Marry a husband 1 1 years older than yourself, okay?

Love her? Love together. Don't ask about feelings if you don't love them. In the end, you can't clean up. Do you feel that being with your old girlfriend is because you are lonely? If there is, then let go ~!

Do you like your classmate's introduction? Go after it if you like ~! Go after it and see if it's the kind you like. It is a feeling for boys to chase girls, and it is another feeling to catch up, so I feel right.

Love and liking are different;

Light love is like, deep love is love!

What I like is love, and what I like is affection!

There is an emotion in the world called "like" and the other is called "love"

Love is when he is around, he is the only one in his eyes; Everything has his shadow when he is away.

I like reading in the middle of the night and suddenly think of him. I imagine what he is doing now, and I feel a faint warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him. After a few minutes, the attention was attracted by the plot in the book again!

Love is on a lonely night, when thoughts pour in and you can't see the book in your hand. I wonder if he is still working overtime, whether he has already had dinner, and whether he is thinking about himself as much as he is thinking about him.

Love is arguing with him and sticking to him like a hedgehog, but in my heart I have secretly admired his insight and talent.

Love wants him to keep pace with himself and connect with his heart. A joke he accidentally said can make him depressed and even burst into tears in an instant. In front of him, he is never defenseless.

I like to send him short messages when I go out, telling him that the weather here is fine, turning off my cell phone, playing alone in a strange place for a week, and suddenly appearing in front of him to scare him after being tanned.

Love is wanting to be with him wherever you go. You can call him at the seaside and let him listen to the sound of the waves; You can also stay where you are for a long time because you see a figure exactly like him on the street in a foreign land.

Love is that he simply said "bon voyage" before going on a business trip. Looking at the back of his departure, he felt a little reluctant, but he didn't say anything, just silently waiting for the news of his return.

Love is telling him before going on a business trip, stuffing clothes and food into his backpack and not leaving until the train arrives at the station. And in the days after he left, he was uneasy every day, praying over and over again that he could return safely.

Love is when you are hurt, you don't want him to see your fragile side, quietly wipe away your tears in front of him, and turn your head and still look happy and strong.

Love is crawling on his chest and crying when he is wronged, telling him all his troubles unabashedly and unconcernedly, longing for a smile in his arms.

Yes, only when we are together will we think of each other.

Love, even when we are together, misses him every second.

If you like someone, most of your friends will feel happy.

Loving one person is a world of two people, and one more person will feel uncomfortable.

It is sweet to like someone. Love a person, is bitter or sweet.

If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together.

Love a person, together, will be inexplicably lost.

If you like someone, you won't think about the future.

If you love someone, you often look forward to tomorrow together.

If you like someone, you will always be happy together.

If you love someone, you will often cry.

Like a person, when I haven't seen him for a long time, I will suddenly think of him.

Love someone, when you haven't seen him for a long time, you will think of him every day.

If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him.

Love a person, when you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly.

If you like a person, you will think that if he has children, you will like it very much.

Love someone, and one day, you suddenly think: What will our children be like in the future?

To like someone is to hope everyone is happy.

Love a person and hope he is happier.

If you like someone, all you want is today.

Love a person, what you expect is forever.

To like a person is to look at his merits.

To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings.

When you stand in front of the person you love, your heart will beat faster.

But when you stand in front of the person you like, you will only feel happy.

When you meet someone you love, you will be shy.

But when you look at the person you like, you just smile.

When you talk to someone you love, you will feel embarrassed.

But if you talk to someone you like, you can speak freely.

When the person you love cries, you will cry with her.

But when the person you like cries, you will comfort her skillfully.

When you don't want to love someone anymore, you should close your eyes and hold back your tears.

When you don't want to like someone anymore, you just have to cover your ears!

Like is a kind of mood.

Love is an emotion.

Like, it is an intuition.

Love is a feeling.

You can stop if you want.

Love is endless.

It's natural to like someone.

Love a person, especially calm.

Like a person, sometimes I wish I could be with him.

Love a person, sometimes afraid to be with him.

Like someone and argue with him constantly.

Love a person and always pay for him.

Like a person, I hope he can find himself at any time

Love someone and hope to find him at any time.

Like a person, always smile for him.

Love a person and always cry for him.

Love is persistence.

Love is worth it

Like is like, very simple.

Love is love. It's complicated

I like you, but I don't necessarily love you

If I love you, I must like you very much.

In fact, like and love are only one step away.

But I want to take this step.

It depends on you.

I like to take this step

Still love to take this step

Grasp whether you love or like, one can't fall in love with two people at the same time, but you can like several people at the same time and choose your own love!

Just chase what you like to introduce! Give you information for reference:

I don't regret what I did, I regret what I didn't do, don't let yourself regret it! Boys should take the initiative, and the opportunity will not be left to those who wait. If you like it, take action ~! No, I'll give you references. There is nothing wrong with taking the initiative to fight for what you like. Let's move ~!

When he doesn't love you, whether he loves you in the past and forgets it, or he never loved you. When you can't be the person in his heart, his heart won't remember you. Although he knows that you love him deeply, he prefers to pretend not to know.

When he doesn't love you, please don't bother him when you are unhappy or upset. His place is definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will comfort you slightly when he receives your call, but that's all. Maybe you want more, say, "Let's meet." He must be very sad. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will be much cheaper. It is human nature that you have disadvantages. He would say, "OK, but I have something to do now." You can call me later. Or I can call you. "And don't take it seriously at this moment, he just found a less clever reason to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself.

When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him your trifles. Maybe at this moment, you just want to get to know each other better. However, he has no time or interest to know about you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses. What does this have to do with him? Even if I know. He will soon forget, just as he forgot your birthday, your address and your phone number. Without love, you are doomed not to squeeze into his life. Even if, even if you only want a small corner.

When he doesn't love you, please don't cry in front of him, and don't tell him when you are sick. He can't give you care and concern. Sympathy at most, please be proud of you, and don't give up your pride. Although too many people have lost too much in front of love. I don't even have the courage to stand up. How can you be proud? Just remember that only those who love themselves can truly cherish you. Not the sympathy of onlookers. Unfortunately.

When he doesn't love you, your love is his burden. Please don't calculate your own efforts, and don't expect any return. To love someone who doesn't love himself is unrequited love. Never mind right or wrong. Will be happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You have a heart, but he doesn't. So don't blame him. Because maybe he wants to do better and don't be so cold to you. Just, love a person, be good to a person. This is an instinct. Sorry, he doesn't have this instinct.

Please don't lose heart when he doesn't love you. Because loving someone is not his Excellence, it is just a feeling. He makes you feel this way, so you love him. Similarly, he doesn't love you, which doesn't mean that you are not good. Excellence is no reason to fall in love. See how many people still love themselves. A faint smile is also very sweet.

You must bless him when he doesn't love you. With love, there should be no hate. Love is beautiful. Hate is ugly. Why make the best things in life ugly? And don't feel unfair. About leaving. He lost someone who loved him, and you lost someone who didn't love you, but you got a chance to be reborn and love again.

Please don't think about "forever". Love won't last forever. You love him deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day far away. He arrived a day before you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in memory and gently stare at the faded tenderness.

When he no longer loves you, dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. Instead, it has been doomed from generation to generation.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make mm feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell mm that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

I am a girl. I am disgusted to see that some boys want to chase girls who they like but dare not chase, and want others to chase them backwards.

From a girl's point of view, I know more about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!

1. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Don't be too formal, but don't be too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 3 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact mm (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't show the ambition of "you don't want to marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". One sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand. In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, add two points:

Never show cynicism in front of MM. Cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser". The boy who really loves you can't tell the reason why he really loves you at once, only knowing that he can't pay attention to others. Guan Guan Sui dove, in Hezhou. A beautiful and virtuous woman is a good spouse of a gentleman. If you can't pursue it, the black nightclub misses her during the day. Falling in love with a sweetheart quietly is really a problem for many young men and women, but they don't know how to express it. You are ashamed to ask for advice from others, and you are even more afraid of "falling out of the water intentionally and heartlessly", so you have to keep silent and worry and worry about yourself.

In fact, there are many ways to show your love to the person you admire. As long as you are good at observing carefully and catching the spirit of love in time, you will always find the right time and method. Here are some methods for your reference.

Create suspense: When young men and women's secret and voluntary feelings develop into clear goals and persistent feelings, first create a suspense, intentionally set up an invisible "third party" in each other's hearts, create a nervous and contradictory mentality that they can't love each other and give up, and then suddenly let each other suddenly realize, realize the turning point of love and push love to a new depth.

When Marx confessed to Jenny von westphalen, it was a model of successful application of this method. He said to Yan Ni, "Yan Ni, I fell in love with someone and decided to tell her." Yan Ni has always loved Marx. At this time, he couldn't help asking eagerly, "Do you really love her?" "Love her, she is the best girl I have ever seen, and I will always love her from the bottom of my heart!" Yan Ni choked back her feelings and said calmly, "I wish you happiness!" Marx said humorously, "I still have her picture with me. Do you want to see it? " Said and handed Yan Ni a beautiful little box. When Yan Ni opened it nervously, he saw a small mirror. The "photo" in the mirror is Yan Ni himself. Marx deliberately stirred up waves in Yan Ni's deep affection-created tension, and made Yan Ni, who loved him deeply, mistakenly think that he had another love in his surprise. When he noticed Yan Ni's expression of pain and loss due to the loss of her loved one, he promptly induced her to solve the suspense and open the box of "photos". Byakki Smoker is himself. A false alarm just shows Marx's unique way of expressing love.

Love for things: Both sides are very clear, but they dare not express their feelings directly to each other. You can choose a small gift with profound meaning to express your love for each other, adding more romantic atmosphere on the basis of meaning. When a sweetheart's little gift suddenly arrives, the imagination of the recipient will run wild, and then there will be a "miracle".

A girl met a boy, and the boy was very impressed with her. In the future contact, they have a love for each other, but they never have the courage to confess to each other. Later, her sister came up with a clever plan: she prepared three beautiful cards and gave them to the boy on his birthday. The picture of the first card is a girl in red, holding her nose playfully. The card says, "Please remember me!" "The second picture is a simple picture. Xia Guang reflected the lake into an orange with two small lines on it: "If it was a mistake from the beginning, then why, why is it so beautiful?"? "Third, the photo of the girl playing the piano in Zhang Yue says," I miss you so much! " "How interesting! This way of expressing love is not only clever, accurate, interesting, but also romantic, and anyone who is shot by Cupid's arrow will gladly accept it.

A winding path leads to a secluded place: If your sweetheart has a strong cultural quality and comprehension ability, you can hide your feelings in the other person's conversation, so that he or she can have a winding path leading to a secluded place and feel that love is mysterious and sweet, which is very artistic.

A young man won the first prize in the composition contest and got a microwave oven. When he told the news to his sweetheart, he said, "I finally have my own microwave oven, which won the first prize in the essay competition!" " "The girl also said excitedly," Then I congratulate you! " "It's boring to celebrate. How about a family dinner? " The young man suggested, yes! ""But I can't cook. What if there is no master to operate? "The young man looked embarrassed." Can I try? "The girl volunteered." That's great, if I can often eat your cooking, it would be great! ""as long as you don't think I'm not doing well, I promise you! " The young man took the prize as the topic and the cooking as the main line, and made a big detour. Finally, he skillfully introduced the conversation of the other party into the "normal track" of expression, as if he had inadvertently finalized a marriage.

Direct expression: Some people express their love simply, directly and without hypocrisy, and pour out their feelings to each other boldly and without reservation, just like a gurgling stream. Generally speaking, people who are straightforward and like to get to the point should adopt this method. Obviously, it is labor-saving and interesting for both parties who have a deep relationship and a certain emotional foundation, or who have secretly loved each other and just need to "pierce this layer of paper". When Lenin courted Krupskaya, he said bluntly, "Please be my wife!" Krupsia, who has always admired Lenin, also simply replied: "What can I do? Then be your wife! " Lenin's true love is simple and sincere, giving people an irresistible force. At the same time, Krupsya can clearly see a loyal spiritual world, and it is easy for both sides to arouse the ripples of love.

Humor: put the sacred love in a playful joke, so that the other party can unconsciously understand your thoughts. You can complete a "test" with a "quiet" and "silent" modality without appearing shy or embarrassed. Liv accompanied Xiaohui to the mall. In order to be handsome and show off "pie" in front of Xiao, he flattered her and pointed at the clerk. In the end, he didn't buy anything, which angered the clerk and made both sides angry. When Lifu was obviously at an unreasonable disadvantage, Xiaohui stepped forward to save his face. Li Fu was very moved and said to her: "People often say' heroes save the United States'. Today, they have become' beauties save bears', which is a good thing. I really should thank you! " Xiao Hui stopped laughing and asked wittily, "Well, how do you thank me?" "I give you a most precious and rare gift. Do you like it? " Lifu obviously had a plan and made a mockery on purpose. "Say it and see!" "I give myself to you, accept it or not?" Wow! How funny! Lifu gave in to himself skillfully, so that Xiao Hui could fully feel his wit and wisdom. Finally, he gave himself as a reward gift to his sweetheart by imitation, and asked Xiao Huixi if she liked it, in fact, in order to test whether she was willing to accept his love. No matter how Xiao Hui answers, in this atmosphere that makes people laugh and feel happy, there will be no unpleasantness between them.

Make the finishing point: we all have expectations, and we are often erratic and hesitant. People who love push love to "white fever" with the help of some atmosphere and material. Just one step away from winning Jia's heart. But Jia has shown an unfriendly attitude towards him recently. Mingjian really lost his mind and was puzzled. On Valentine's Day, I wanted to buy Jia a bunch of flowers, but the flower market was sold out. So he went directly to the countryside to spend the auxiliary. In the evening, he was holding a big bouquet of bright red roses and was about to give them to Jia, who was waiting for him at the gate of the park. He was stopped by a group of handsome men and women with money in their pockets and no flowers in their hands. He paid 20 yuan for two strings, and the sword had a brainwave. He proudly said, "Supposedly, I have these' flowers' and I can sell you two. However, I picked it from the flower bed and gave it to my angel. These flowers represent me. Jia was intoxicated with envy. The feeling of offering flowers to his sweetheart in public not only shows his sincere loyalty to Jia's love, but also makes Jia have unlimited scenery in front of everyone and his self-esteem is the greatest satisfaction. No wonder Jia will give him a kiss in public!

Use topic: skillfully use explicit words to contain emotions, make a mountain out of a molehill by a certain thing or a certain person, convey endless feelings to each other, develop relationships, make use of common interests and hobbies, and often exchange and recommend good books. In this kind of borrowing and returning, the seeds of love germinate. One day, Ling borrowed a book from Fei, which he bought recently but hasn't read yet. Fei said to Ling affectionately, "I always finish reading other people's books, but I can't finish reading the books you lent me." It may take a lifetime. Would you like to watch it with me? " Or should I give up studying? "The result can be imagined.

In a word, expressing love to your sweetheart is the sweetest, most frustrating and most subtle emotional activity. In the process of expressing love, we can have sweet and permanent love by grasping gender roles and emotional concentration and carrying forward the spirit of boldness, initiative and persistence.