How much harm does cheating in marriage do to the other half? 1

How much harm does cheating in marriage do to the other half?

In Qian Qian, there are thousands of ways to hurt your partner, but cheating is the most deadly one.

Cheating is like a sword. Originally, you just wanted to pull out this sword to bully you, but you never thought that at the moment of pulling out the sword, you stabbed your partner.

How much harm does cheating in marriage do to the other half?

First, destroy the other half's great faith in love.

When we meet the other half, we always feel that fate has brought us together. From the moment we entered the marriage hall, even the moment we met, we all firmly believed that he must be arranged by heaven.

We are a natural couple, unique to each other, unique to each other, and soul mates in this life.

But how carefully he swore every word when he held you in his arms with an umbrella that year. Unexpectedly, today, he is holding someone's hand and telling others the sweet words he once said to you.

He built your romantic castle for love; He also ruined your great faith in love.

I used to think that he would stay with you all his life, but it turned out that he was building a plank road in the Ming Dynasty. I thought I was the only one for him, but at this point in my life, like a joke, I even laughed at myself.

If you have been with others for a long time, why bother to make me return the favor?

The second is to affect the self-awareness of the other half.

I thought I knew myself very well; I thought I knew him well; I thought I knew this relationship; I thought we all loved and were happy.

However, at the moment when he was found cheating, all his "thoughts" were destroyed.

You begin to doubt: I don't know myself; It turns out that I don't know him either; It turned out that there was a crack in our relationship; It turns out that our happiness is just an illusion.

Cheating affects your self-awareness. Makes you start to doubt anyone. You no longer trust him, what others say to you, the reality you see, and your own judgment.

You feel that you have become so contradictory. One minute you think it's true, and the next you think it's false.

His infidelity has seriously deviated your self-knowledge.

Third, let you fall into confusion and pain.

I heard that there were only 0 times of derailment and countless times; I heard that once disloyalty is useless. You want to give up, and you want to leave!

But you can't bear to lose your feelings for so many years, and you can't bear to let your child live in a single-parent family or him. Although he is so excessive, you still love him in your heart.

You don't know what to do? You are very confused, and many times you wish this had not happened, even if it did, you didn't see it!

But in recent years, whether it's entertainment news or people around you cheating, public opinion will tend to be victims. "Do you celebrate the New Year?" It seems that forgiveness is a shame.

So you dare not tell your friends, you can't. You know that as long as you say it, they will advise you: leave him! There is nothing to miss! Let him regret it! He deserved it!