What is the psychology of men being urged to get married?

Urge marriage! Alas, when I think of the experience of being urged to get married before, I can't help shaking my body and tightening my chrysanthemums! It was really the most unforgettable and difficult time in my life!

Now let me tell you something about my heart when I was urged to get married, and by the way, I will also recall that time of heart abuse.

Every time I go home for the New Year, seven aunts and relatives I know and don't know will smile and ask me when I will get married. Why don't you get married when you are so old? After the late marriage, your parents can't take care of your children when they are old. ...................... Well, these are all words anyway.

Alas, the most direct reaction in my heart at this time is that you are so annoying! Don't I want to get married as soon as possible? Why are you all so big? Don't you know that everyone has their own difficulties in not getting married?

First of all, should I buy a house? This is the standard of this marriage and love market now, starting price! Who do you think I can marry if I don't even have a house? Who wants to marry me! With my miserable salary, I can't even make up the down payment. How can you get married so soon?

Besides, my bride price has not yet landed. How can I pick up the bride? Give someone your face? My family and I have to find a way to arrange the "bride price green" I borrowed money from you, and you all pushed from pillar to post. You really looked at my jokes!

Of course, I hate people who urge marriage the most in my heart. The most important reason is that they are always gossiping. No matter what you do or don't do, no matter whether you do well or not, they can always find fault with you in the egg. You are so annoying!

When I was urged to get married by others, I also had a particularly uncomfortable psychology, especially sad! Because whenever the elders in my hometown urge me to get married with words of persuasion and expectant eyes, I feel particularly uncomfortable and want to cry! Because I know that I grew up with them, and they have deep feelings for me and high expectations. They know that their time is running out and want to see me get married, get married and have children before they leave. They want to see me live a happy life.

Alas, I don't want to get married as soon as possible in order to let my elders who really care about me get rid of their troubles as soon as possible, but after all, there are still many practical problems waiting for me and my family to solve and overcome. How can you say that marriage is marriage?

Then when I thought about it, my heart began to change again. My heart became to make money as soon as possible and get ready to get married as soon as possible. I want to get married, because after marriage, my family will be less worried, and the biggest stone in my heart will fall to the ground, so my future life will be much easier and I can feel at ease.

Of course, those caring elders and watching relatives and friends will not see any jokes, and I will never be harassed by them again!