A joke about lighting a cigarette.

Pang Bo told a talk show about a conversation between him and his father about quitting smoking.

It doesn't matter whether this dialogue really exists, and it doesn't matter how many votes the audience voted for him in the end.

The important thing is that the emotion in this paragraph is sincere. ?

Pang Bo said that his father had been smoking for about 30 years. In his father's words, "life sometimes needs a cigarette and a drink."

One day, Pang Bo asked his father why he started smoking his first cigarette.

His father said, "It's all because of you."

Pang Bo's father is nearly 60 years old now. "There are not many problems to overcome and overcome in life." . Then Pang Bo persuaded his father to give up smoking.

His father couldn't quit, and at the same time he raised a new question, "I don't have a grandson yet."

So, when his father gave up smoking, a game of "When Pang Bo wants children" was formed.

So far, it's all jokes. Next, Pang Bo (turn, bad place.

Pang Bo said he could foresee the ending of his story with his father. "One day, I had a child, he gave up smoking, and I started smoking, which means there is always only one father in this family, smoking a cigarette that never goes out."

This passage is too expensive.

Where is this cigarette that never goes out? This is obviously a heavy responsibility on the shoulders of the old Pang family man.

Next, let's go back 30 years and make up "the first cigarette of Lao Pang" together.

According to Pang Bo's description, my father's first half of his life was roughly like this: he failed in the college entrance examination several times before he became the only college student in his family who was admitted to the city from the countryside. Later, my wife became seriously ill. Later, he began to face his parents getting older and unable to walk.

One day, in the process that almost no one could help him, Pang Bo's father welcomed his son. ?

When Lao Pang lit the first cigarette in his life, I think he must have mixed feelings. I have the excitement of being a father for the first time, but there must be uncertainty about whether I can be a good father.

The advertisement says, don't let the children lose at the starting line.

However, the real starting line for children is their parents. What kind of genes you gave your child, what kind of family atmosphere and words and deeds you gave your child, these are the starting lines.

When old Pang Gang became a father, there was no such advertisement. But that cigarette made me understand that Lao Pang had high hopes for Pang Bo. And this high hope, in turn, has become a sense of responsibility on Lao Pang's shoulders.

Therefore, Lao Pang's first cigarette is not only the beginning of a 30-year habit, but also a lonely young man, standing at the crossroads of life and giving himself a hug.

Pang Bo deserves to be the champion of the first talk show conference. Although his story did not produce "explosive stalks" or make the audience laugh, it was very advanced.

First of all, this conversation between Pang Bo and his father actually condensed social changes with a cigarette.

When Lao Pang was young, it was his duty to carry on the family line, and there was no room for bargaining. A childless marriage is a monster to outsiders, and even spitting stars can drown people.

When Pang Bo became a "school-age group", it became a personal choice whether to have children or not. No one can interfere except husband and wife.

Secondly, the dialogue between Pang Bo and his father is also a significant difference in mentality between the two generations in the face of the coming next generation.

Old Pang greeted the birth of his son with the first cigarette in his life. Behind this is the hesitation and anxiety that a young man feels when facing an unpredictable future.

Pang Bo lives in a more open and inclusive public opinion atmosphere, and his employment has laid a good material foundation for the birth of the next generation. Compared with his father, Pang Bo is more fully prepared for the birth of future children, and his mind is naturally more relaxed.

But the more so, the stronger the emotional tension of Pang Bo's sentence "I'm going to start smoking".

This sentence shows that Pang Bo himself has realized that even if all aspects are well prepared, when the child is really born, he will be confused and anxious about whether he can be a good father like his father. .

This is the inheritance of the sense of responsibility on the shoulders of the old Pang family men.

This is also the beginning of the maturity of this immature man in thousands of ordinary families in Qian Qian. ?

Anxiety comes from expectation.

Pang Bo's anxiety about the birth of the next generation stems from their expectation of being a good father.

This spontaneous anxiety and expectation, passed down by two generations, has become an important part of Pang Jiafeng. This is the real meaning of "never-extinguished cigarette".

Smoking will stop, and incense will continue. After this "memory caused by a cigarette", Lao Pang once again set an example to educate his son.

Pombo has a good father, and I believe Pang Bo will be a good father, too.

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