Baby joke

Many years ago, Dinks were a very small group. People always look at Dink differently. They don't understand why some people don't want offspring. However, with the passage of time, more and more people began to understand Dink.

For the Dink family, life is full of resistance. Recently, a couple of Dinks who insisted on 10 for many years gave up because of a seemingly small thing and chose to have a baby at the age of 40.

Here's the story. When the couple were young, they were healthy and happy. Both of them have developed well in their work and their income is high. In the matter of childbirth, the two also reached an agreement that there is no need to have children in life. Because they all feel that they are not suitable for being parents, and considering that raising children takes a lot of time and energy, it will disrupt their existing lives. They are too content with their present life to have children.

In this way, the two happily lived a childless marriage life of 10 years. At first, they thought they would be dinks all their lives. Unexpectedly, one day, my nephew went to their house to play, and accidentally said something that startled them.

The couple like to collect beautiful and expensive dolls, which is their common hobby. When my nephew went to their house to play, he saw the doll in the glass cabinet and liked it very much. He wants to open the cupboard and take them out to play. The couple stopped it in time, and the nephew was very unhappy. He suddenly said, "It's just a few dolls. My mother said that you have no children, and everything about you will be mine in the future! "

Although the couple don't want children, they are still very polite to other people's children, love their nephews very much and buy them gifts from time to time. Now hear nephew this sentence, both of them feel very chilling. Although the child's mother repeatedly apologized after knowing this incident, saying that the child was only joking, the husband and wife could no longer like the nephew family.

The couple summed it up and thought that what the nephew said must be what adults usually say. It's ugly, but it's true. Without children, after the death of the couple, this annoying nephew may really become the heir to a large fortune. I hate it, too. I can also have one of my own to inherit the property. In this way, the two people actually gave up their belief that they had persisted for many years and began to actively prepare for pregnancy and prepare for the birth of a baby at an advanced age.

1, don't worry.

People live all their lives, and this life has passed in an instant. When I was young, I was busy studying and had great academic pressure. When I grow up, I am busy with work and have great work pressure. I must take care of myself and support my parents. If I am unlucky, I may encounter all kinds of accidents and be exhausted. Even without children, there are enough things to worry about. Having children doubles all kinds of troubles in life. Choose dink, of course, you will worry a lot less.

2, the economic pressure is small.

Nowadays, the source of economic pressure for adults is not only to support their parents, but also to support their children. If you choose Dink, you will naturally spend a lot less money. The money saved will be used as a pension fund. In the future, when you are old and retired, you will stop working and have a fixed income to support yourself. Generally speaking, the economic pressure is still relatively small.

1, clear your mind.

In the eyes of many people, Dink is an extreme thought and practice. Because it is an extreme choice, there is great resistance in practice. When I was young, everything was smooth sailing, especially the shadow of illness and death was not strong enough, so it was easier to choose Dink. However, the older you get, the greater the resistance Dink receives. If I am not a strong-willed person, many people will give up Dink when I am old. But I'm too old to give up if I want to.

2. Pension issues

No matter who chooses Dink and who really cares about them, they all think that the biggest problem is the problem of providing for the aged. Raising children and preventing old age is a traditional way of providing for the aged in China. Parents raise their children, and children support their parents in their later years. Now because of the old-age insurance system, many people still have income after retirement and can support themselves. But in old age, sometimes the biggest problem is not only money, but also illness and loneliness. If you don't think clearly about these problems, it is not good to rush into Dink.