The girl said, don't call me when you break up. I hate you. How should I reply?

Distinguish between true and false, and then talk about redemption.

Think about whether there has been a similar situation before. If it's just embarrassing, I've tried to break up as soon as I quarrel and ignore you, then give me a good step and coax me. Don't disconnect, once disconnected, she will feel neglected, and then completely disconnected. Girls who break up falsely are full of duplicity. Remember to touch her gently.

However, this can only cure the symptoms, not the root cause. If you break up many times, even if it is fake, it also shows that there is something wrong with each other's mode of getting along. You need to get along in a more suitable mode, otherwise the relationship will not be stable after recovery.

A real breakup is different from a fake breakup. She wants to break up seriously. I have never mentioned breaking up before, and I have never had a quarrel as serious as this one. There are several important signs for reference: deleting contact information, informing relatives and friends of the decision to break up, etc. If all this appears, it means that I really want to break up with you.

To sum up, she doesn't care about the price of a real breakup. Because it's not just talk, she will try her best to sever all contact with you, but a fake breakup won't. She only tells you that she will avoid getting back together in the future, and will not announce her relationship with people around her for fear of being laughed at.

Let's stop here. You can try to contact and tell her your thoughts and feelings. Even if you want to express your willingness to communicate, you must not force it. For example, you can't force each other to meet, even if it's just an excuse to return clothes. Nobody is stupid. She knows exactly what you want to say and what is the purpose of letting her out.

So you just don't respect her decision. Let her calm down first, and then slowly approach later.

During the cooling-off period, think about what happened to your relationship and why you broke up. You must first find a solution to the fundamental problem and remove the obstacles to your reunion. You know, if the problem is not solved, we will break up again after we get back together. What did you quarrel about this time? Have you touched her bottom line, or is it just a small matter? But because of the long-term accumulation, she is completely disappointed in you, and you still think this is a trivial matter?

Find the reason for breaking up and solve it yourself. Change will make you naturally contact her when you grow up, and make her feel that you are different, growing and changing. Then gradually close to close the relationship, which is tantamount to pursuing her again.

Always keep a good attitude, don't force her, feelings can't be forced, all you have to do is make her fall in love with you again and become a brand-new you when she grows up. Only in this way can we establish a communication model different from the past, and the relationship will be truly stable for a long time after it is saved.