What are the methods of father's indirect prenatal education?

Caring for his wife is one of the methods of scientific prenatal education.

When the wife is pregnant, her health has increased a lot, and she has suffered all kinds of pains and risked her life? The morbidity and mortality during pregnancy are significantly higher than usual? Pregnancy and childbirth is a matter of life and death for people, and a little carelessness will bring lifelong regret? Therefore, at this time, a husband can only be competent if he takes the initiative to take responsibility, fulfill his obligations and care more about his wife? Due to different families, the ways and means of caring are different. As long as everything you say and do comes from your heart, it will bring strength and happiness to your wife? This is important for the wife and the fetus?

Good at observation? Good at communication

Understand the wife's various reactions and discomfort during pregnancy and help her solve the problem in time? Can you let your wife alleviate the pain caused by all kinds of unhappiness?

Communication is not simply asking and talking, but respecting your wife? Care? Love is a deep communication with your wife? If a husband often tells his wife about his career success and progress, she will enjoy the same happiness as her husband, because a man's success is half that of a woman, and his wife's value is also reflected?

A husband should inspire his wife's love for his son.

Pregnancy is a good thing, but many pregnant women are in a contradictory state when they are happy. On the one hand, they want a child of their own, on the other hand, they are afraid of the uncomfortable reaction caused by pregnancy. Even some vulnerable pregnant women blame all the pain on their unborn children, and love and hate at the same time? The thought of hate, even for a moment, is immeasurable harm to the growth and development of the fetus. During his wife's pregnancy, the husband should actively enlighten her, pay more attention to her, reduce her fear of pregnancy, and inspire her love for her son?

One is to accompany his wife to watch movies that reflect the strong feelings of mother and son? Television, novels and essays, etc. Inspire the wife to love her son? At the same time, from the first day I learned that my wife was pregnant, I deliberately paid attention to nuances and induced her to love her son? Brew with your wife and give your child a meaningful name; Plan the future of the child and design what the child will look like after absorbing the excellent genes of the couple; ..... often touching his wife and saying happy words, asking about fetal movement ... these warm words? Delicate movements will magically free the wife from the discomfort of pregnancy, let her focus on the child, and the fear of pregnancy will soon dissipate?

The second is to arrange the wife's diet? Diet during pregnancy is not only a very important topic, but also a difficult one? Is it important because the diet during pregnancy is good or bad, which is related to the health of mother and child? Does the so-called difficulty mean that the reaction during pregnancy has brought great difficulties to the arrangement of diet? Therefore, diet during pregnancy is a science, should it be scientific? Not only the nutrients, but also the calories needed by pregnant women should be considered; It is necessary to consider both the wife's taste requirements and the physiological requirements of different stages of fetal development; Both the physiological needs of the fetus and the intellectual development of the fetus should be considered? Therefore, it is not easy to arrange the diet of pregnant women, and husbands need to pay more love for the health of mother and child and rack their brains to arrange the diet? Especially in the first trimester, you should buy the best food for your wife in time? Favorite food, buy it for your wife, have you eaten the newly listed food, and let your wife eat it instead? Husband's hard work? Meticulous care, will be transformed into the wife's spiritual strength to overcome the pain during pregnancy, in exchange for the safety and health of mother and child?

The third is to let the wife have a comfortable living environment, and the husband can't get pregnant for his wife? Have children and never care? Thoughtful? It is still useful in sympathizing with his wife. It is the husband's responsibility to arrange a comfortable living environment for his wife? If you don't like or seldom do housework, this time, in order to welcome the arrival of the little angel, I changed my normal state and restrained many bad hobbies, so I was busy all day. Although you are a little clumsy, will your wife be satisfied with being respected?

Fourth, care and love for your wife should be persistent? Some young husbands, after learning that their wives were pregnant, danced with joy and were so excited about becoming fathers that they stayed up all night? It's touching to care about your wife, too? Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. After a while, all these enthusiasm and concern disappeared. Sometimes, I leave my wife alone at home and go out to play until midnight. In severe cases, I didn't go home all night. My wife suffers loneliness and pain at home alone, but she is also worried about her husband and can't sleep at night? If the wife is stimulated by her husband's "destruction" for a long time, this stimulation will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also affect the fetus, bring some adverse consequences to the baby after birth, and even cast a shadow over the warm family?

If the adverse effect of maternal hypertension on the fetus is defined as L, then the adverse effect caused by bad relationship between parents and frequent quarrels is 6 times? The husband's bad behavior is much more serious than the pregnant woman's own illness to the fetus? This requires a young husband's consistent enthusiasm and care for his pregnant wife for his lovely baby and warm home?

Helping the wife is the second method of scientific prenatal education.

It should be said that a pregnant wife can't live without her husband and needs her husband anytime and anywhere, so her husband should take the initiative to help her through pregnancy and childbirth?

One is to help his wife stabilize her mood and make her happy? Early pregnancy, in addition to eating disorders, pregnant women? Vomiting is not only lethargy, but also emotional instability and excitability? Irritated? Angry, emotionally fragile, often crying because of little things, and even inexplicably bored with her family, especially her husband. It seems that everyone is sorry for her. What should I do? These abnormal emotions can affect the fetus through changes in body functions and various endocrine hormones? At this time, the husband should understand his wife's emotional instability, try his best to help her get rid of the unpleasantness of her first pregnancy, try to make her happy, and should not make her angry again?

When his wife has a serious pregnancy reaction and can't eat well or sleep well, she feels wronged. When crying to her husband, he must pay attention to his words and deeds and keep quiet? Don't be angry, okay? Don't blame, use kisses and caresses to express understanding and sympathy? When the wife's mood is slightly stable after caressing, it will definitely make her very happy?

Of course, in order to make his wife's mood stable, the husband should first keep a calm mood, and don't speak out his unhappy things without reservation, let alone vent his anger on his wife, and don't turn his face into a thermometer. In order to keep his wife's mood in the best condition, a husband should not only have the masculine beauty of a man, but also have the gentleness of a woman, and often talk with his wife, make up stories and tease her. Fetuses will also benefit from it?

The second is to help my wife do a good job in music prenatal education? Help my wife choose music, prepare teaching AIDS for music lessons, remind her to listen to music, and help her set up speakers. ...

Third, help my wife to measure the fundus, listen to fetal heart sounds, count fetal movements, weigh herself, and keep a diary during pregnancy? If you find anything unusual, you should immediately escort your wife to the hospital for examination. Don't be careless? Cold shoulder?

Protecting the wife is the third method of scientific prenatal education.

It is gratifying that a young husband should love his wife very much and be very concerned about her pregnancy? But it must be pointed out that care and protection must pay attention to science? On the first day of becoming a husband, you should subconsciously learn the knowledge of pregnancy, and if you master the knowledge of pregnancy, you can become your wife's pregnancy counselor, help her make suggestions and give some specific guidance when something happens? At the same time, you can protect your wife and avoid leaving lifelong regrets?

There are many specific things to protect a pregnant wife. Here are some points:

(1) husbands should take the initiative to share housework, and wives are absolutely not allowed to choose? A compliment? Mention? Carrying heavy work? Take the initiative to do heavy work? Especially in the third trimester of pregnancy, you should undertake all the housework and ensure that your wife has enough rest and sleep?

(2) husbands should establish the concept that boys and girls are the same, and don't put any pressure on their wives, let alone duplicity?

(3) husbands should abstain from sex and avoid abortion? Premature delivery? Vaginal infection and other phenomena occur?

(4) A husband should accompany his wife for a walk? Shopping? Go out and avoid collisions? Squeeze your wife's abdomen? Up and down the steps? When walking in rugged places, remind your wife to be careful and help her avoid falling?

(5) encounter loud noise? Strong vibration environment and malignant events, try to let the wife leave as soon as possible to avoid adverse effects on the wife and fetus?

For the sake of maternal and child health, we must resolutely put an end to bad habits?

(7) For the sake of maternal and infant health, especially during the epidemic period of infectious diseases, husbands seldom go to public places, so as to avoid catching infectious diseases and affecting mothers and infants?

Accompanying your wife is the fourth method of scientific prenatal education.

Pregnant wives are afraid of loneliness, so no matter how busy they are at work, husbands should take care of their wives and try their best to spend time with them to make them feel relaxed? Are you happy?

(1) Should the husband accompany his wife to do health exercises during pregnancy and do physical examination?

(2) Does the husband want to accompany his wife to watch comedies? Art exhibition? Enjoy music, etc? Do you want to take a walk with your wife? Short trip? Visiting relatives and friends and attending social activities?

(3) Does the husband want to tell jokes with his wife? Tell a story? Painting? Writing poems to enrich your wife's spare time?

(4) In labor, the husband should accompany one side, which will make the wife emotionally stable, relieve the pain and give birth smoothly?