What do you think about the phenomenon that it is difficult for programmers to find partners?

Let’s put it this way, finding a suitable partner is more difficult than seeking scriptures from the West. You may miss out on 10 or 10 girls. Of course, it’s not that easy for girls. Before you find Prince Charming, you must have kissed countless toads;

Programmers are the first to know I am busy. The process of writing code is a bit like driving. I am very focused and may often work overtime. In addition, the proportion of male coders seems to be larger. Therefore, there are relatively few girls around coders. Moreover, the life of code farmers is often very fixed, with days between two o'clock and one line at a time. There are even fewer other social activities.

This is an objective environment. Secondly, writing code is relatively boring. Those who can persist in such boring and monotonous work are those who can tolerate loneliness and are relatively quiet. They are not good at flirting with girls, and even have conflicting ideas with programmers. Also, don’t believe women’s lies about finding an honest man to marry. Can an honest man seduce a girl? joke. Because the income of code farmers is not bad and their simple thoughts are easy to be accepted, but it is also easier to attract scumbags.

There is absolutely no progress bar in the process of flirting with girls, and there are no fixed routines or modules that can be called. It can't be simulated either, and it's already gone by the time a bug appears. Besides, women are not completely logical and reasonable animals. This conflicts with the task mode of programmers...

For example, I have seen many boys behave very gentlemanly when flirting with girls... for fear that girls will think you are not serious!

So the solution is,

First, find/create opportunities to meet girls. For example, you should actively help girls when they have difficulties, and you should help even if there are no difficulties and create difficulties. You can't force a girl to fall in love with you, but you can create opportunities.

Second, you have to be thick-skinned and don’t be a coward. Tasteful love lies in ups and downs. There must be ups and downs. Ups and downs. Say the important things three times!

It’s easy to be honest, but in plain English, what kind of gentleman should you be when you should be acting like a gangster? You must have the awareness to become an experienced driver. Don't be too straight when flirting with a girl, be as straight as a string, and the principle of death on the road also makes sense in this matter.

Flirting with girls is definitely the activity with the highest IQ and EQ among human beings! Close to the Tao! The word tease is the truth. I didn’t ask you to chase girls, I asked you to flirt with girls.