I am very dependent on one person. Even under his control. I am happy when he is happy, and I am unhappy when he is unhappy. I feel my mood.

1, life is only beautiful, not brilliant. On the road of life, even if you lose everything, you have no reason to despair as long as you have a breath. Because everything lost is likely to be recovered at a new level. 3. Self-abandonment is the slave of fate, and self-improvement is the angel of life; I don't want to water my heart with other people's sweat. I am willing to warm my body with someone else's cotton-padded jacket. I just want to be an upright person. I just want to do things aboveboard. I will not forget what I should remember, nor will I store what I should forget. 4. There is no beginning once and for all; There is no ending that cannot be saved. In life, what you need to grasp is that you should start without hesitation; If it's over, it's over cleanly. No matter how great a giant is, he has his small moments, and no matter how small a mortal is, he has his great moments. 6. The reward of life is far at the end of the journey, not near the starting point. I don't know how many steps I have to take to reach my goal. When I take the thousandth step, I may still fail. But I won't give up, I will persist until I succeed! 7. Don't think that as long as you pay, you will get something back. This is not right. Learning to work effectively is an important course to manage one's advantages. 8. Everything in the world can't be perfect. If you don't leave some, you can get infinite perfection. When things are full, they overflow, and when things are forced, they are reversed. In addition to hard work, everything will come naturally and there will be opportunities. 9. A flower can't wither and waste the whole spring, and a setback can't waste a lifetime. 10, you can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't choose your appearance, but you can smile. There are always some people who seem to be happy all day, smiling without care, like children. They will say that playing is my greatest pleasure, and I like playing very much. When there are many people, there is always a smile on their faces, and many people will envy them. However, this is actually their most sad place. They don't want others to see their sad side, let alone, because he is always alone in the dead of night. No one can understand them. If they think they look happy, they will shed a sad face and say to themselves: it's nothing, fate! So they forced themselves to laugh all day to escape the unbearable pain of ordinary people! They look strong, because in the eyes of others, they can face everything with a smile, but in fact they have the most fragile heart in the world, but their disguise makes it difficult for others to find their deep wounds. They are actually very lonely, although they are all chatting alone, it is because they really can't stand the torture of loneliness! Love yourself, live proudly for yourself from today, love yourself well, and no one will feel sorry for you. Dear yourself, don't care too much. Some people care too much about some things. Let nature take its course and face it with the best attitude, because the world is too unfair, and we are often the least valuable in front of the most important things. Dear yourself, never embarrass yourself, such as not eating, crying, autism, depression, these are all things that fools do. Dear yourself, learn to be smart. Don't always ask people around you some serious questions. It's really boring Dear yourself, if you are unhappy, just find a corner or cry in the quilt. I don't need other people's sympathy, and I can still live happily after crying. Dear yourself, learn to control your emotions. No one owes you anything, so you have no reason to lose your temper with others casually. Dear yourself, you can be disappointed, but you can't despair. You should always believe that tomorrow is another day. Dear yourself, don't always want to rely on others, let alone expect others to stand up for you at the first time when you need it. After all, none of you belong to anyone. Dear yourself, never make a promise to others easily. A promise is a debt owed! Dear yourself, there is only one thing in this world that you can't go back, and nothing can't pass. Dear yourself, if others are kind to you, you should be doubly kind to others. If others are not good to you, you should be good to others, because that means you are not good enough. Dear yourself, no matter how miserable the reality is, you must stubbornly believe that this is only a short darkness before dawn. Dear yourself, don't cling to memories. A kite with a broken thread can only let it fly, let it fly and let itself fly. Dear yourself, there is only one you in the world. Even if no one knows how to appreciate it, you should love yourself and be yourself. Dear yourself, treat the people with you well, because love may be temporary, but friendship is lifelong. Dear yourself, you must find something besides love that can make you stand firmly on the earth with your feet. Dear yourself, remember to always look up at the sky, and remember to look at your feet when you look up at the sky. Dear yourself, trust your intuition, don't provoke others, and don't let others provoke you. Dear yourself, don't be ambiguous with others, you can't afford to play! Dear yourself, don't be too low-key, sometimes be tough, and you must get back when you are bullied! But don't hold grudges. Let them express their opinions. Pity will make you noble. Dear yourself, be happy, cheerful, tough and warm, which has nothing to do with personality. Dear yourself, be confident and even narcissistic, and always remind yourself that I deserve the best. Like a person together, will be very happy. If you love someone together, you will be inexplicably lost. You won't think about your future and love someone. You always look forward to being together tomorrow. When you like someone, you will always be happy and love someone. You will often cry and like someone. When you haven't seen him for a long time, you will suddenly remember that he loves someone. When you haven't seen him for a long time, you will feel that he likes someone every day. When you think of him, you will smile and fall in love with someone. When you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly and like someone. You will think that he has children, and you will love someone. One day, you suddenly wonder: what will our children look like in the future? To like someone is to hope that everyone will be happy and love someone. I hope he can be happier and like a person. All you want today is to love someone. What you expect is to like someone forever. Loving a person includes his shortcomings. The difference between liking and loving is that when you stand in front of the person you love, your heart beats faster. When you are dealing with the person you love, you will be shy, but when you stand in front of the person you like, you will only feel happy. But when you make eye contact with the person you like, you only smile. When you talk to someone you love, you will feel embarrassed. When the person you love cries, you will cry with her. But when you talk to the person you like, you can speak freely, but when the person you like cries, you will comfort her skillfully. When you don't want to love another person, when you don't want to like another person, you should close your eyes and cry. Love is a mood, an emotion, an intuition, a feeling, a stoppable love, an endless love, a persistent love, a lovable love, a particularly natural love, a particularly calm love, sometimes expecting to be with him, sometimes fearing to be with him, constantly quarreling with him, constantly paying for him and liking a person who wants him. You can always find yourself, fall in love with someone and hope to find him at any time. You like a person who always smiles for him and love a person who always cries for him. Love is persistent. Love is worth liking. Love is simple, love is complicated, but it doesn't necessarily love you. You must like you very much. In fact, love is only one step away from love. However, if you want to take this step, it depends on whether you like or love it. If you are lucky enough to read this article, then you will be true. Because in life, not everything can be done with hard work, not just you, but all of us. This article is written for those who are in trouble and confused. After reading ten things you can't do in life, I believe you will know a lot, put down a lot and gain a lot! Really! I hope everyone I see can live a happy life! -1 People who leave you, people who leave you, lose you, not you. Leave, perhaps for a better reunion at the next intersection. -"Leave, life is doomed to leave too much." Time flies faster than water, so try to do what you want. In this life, at least you have to be honest with yourself. "In life, between pitching and pitching, we should pursue Excellence, but we should do our best." -3 Fall to your wall-Maybe this side falls to your wall, making you unable to breathe, maybe making you lose everything, but if you accept it silently, it will still fall to your wall. If you stand up and look up, you will find that many things are not as bad as we thought. "Never retreat, retreat to the last no way back." 4 born with no choice-some are born kings, some are born nobles, but many are born ordinary people. Nothing in this world can't be changed, especially when you want to change. "The pursuit of all beautiful things is the precious wealth of life" 5 Inexplicable loneliness, whether philosophical or formal, noble or humble, anyone may encounter the feeling of loneliness, often deeply lingering in the unknown lonely feeling. "Actually, it's hard to find a bosom friend"-6 I like a very sweet poison and something that I can't quit, but what I like is love after all, not love. "A person's life is destined to be liked by many people and many people. But there is only one choice. This last choice. Love, how many people are lucky enough to meet true love at the right time in their lives? ...... "7 Helplessly forget many things that we thought we would never forget, just in the days when we never forget, we forgot. Life is always better because of memories. Occasional memories are better than eternal thoughts. After all, life will get better and better. The eternal past one second becomes the next. Since many things are doomed to be lost, the only thing we can do is not to forget them easily. "Read a sentence-when you always look back, prove that you are not doing well now. So, good memories are ok, but don't be nostalgic. I have been looking forward to it and I have been working hard now. " -9 others' mocking mouths grow on others and ears grow on themselves. It is their business to say or not, and it is your business to listen or not. We should learn to face it with a smile. "It doesn't matter ..."10 Inevitable death Life is a process, and death is only an inevitable result, but the trajectory is its own color and temperature. Since it is inevitable, it is even more fearless. "I really hope that people have souls, and I don't want everything to be illusory." In life, not everything can be accomplished through hard work. Many times, we also feel powerless. Not only you but also me, everyone is the same. Knowing that time can't stay, there is no need to hurt spring and grieve for autumn. Knowing that feelings cannot be deliberate, you won't die for anyone. Knowing that forgetting is always inevitable, you won't be sad for forgetting for a while. Knowing that the past has always existed, there is no need to hide and show off. Knowing that loneliness is always with you, it won't be hard for a moment. Knowing that death is always at some point in the future, you can grasp what you can do now. Knowing this, you don't have to be hard on yourself. Everything will be fine if you let go. Relax, and then relax. If you don't have so many knots for yourself, your mood will be peaceful. More or less, in the dead of night, in the moment of hesitation, in the sea of people, in the lonely lake, at the peak of success, at the bottom of failure, we have all had problems-why did people come to this world? It seems that everyone has an answer, and it seems that everyone has no answer. For example, are you a successful person or a failed person? Are you poor or rich? Are you knowledgeable or ignorant? . . . Is a person, whether there is an answer or not, he is alive. Alive. Alive. . What is the responsibility of being a man? That is, we should contribute to the whole world, help the whole world and benefit all the people in the world. This is the real responsibility of each of us. Why, needless to say, if there were no other people in this world, you wouldn't have come to this world and you wouldn't be used now. Everything you enjoy now is the result of the accumulation of human history and civilization and the division of labor of the whole society. For better or worse, you and I both know how to be grateful first. Accept what you are born with, accept what you can't change, then try to change what you can, benefit others, and ultimately benefit yourself. Young people should have a broad mind, be able to look at the world, be able to save the world and help people, and be able to undertake social and historical responsibilities. Young people should think like this: If there is still hunger and poverty in the world, it means that I haven't worked hard enough, that is, I haven't been able to help those in need, and some people need my efforts. Young college students should take it as their responsibility to contribute to social values and interests. We encourage young people to succeed, but we pay more attention to the purpose of success. Is it to earn a lot of money for personal interests and enjoy personal life, or is it Xiu De's broad mind to govern the country? Do you want to be a leader and climb up, or do you want to be thin and fat? Or become a scholar who benefits the public, or pursue the hypocrisy of fame and fortune? Young people should transcend their narrow egos, not only care about their own interests, but also enjoy getting rich. Young people must adhere to the interests of the world and benefit mankind. Young people should understand the truth of life as soon as possible, improve their self-cultivation, maintain inner peace, and pursue happiness, real happiness, calm happiness and long-term happiness brought by benefiting others. If everyone does this, the world will be better! Remember, what is the social and historical responsibility of young people? -benefit the world and benefit mankind! Remember, one person can influence the whole world. Remember, you are who you want to be. 1. What a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart. 2. What a person cares more about is what makes him feel most inferior. Everyone has the habit of judging a person by his first impression. When he thinks a person is good, he will love me and my dog. When he thinks a person is bad, he will totally deny it. The prouder people are, the more they hide, and the more painful things they are, the more they make a mountain out of a molehill. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers. 6. The killer of marriage is sometimes not an affair, but time. 7. When you have nothing, you start to gain something. 8. Learn more, be less proud, take advantage of opportunities and get rid of laziness. 9. Childhood ignorance is lovely, and juvenile ignorance is ridiculous; The ignorance of youth is pitiful; Ignorance in middle age is sad, and ignorance in old age is sad. 10, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't allow a person around them to get promoted. Because there are contrasts and conflicts of interest between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem. 1 1. Women like a man and want to listen to lies; When a woman hates men, she wants to hear the truth. 12, if you lend a person too much money, you will make that person a bad person. 13, modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition. 14, enemies become comrades-in-arms mostly for survival, and comrades-in-arms become enemies mostly for money. 15, you get low-level happiness, and you ask for high-level happiness. 16, a genius who fails is a fool! 17, 1% people are taking advantage of small things, while 99% people are taking advantage of small things and suffering big losses. Most successful people come from there 1%. 18, if people live by eating, that meal is not called rice, but called feed. 19, it is easy for China to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for China to learn from China. 20. The premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself. 2 1, people's growth should be educated by parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three. 22. Managing your strengths can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings will devalue your life. 23, life is like a green leaf, with the passage of time, slowly turn yellow, but his veins are still so clearly visible. 24. It is simple to complicate things, but complicated to simplify them. 25. If it is a grass, no matter how good the enterprise is, it will not grow into a big tree. In that case, it is better to experience the storm and cultivate yourself into a valuable flower. 26.2 1 century The survival rule of work is to build a personal brand and turn your name into money. 27. I am afraid that my father is filial piety and my wife is love. 28. There are no unqualified students, only unqualified parents. 29. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever. We can avoid everyone, but we can't avoid a fly. What makes us unhappy in life is often trivial things. 3 1, there is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed and he is jealous of you; You failed and he laughed at you. 32. Stupid man+stupid woman = marriage; Stupid man+smart woman = divorce; Smart man+stupid woman = extramarital affairs; Smart man+smart woman = romantic love. 33. Any fool will seduce a girl; But only mature men know how to leave her. 34. People have two eyes, both of which are parallel, and they should look at people equally; People's ears are two-sided, so don't listen to one side of the story; Although people have only one heart, they have two hearts, so they should not only think for themselves, but also for others. 35. Enterprises should have unique resources, which can't be stolen, can't come, can't be opened, can't be taken away and can't be slipped away. 36. A slip of the tongue is telling the truth by accident. 37. Sincerity does not mean blaming others for their shortcomings, but not praising them. 38. Human nature is greedy, but without greed, society will not progress. 39. Love is missing a person's heart, marriage is tying a person's heart, and love is devouring a person's heart. 40. The best attack is to attack yourself. 4 1, the meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad hand. 42. Success is an idea, getting rich is an obligation and happiness is a right. 43. Competition is actually a kind of friendship. With the help of your opponent, you can improve your intelligence. Those who are afraid of competition have lost to their opponents. 44. Money can solve problems, but it helps the rich. 45. Invest your love in one person and take risks; It is dangerous to put love into many people. 46. Only those who can't figure it out, there is no road that can't be taken. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income figure. 48, a person wants to be mediocre, and there are few obstacles; There are many obstacles for a person to be outstanding. Many mediocre people have a harmonious relationship with the people around them, and many excellent people have a tense relationship with them. 49. Married men and women are both "happy" and "outward looking". 50. Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; Second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup; First-class makeup is the makeup of life. 5 1, the word "crisis", one represents danger and the other represents opportunity, don't give up any efforts. 52, is a hero, is a talent, is a fool. 53. "Always" should be considerate of the lover, "classics" should resist the lover's nagging, "reason" should be humble to the lover, and men should be "general manager". 54, threesome, there must be my teacher, three musketeers, there must be a strong, love triangle, there must be a wound. Professor Yu Dan's life motto ▲ One's vision has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly. ▲ Put it down and put it down. If you tolerate others, you actually leave yourself a large piece of land. -▲ Admit the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts. -▲ In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in his heart. -▲ Confusion is mostly because the vision is not big enough. How does a frog in the well know what a broad sky is? -▲ With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the measure of communication with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others, warm others, and let family, friends and even the wider society get some reasons for comfort from yourself. -▲ The Analects conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life. -▲ "God is in the sky, and holiness is on earth" is the personality ideal of China people: there is an idealistic sky that can soar without compromising many rules and obstacles in the real world; He also has the ability to be down-to-earth and expand his behavior in this land. -▲ China's philosophy advocates a solemn, rational and gentle beauty. -▲ True harmony is not only the harmony between neighbors in a community, but also the harmony between people, including the harmonious and happy growth of everything on earth; People have a reverence for all things in nature, a conformity and a tacit understanding. -▲ A happy life in the material sense is only an indicator. The real sense of stability and heartfelt recognition come from faith. ▲ Only a true saint can not be tired of material life and always maintain inner peace and tranquility. -▲ The fiercer the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and your relationship with others. -▲ To be tolerant is actually to leave a vast land for yourself. -▲ Caring for others is kindness; It is wisdom to know people and be good at their duties. -▲ The most important person in this world is the person you need the most help at this moment. The most important thing is to do it at once. The most important time is now, and we can't delay it. -▲ It is inevitable that each of us will have regrets and disappointments in our lives. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful mind. -▲ If you cry because you missed the sun, you will also miss the stars. -▲ The benevolent is not worried, the wise is not confused, the brave is not afraid, and the inner strength can resolve many regrets in life. -▲ To be strong inside, one premise is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside. -▲ He has a kind of self-confidence and calmness under rational constraints, because he is broad-minded and ambitious. -▲ Actually, it's like we have half a bottle of wine in front of us. Pessimists say: How can there be half a bottle of such a good wine? The optimist said: there is still half a bottle of such a good wine! -▲ If your mind is bright and kind, and you are honest and brave, then you may gain a lot of unexpected things. -▲ You want to be someone who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you. The most important thing is that you have an open mind. -▲ Speak out, repay kindness with resentment, and advocate a respect for the efficiency of life and personality. -▲ Always follow the monarch (leader) when something happens. Although you are near, it is not far from bring disgrace to oneself; I'm always with my friends when I have something to do. Although it seems close, it is not far from your alienation. -▲ Respect everyone equally and rationally, and leave some discretion and room for each other. The flowers are not in full bloom and the moon is not round. This is the best state in the world. Once the flowers are in full bloom, they will soon wither. Once the moon is full, it will soon be incomplete. But not completely open, not completely round, or let your heart look forward to, look forward to. -▲ How to govern, first of all, the principle of doing things, paying attention to morality, followed by the way of doing things, saying less and doing more; Caution means to be careful what you say. Don't say what you can't do. -▲ Think more, think more, listen more, see more, be careful, be cautious. The advantage of doing this is to make yourself less regretful. Before we do something, we should consider the consequences. When we do something, we should think far and be cautious again, so as to avoid hurting others and reduce future regrets. It's important to use your head when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things. -▲ "Cultivate yourself with respect" and maintain a serious and respectful attitude. "Cultivate yourself with respect" on the premise of cultivating yourself, and then try to make others happy. "Self-cultivation" is the first premise of being responsible to the country and society. It is a belief, a feeling and a social responsibility to "worry about the world first and enjoy it later", but the premise is very simple, starting from the foot. Self-cultivation and self-improvement are the starting points. -▲ With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the discretion of interacting with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others and warm others. -▲ Without "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in one's heart, it will naturally reduce complaints and accusations to the outside world and enhance the ability to grasp happiness. This is the ultimate goal of learning. -▲ The villain is a person who has no big vision and grasps the small bargain in front of him. -▲ Building a harmonious society is to harmoniously integrate everyone's different voices into the existing collective voices. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration of others on the premise of adhering to different voices and different viewpoints. ▲ The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of language. -▲ Make friends with people who can improve their moral character, self-cultivation and enrich your connotation. Make friends who are happy, can enjoy life and can live in poverty. -▲ The true happiness of life is the happiness of the soul, which is sometimes not necessarily closely related to the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from an education, from the ideal expectation, and from the communication and communication with good friends. -▲ Every adult has his glory and hidden pain in his life. A true good friend should not touch his hidden pain easily. -▲ When people are young, they all live by addition, but at a certain level, they must learn to live by subtraction. If your mind is full of income, you will eventually get tired of it. -▲ Choosing a friend means choosing a lifestyle. Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening the friendliest world for yourself. Can make your life brilliant. -▲ A person's ambition is very important and determines the development direction of his life. -▲ In today's view, a new development often lies not in how high the ultimate ideal is, but in what kind of starting point there is. We often don't lack lofty aspirations, but accumulate the practical road to that volunteer step by step. -▲ A successful career is not necessarily your ideal. -▲ When a person is doing things, he should know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he should restrain himself, have firm and uncompromising standards in his heart, be useful to society, and do things for society. -▲ The ideal way is to give us some resources and reserve spiritual happiness. -▲ Learn to integrate your limited knowledge into life. While studying, thinking and applying. -▲30-year-old station, the word "station" is first an internal station, and then it finds its position in social coordinates. Standing at the age of 30 is to build the confidence of the soul. Standing at the age of 30 is not an external social coordinate to measure whether you are successful, but an internal spiritual standard to measure whether you have a clear introspection in your life, whether you are leisurely, and begin to have a kind of confidence and firmness in what you are doing. -▲ The more material things are, the easier it is to get confused. -▲ Growth means that the heart becomes stronger through experience. The so-called return of life is to turn external things into internal forces. ▲ Knowing destiny means that you have a certain strength in your heart to deal with the outside world. ▲ Only by establishing your own internal value system can pressure be transformed into the tension of life. ▲▲ "Where does a person's confidence come from? It comes from inner peace and calmness "; "People who suffer from loss will not have an open mind, a calm mind and real courage"; "If a person has some constraints in his mind, he will reduce mistakes in his behavior"; "Being able to reflect on your own mistakes and be brave in correcting them is the real courage advocated by Confucianism"-▲ Our eyes look too much at the outside world and too little at our hearts. ▲ Courage is sometimes a kind of calmness and confidence under rational constraints. Only people with virtue and benevolence can truly be brave in their hearts. -