Dad's surname is cursing and he is worried about naming the twins. What if it doesn't sound good?

Some people began to name their children before they were born, and many parents found some "experts" to help them name them, just to have a good name to accompany their children and wish them a lifetime. However, there are also many people whose parents' surnames are rare and unique, but they are worried about themselves!

If the surname is Li, Zhang and Sun, you can simply find the name you like, but what about the surname? It is estimated that many people have heard of it for the first time. At this time, it feels bad to name their children. Fortunately, the parents got double happiness and gave birth to twins at once! How to name a child? When we know the origin of surnames, we may have different ideas.

The origin of surnames

At the earliest, surnames were different. At first, they were usually called so-and-so, and later they were all surnamed. Surnames were not mixed until after the reunification, so surnames have a history of at least 5,000 years.

In the past, surnames mainly represented identity and were the inheritance of blood. Surnames came from totems and celestial phenomena in ancient times and were the expression of clan content. In ancient times, the first people to call their surnames were generally women, while men called their surnames. Zheng Qiao Chronicle? There are many surnames under the same surname.

Surnames can be said to reflect history, and different surnames reflect the history and culture at that time. Until the emergence of hundreds of surnames, surnames were obviously divided, and there began to be multiple surnames, even three words, and sometimes even no surnames. Dai was one of them.

Surnames are also given by totems, ancestors, fiefs, mountains and rivers, rulers and so on. Others change their surnames to avoid disasters, including more than a dozen specific sources and many small branches. Up to now, all we know is to inherit the father's surname.

The source of "scolding" is literally the same!

In fact, it was only someone who made a mistake that angered the emperor, changed his surname to Ma in a rage, and even deprived him of his due rights.

From the above introduction, we also know that some surnames were given by the emperor, so this surname has been handed down.

But up to now, the name has been trimmed. It was changed to "Mo" a long time ago, which means to abandon the old ideas of the past and should have the rights that contemporary people should have. Now, some tribes named Xu are simple and enthusiastic, and in order to show respect, they have been listed in the intangible cultural list after layers of examination and approval.

Although people have long been able to distinguish right from wrong and have no prejudice against this surname, the word itself is controversial, and more often it is a derogatory term. Wanting a nice name really worries parents. Let's imagine, if Zhang becomes Si, scold three and scold four! Suddenly I have a very strange feeling.

How to name a child!

But in any case, it is always necessary to give yourself a name, and it is no longer helpful to prevent others from calling themselves by their surnames in the future. A good name can not only avoid this embarrassment, but also give people a first impression, so it must be carefully considered.

1, named by online tools.

If we used to look up the dictionary to name our children, we should consult the elderly and even teachers of related majors. Some operations have caused modern people to collapse long ago.

Now, you may only need a device that can access the Internet, enter the child's birthday, family information, etc., and the name will be automatically generated. This method is very time-saving and brings difficulties to parents' choice.

2. With the help of ancient poetry

Our 5000-year-old culture is not just for us to remember. Among them, some universities require us to learn, including naming, so many famous sayings and beautiful ancient poems. With the help of the words, we can even use them directly. For example, Tu Youyou, Li Tianyi, Lu Geng and so on, many celebrities are named like this.

3, nice, easy to remember, smooth

Sometimes you really don't have to think too much about naming. As long as you have a good name that sounds comfortable for yourself and others, that's the name. And sometimes simple names are easier to remember because they are easy to remember!

4. Self-creation

If parents used to pay great attention to their children's names, it would even take some calculation to determine. So now parents may just split their names into a new name, or they may just name their children if they have something profound to them or themselves, which is also a kind of commemoration. Isn't that the name? It is a deep blessing to children.

No one stipulates what to do when naming, but there will also be many pits that parents need to avoid, otherwise their temporary quickness may bring lifelong "white eyes" to their children.

A famous joke

1, the name is too difficult!

Looking back at the roll call at school, I felt very much looking forward to it, whether it was my own roll call or watching others roll call. I look forward to meeting some students with unique names when I call the roll. When I see that the roll call is wrong or I can't call it out, it always causes the whole class to laugh. This is really a youthful memory.

However, sometimes you need to pronounce your name when you go to work now. At this time, it is easy to make jokes if you don't know each other. So try not to find some uncommon words when naming children.

2. The name sounds good, but it doesn't change its taste.

Another situation is that if you only look at the name, you will feel that it is a good name, and it is very comfortable in both meaning and other people's address.

But once the surname is added, it is really a sharp turn. For example, a single name is money, but what if it's Jia? It becomes "Jia Chao", and there are many others. Therefore, when naming a name, you must never separate the surname from the first name, and you must read it together, otherwise the child will leave you with a "dirty look" for you to experience.

3, the names should not be too different!

Many parents seek to be different from their names in order to make their children have a different life. This may really attract others' attention, but it will only make others look at you with new eyes. It's no problem that names are different from normal words, but it's really hard to use uncommon words or even words with special meanings as metaphors! For example, a once popular name was "Wang".

In any case, we can't change our surnames. Since it can't be changed, even if the surname is special, there is no need to care. What will others say as long as we name our names carefully and normally? Our name is a symbol of our identity and value, not as a "burden"!