stopped suddenly, and then heard a "crash". Everyone was shocked, stopped quickly, opened the door and ran out to see what had happened.

It turned out that a big stone fell from the mountain, just in front of the leading car, only about one meter away from the front of the car. Wow, that was close! The driver was pale, and everyone stood around, looking shocked and at a loss. The atmosphere was really tense for a few seconds. ......

At this moment, a Sichuan dialect suddenly appeared in the crowd, saying, "Oh, it's much more comfortable when the wool is knitted." Sichuan dialect itself has a sense of joy, and it feels as if hope has been smashed, but it has failed. Everyone laughed hysterically. My tight heart suddenly relaxed just now. When they came to their senses, they quickly removed the stones and left the danger zone safely.

I always feel that Sichuanese and Sichuanese always have some magical power to resolve the tense and stressful atmosphere.

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Further exploring the root causes, Sichuan people's optimism really stems from their special love for life, and they can always lead an ordinary and plain life to life.

Sichuanese are famous for eating, playing mahjong and enjoying a comfortable life. This is not to say that people who have nothing to do are like this, but that everyone is like this. Without opportunities, they can also create all opportunities to do these things that they love very much.

When doing projects in Chengdu, jobs like ours are busy. The client is in the United States, and the project team that works every night has normal classes only on Fridays. You must never ignore the thing of "having dinner together at noon on Friday". There is a QQ group in the group to discuss: "Where to eat at noon on Friday?" "Where to play on weekends?" These two most important topics in life. And everyone is surprisingly consistent: no matter how troublesome it is, the time and place are hard to find. You have to drive, organize a group, make an appointment in advance and arrive all the way.

No wonder, food in Chengdu is really everywhere. Just a small restaurant, a fish-flavored shredded pork, all authentic Sichuan cuisine. Not enough to eat. Call friends, have fun eating hot pot, have a long story, tell jokes and make an appointment to play mahjong at the weekend. This is all the fun of life.

I used to feel that I didn't do one thing seriously, but in the end I learned one thing, wasted my time and felt guilty all the time. But when I arrived in Chengdu, I found that after work, everyone was very calm and naturally doing things that made me feel very comfortable and happy: finding a beautiful river, calling a pot of tea, sitting in a bamboo chair in the sun, staring blankly, playing mahjong, eating skewers and chatting. . .

In the past, advertisements all said that "Chengdu is a city that you don't want to leave when you come."

After the earthquake in 2008, Chengdu people ridiculed this sentence as "Chengdu is a city that can't be left when it comes." Haha o

So what if there is an earthquake? I'm afraid it's useless. Life goes on. Better relax. This is the openness and optimism in the bones of Sichuanese.

Of course, peace is the most important. I hope Sichuan will not be shocked again. I wish all my friends in Sichuan peace!

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