Yu said that chasing girls should be done at least ten times. Is persistence the most important thing?

I don't agree that chasing girls means persistence, at least ten times. Of course, in the relatively conservative era before, maybe this method will work. In the face of a person who doesn't like you, every pursuit you make is an interruption to the other person. The times we live in are different, and this method of stalking and beating is not feasible. Don't waste each other's time, it is better to find another person, maybe we can open up new happiness!

Let's see if it's in real life or in film and television dramas. Ten times and eight times, the final result is different. In The Best of Us, Lu Xinghe chased him so many times that he didn't choose him in the end. Love is really something that you can't get by hard work or persistence. If there were rules to follow, there wouldn't be so many in this world: once it was difficult to cross the sea, forever amber? Lost people. Maybe in the era when our parents lived, our thoughts were conservative and we didn't talk about our feelings openly. If you really like a girl, you always have to confess it several times before people agree. After all, everyone is still shy and introverted. Sometimes even if I really like you, if I say it only once, people can't promise you right away, and you will be laughed at.

It's different now. You told a girl your heart, but she refused, not because she was shy, but because she really didn't like you. We are all impetuous now. If we really like you, we won't keep beating around the bush with you. We are all adults. Whether we like you or not, we can still feel it! Some people say that liking is everyone's right, but have you ever thought that being pursued by people you don't like is really disturbing? So when chasing girls, you must have empathy, so that you can succeed. If you don't give up after being rejected, it will really bring a lot of trouble to others.

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