Marriage rescue method (three tricks to teach you to repair a marriage on the verge of breaking up)

In China Newsweek's collection of 100 Reasons for Divorce after 90s, there are various wonderful reasons for divorce:

Some people divorce because the other person wants to put sugar in scrambled eggs with tomatoes, but soy milk is not sweet because they can't eat together.

Some people think that the bad habit of the constellation is divorce: "Taurus throws smelly socks every day, Virgo can't accept it" and said that remarriage will not find Taurus.

The funniest thing is "I think I can find something better. I haven't given up on Eddie Peng Yuyan Swift!"

We always treat it as a joke.

Actually, this is not a joke at all.

First, a firm attitude.

There is no doubt that your husband still loves you, but he lost his way for a while. Now he wants the prodigal son to come back, but the third party is determined and takes drastic measures to rob him. The more in this case, the more you and your husband should unite and be firm, and don't give each other any chance to intervene, so that when the other party has had a few fights and feels helpless, it will naturally shrink back.

Second, don't be angered by any language or behavior, and don't make actions that are unfavorable to your image or identity in the case of impulsive anger.

Secretly strengthen the monitoring of her husband's economic expenditure. How long can this love without bread and wallet last? Most third parties are inseparable from the support of money, and the so-called nothing will naturally be revealed.

Third, Maknae, at the same time.

Husband's cheating means that marriage has turned red. The biggest problem in the marriage crisis is not the third party, but the third party is only the fuse of the marriage crisis. The main reason for this situation lies in the husband's own problems.

Therefore, it is most important to appease and correct her husband and guide him to return to his family responsibilities. Dealing with such problems requires both hard and soft measures. On the one hand, we should show understanding and tolerance to our husbands, on the other hand, we should constantly strengthen the ideological education of their sense of responsibility. Only by inspiring his guilt about the original match and his sense of responsibility for his family can victory come naturally.

Fourth, self-reliance and multi-pronged approach.

Playing mistress, family cards are sharp weapons, and friendship cards are weapons. Unite all forces that can be United, such as parents, in-laws, relatives, friends and neighbors, and win impression points, image points, sympathy and support in front of them.

In this way, the mistress did not dare to make trouble, and the husband did not dare to mess around, cleverly controlling the situation in his own hands. Of course, the most important thing is to stand on your own feet, improve your comprehensive charm index, turn passivity into initiative, and let your husband be by your side in the future, worrying about your departure and every move. This is the ultimate way to defend marriage.

They will discourage or separate such "third parties". Some third parties are prone to psychological distortion and extremely distorted values because of their family background.

Therefore, such people are particularly thick-skinned Once men are targeted by them, they stick to men like schistosomiasis until they torture men to death and their families to collapse, and they will never stop.

Marriage is a lifelong career of husband and wife, which needs careful maintenance. The ups and downs of the first half of life have passed, and now problems have emerged. Both husband and wife need to bear and face them together, carefully analyze the causes of the problems, and examine how to better improve and maintain this marriage.

Remember, evil does not suppress right, and the original match is the just side. Don't feel sorry for yourself, don't choose to escape before marriage, don't leave after divorce, it's up to you. This is the attitude and bottom line that should be faced in the final stage of marriage.

If you encounter a thorny breakup or divorce problem and are determined to get it back, but don't know how to do it, you can leave a message "get it back" in the comment area and try my method. Note: If you decide not to leave a message, please leave a message carefully.