"Your father is sick, why should I let my son accompany him?" What did the daughter-in-law get in return for her response?

Daughter-in-law replied, "So you and your father-in-law are sick, so I don't have to accompany them in the future?" But my mother-in-law went on to say, "As a daughter-in-law, you naturally have to serve your in-laws." The daughter-in-law feels helpless, and such a mother-in-law doesn't make sense.

Xiaoyue's father was ill, and Xiaoyue was too busy alone. Xiaoyue's husband offered to share the burden for his wife and take turns to accompany her father-in-law. Originally, it was nothing. Is abortion's mother-in-law can't stand it, she see her son in order to take care of his father-in-law, people have lost a circle. She asked Xiaoyue why she asked her son to accompany her father-in-law. However, fortunately, the husband of Xiaoyue simply ignored what his mother said and took good care of his father-in-law. 1. Only when the son-in-law knows how to take the initiative to take care of her parents-in-law can the daughter-in-law take care of her parents-in-law willingly

Although the mother-in-law of Xiaoyue is unreasonable, fortunately, her husband is a reasonable person. He knows that his daughter-in-law will only do it well if she does it well. If you don't want to take care of your father-in-law, there is no reason for your daughter-in-law to take care of her parents when they are sick. Love is a two-way trip, so is family.

Of course, there are still many feudal ideas about being a mother-in-law, who think that since a daughter-in-law is married to her own family, everything should be based on her husband's family. Abortion's mother-in-law belongs to this kind of mother-in-law. It is very difficult for her to change her mind. Abortion is too lazy to talk to her. Anyway, her husband knows what to do. 2, the mother-in-law is not sensible, the husband has to be sensible

In fact, at this time, the communication between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is the most ineffective, or the son has to play. His own son, no matter what he says is wrong, his own mother can't do anything with him. Therefore, when I meet such a mother-in-law, I can't help it, so let my husband handle this matter.

Generally speaking, if this husband shows special concern for his wife, and her anger makes her nervous, the mother-in-law will not embarrass her daughter-in-law for her son's sake. For example, abortion's husband told his mother that it was too hard for abortion to take care of his father-in-law, and he was distressed. If the mother wants him to feel better, don't make irresponsible remarks, let them take good care of his father-in-law and let him get better soon. 3. Self-cultivation of mother-in-law in the new era

Don't worry about small family affairs, help where you can, and don't interrupt where you can't. As a mother-in-law in the new era, she must have at least these qualities to be a qualified mother-in-law. You know, there is a serious imbalance between men and women now, and it is not easy for a man to find a wife. Many bachelors, even the second-married women, don't arrive early. It is enough that his son can live a good life with his daughter-in-law. Don't interfere in their lives with the same routine. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Now that we are retired and idle, why don't we go out and play more?

It is impossible to change young people. The times belong to their young people. It is better to change the mentality of being a mother-in-law and not to put yourself too high. This is no longer the old society. The greatest significance of a mother-in-law is that you are the mother of her husband and nothing else.