Telling others about yourself is regarded as a joke.

I saw a video the other day. The general content is, never talk about your husband, your family and your sister-in-law in front of colleagues. Don't tell them that you are not on good terms with these people. If you tell them that your husband is not good to you, or that you have a bad relationship with your husband, they will take it as a joke and secretly bet when you will get divorced.

Once upon a time, I was an easy person to confide in myself, and I regarded others as friends after meeting several times. If you talk a lot, you can't control your private affairs. After I finished, I regretted it and felt like a big fool.

After a long time, if your relationship with that person is not so good, you will find that your secret is in the hands of others. Or one day, you have a problem with him or have a falling out with him. Your secret will be a tool for him to make fun of or hurt you.

In fact, many times, we are with people we don't know very well. In order to avoid embarrassment, we will deliberately find a topic to chat and think about narrowing the distance with others. When chatting, I found that what I said was not what I really thought, but that I deliberately catered to what others said. The end result is: more words and more mistakes.

With the growth of age, I understand a truth: talking less is also an important manifestation of our emotional maturity.

Only by talking less can we pay attention to what others say and know the importance of being a listener. If you know less skills, you will find that you are attractive in the eyes of others. The most important thing is that talking less can also prevent us from popping out of our mouths.