When children grow up, they don't like talking to us more and more. They are always lonely. How do they communicate with children?

Maybe children are not completely without problems, but more problems may be caused by parents. The anxious tone in parents' hearts makes the conversation less concerned with methods and effects, but only with emotional catharsis. This is easy to cause the listener's rejection and resistance, and communication is forced to be blocked. Respect and trust are the premise of communication, and only on this basis can communication be carried out and completed. This foundation means that both sides of communication are equal and can accept each other. How to communicate effectively with children;

First of all, learn to listen and let children lose their temper. Learning to listen is the first step in communication. If the child is angry about something, let him lose his temper. Parents might as well sit down, wait for their children quietly, watch them quietly, don't interrupt him, listen attentively, don't look around and stop what they are doing. This is equivalent to telling their children: We care about what you are, and we listen carefully and pay attention to your feelings or problems.

Secondly, respond sincerely and express parents' true feelings. Sincerely respond, not perfunctory, and truly express parents' feelings, not just discipline. Children are often very sensitive, and the tone of communication between parents and children implies an attitude, which is as important as the content of the conversation and more important from the receiver's point of view.

Third, find a solution to the problem. Children need their parents' help when they encounter problems. The more specific the guidance given by parents, the better. The best way to solve the problem is to discuss it with children. In the process of discussion, some minor problems may be solved. ? Through discussion, the direction will be clearer and the problem itself will be clear, which will help solve the problem.

Finally, the letter. One of the advantages of letter communication is that it avoids the pressure of face-to-face communication, and it can grasp the discretion and be more rational. Correspondence communication can generally be calm, clear-headed and neat. In writing, thoughts are touched, and they will also touch each other, and their hearts will be purified, and they will also be purified by each other. A child's heart is fragile, as fragile as dew in the morning. Although beautiful, it is also fragile. Children do not need to bear our angry love, but need a hug. The so-called love has a deep responsibility, but it should pay attention to the way. There are no children without a good education. Only parents without a good education can have an effective educational effect if parents find the right method.