Looking back 29 years later, I found how lucky she was to marry Liu.

1992, Liu 16 years old. At that time, he was not the "fat man who didn't know the ball" now, but the famous "naughty boy" of the national table tennis team.

On this day, Liu and his teammates learned that there were two more female players in the team, and they were all in high spirits. They didn't know what the female players would look like.

But never expected, people finally came, but both female players wore big masks and could see nothing but their eyes.

Liu said, and also with the male players, "what's the situation? Why are these two still wearing masks? " After that, I laughed with the players.

At this time, Liu had no idea that between the two masked female players, one of them would be his lifelong lover.

This girl is none other than Liu's wife.

Today, Liu has been with him for 29 years, but every time I think back to seeing his wife for the first time, I can't forget it for a long time. He said:

"As soon as they took off their masks, I found that they were the most beautiful. Of course, Wang Jin is the most beautiful, and I fell in love at first sight. "

After listening to this, Wang Jin did not forget to sarcastically say: You know now, I was cheated by his "sweet words".

/kloc-I met him at the age of 0/6. Liu He's love seems romantic, but in fact it is full of twists and turns. How did they stay together for 29 years?

Liu has changed from a talented player to a world champion and is now the head coach of the national table tennis team. What kind of trough and sadness is hidden behind Wang Jin's company along the way?

Married 15 years, why Liu bluntly said that the proudest thing in this life is to marry a good wife! What kind of charm does Wang Jin have?

Today, let's go in and see what is simple about this woman who can marry Liu!

02

When 16-year-old Liu and "love at first sight", he didn't hide this feeling silently in his heart, but began to act quietly.

He began to secretly observe the living habits and found that it was the slowest one after each training, so Liu began to create "encounters."

For example, he took the initiative to ask if he was used to coming to Beijing, or if he needed technical guidance, but Liu didn't know at the time, and he was very overwhelmed and shocked by his initiative.

It turned out that before entering the national youth team, people in Liaoning had heard of Liu's name. After all, Liu was trained as a "seed player" by the National Youth Team because of his talent in playing ball.

So I was nervous when I saw the "idol" greeting myself, but fortunately, Liu's mind was lively, and I really thought that Liu, like himself, was also a chronic patient and liked to be the last one to leave after training.

It was not until they were together that they realized that Liu was waiting for her on purpose.

Besides walking with him after training, one of Liu's favorite things is to have a cultural class with him.

At that time, in addition to playing ball every day, the players of the National Youth Team also had special cultural classes. At that time, Wang Jin was best at English. Therefore, Liu often asks for English.

What impressed me most was that in a math class, Liu came to ask her for English questions, and both of them were criticized by the math teacher. With this * * * experience with "adversity", I became more familiar with Liu.

Three months later, Liu officially invited him out for a barbecue. When he came over, he found that Liu had another brother with him, which made him embarrassed.

After the barbecue, Liu also spent a "huge sum" and bought three tickets for karaoke. At that time, a ticket was for 60 yuan, but Liu spent it willingly, but he was still afraid of not going.

On that day, three people "roared" in karaoke all night, and Jin next door became Liu's "girlfriend".

Later, I asked Liu why he took his brother when he clearly wanted to date me. Unexpectedly, Liu said, "I want to bring one more person, so that the coach will think we are talking about playing ball when he sees us." .

In this way, Liu He "secretly fell in love". On weekdays, like ordinary players, they don't see any subtleties between them, but Liu takes them out to play whenever there is an opportunity.

In other words, although we are the same age, I feel like a child in front of Liu, but he looks very mature.

Although both of them tried to protect their feelings, they met their first emotional crisis a year later.

03

1February, 993, Wang Jin made the first major decision in her life. She volunteered to retire and obey the arrangement of the leader to play abroad.

When I made this decision, I was only 17 years old and had just been in love with Liu for a year.

At that time, the family advised Wang Jin to think clearly. After all, he gave up playing in China for Liu. What if he regrets it later?

But Wang Jin still didn't hesitate. She said, I just want to gamble. I believe Liu.

After determining his mind, Liu was reluctant, but helpless.

Because there was an unwritten rule in the national youth team at that time, male and female players in the team were not allowed to fall in love, otherwise one of them would have to go back to the provincial team and felt that Liu was more capable of winning the championship, so she chose to give up and save Liu.

After that, Wang went abroad for four years. For a 17-year-old girl, being far away from her relatives and alone in a foreign country, especially a strange country, the loneliness and suffering during the period can be imagined.

Liu Ye knows what a long-distance relationship is, but he is not the kind of person who just sees the status quo and lets go. He and Wang Jin agreed that they should talk on the phone whenever they have time.

At that time, mobile phones were not popular. Liu He's contact information is to make a public phone call, and they bought all the money into a phone card.

Wang Jin later said in an interview that the cost of a seven-minute phone call was 1 1,000 yen. Liu immediately replied: In the evening 1 1, you can talk for eight and a half minutes.

Although the international telephone bill was very expensive at that time, they still kept in touch with Liu, and they spent 30 thousand yen on the telephone bill at most.

But even if you have time to get in touch, Wang Jin will inevitably feel depressed when he is alone abroad.

Once, maybe I was acclimatized and got chicken pox all over. I wanted to talk to Liu on the phone, but no one could get in touch.

This feeling of loneliness and helplessness made Wang Jin very collapsed. She often cried in those days. Later, I learned that Liu had to prepare for the Olympic Games, and his daily schedule was very full.

After learning the news, Wang Jin immediately calmed down. She volunteered to tell Liu that as long as you are busy with training tasks, it doesn't matter if you don't contact me for a few days.

1996 is the peak year of Liu Yisheng.

This year, he not only won the men's doubles championship with Kong at the Atlanta Olympic Games, but also won the men's singles championship. It can be said that in 1996, 20-year-old Liu has become a world-famous table tennis player with her superb skills.

Just when Liu was at the peak of his life, he was sweating for Liu abroad.

It turned out that there was no broadcast of the game abroad at that time, and it was impossible to know Liu's performance at the Olympic Games. The only way to know the news is to wait for Liu's brother to call him.

At that time, my younger brother Liu had a habit. As long as his younger brother Liu wins the game, he will shout "Sasha Vujacic!" He called three times. My brother Liu, who was looking forward to it, said this "whisper" that day.

Fortunately, at the Atlanta Olympic Games, Liu Yi Road "whispered" to the end.

Seeing her boyfriend finally succeeded, I was proud of Liu at first, but then I somehow fell into inferiority complex.

On the phone, tell Liu, or break up. Now the gap between us is too big. You are already a world champion, and I don't think I deserve you.

Upon hearing this, Liu immediately said on the other end of the phone, "Your idea is wrong.". How can you not deserve me? Can I have today's achievements without your support and comfort?

After hanging up, Wang Jin cried. At that moment, she said, I didn't feel that I loved the wrong person.

04

1999, three years after Liu won the world championship, he fell from the peak of his life to the bottom.

He first fell into the "doping" crisis. In addition to responding to international sampling, his greatest wish at that time was to quickly clear his name.

Then at 1, Liu lost two points in the 2000 World Table Tennis Championships, which led to China losing to Sweden. This result undoubtedly made the pressure on Liu "worse".

After many blows, Liu was very depressed. At the saddest time, he said that he cried when he saw the leader, and even thought about "suicide".

These pressures and anxieties, Liu's only confidante, are gentle and open-minded, which supported Liu Du through those difficult years.

In 2002, 26-year-old Liu Ying came to another major turning point in his life. This year, he decided to retire and officially became a table tennis coach.

When Liu became a coach, he also planned a new direction and sent it to Shanghai Jiaotong University to study and enrich himself with knowledge.

He said, in fact, I have thought about my future path in Wang Jin, and I will definitely not leave her when I move forward.

In 2006, Liu He turned 30 together. By that time, their love has been running for 14 years.

Many people began to worry about Wang Jin, saying that women are 30 years old. They must settle down and urge Liu to get married and have children.

In the face of such pressure, Wang Jin is very calm. She said that I understand Liu's busyness and hard work. As a coach, he has enough pressure and responsibility, and I absolutely can't put any more pressure on him.

The most important thing is to trust Liu very much, and 14 has survived the ups and downs. If we are not sure about each other's wishes, then such feelings are nothing!

Fortunately, Liu didn't disappoint.

On August 6th, 2006, Wei Liu held a lively wedding. Under the witness of many world champions and Olympic champions, the two officially got married.

Seeing the smiles of the two people at the wedding that year is enough to show how satisfied they are with this marriage.

In fact, what many people don't know is that even at such an important moment as the wedding, Wang Jin is still willing to give everything.

It turned out that Wang Jin drove himself to make up, including going to the wedding scene. She said that Liu was too tired on weekdays, and I wanted him to sleep a little longer. I don't care about these forms. Enough for both of us to have a good life.

Until now, I still take care of Liu everywhere in my life, and this habit has not changed since she fell in love.

In this regard, Kong once bluntly said that Liu was a "little slacker" in his life, his clothes were littered and his suitcase was often "misplaced".

Even Kong shared a dormitory with Liu, and drew a line where they put their things, just not to let Liu "cross the border".

But these shortcomings are tolerable here, and we can continue to "get used to" Liu.

Especially after Liu became the head coach of the table tennis team, they often never met again. Every time they meet, they exchange a bag. Liu hands over a bag of dirty clothes and a bag of clean clothes.

Later, the host Lu Yu asked, Do you feel wronged for taking care of Liu for so many years?

Wang Jin replied, I'm used to it. I don't think you can ask a person for everything. He is just fit to play ball and be a coach. These are good enough. I will do my best.

20 10, in the fourth year of marriage, Liu gave birth to a pair of twin daughters. They upgraded from a two-person world to a family of four, and the happiness index rose again.

After having children, Liu still seldom stays at home. He said that everything at home was done by Wang Jin. I have to say, I really married a good wife.

What impressed Liu most was that when his daughter was a child, he once went home and saw a strange aunt taking care of her children in the community. He went in and asked her if the two children were twins.

Aunt didn't know Liu either, so she said, yes, twins.

At that time, Liu thought, who also gave birth to twins? Lucky as I am.

Later, my aunt taught her two children to call them uncles. It was not until Wang Jin came over that she painfully told her aunt that she could not call her uncle but her father.

Many years later, Liu told this story as a joke, but Liu, who looked cheerful, had a trace of guilt and sadness in his eyes.

He said that as a coach, he is qualified. He has been training world champions for his country for so many years, but as a father and husband, he is heavily in debt.

05

202 1, Liu made great achievements in his career.

The national table tennis men's team led by him won the championship again at the Tokyo Olympic Games, winning glory for the country;

At the same time, Liu was nominated as the vice chairman this year, which is well deserved.

In Liu's career, she continued to contribute to table tennis, and now she is full of happiness in her life.

He said that although he can't go home often, he is the backbone of the three women in the family, and he has to plan any major events.

For example, Wei Liu, his eldest daughter, planned a golf course, hoping to make her daughter the greatest golfer in the world. Now, a cupboard full of trophies, big and small, has been won.

For another example, the second daughters like literature and art one by one, so Liu asked her daughters to learn to sing and dance and make a happy pistachio.

When planning for her daughter, Liu's first principle is to follow the child's interest, and the second is to look at the child's talent.

He said that if a child is talented and interested, he should study. If he is not talented, he should never study. Once a child has set a goal, Liu says he will be very strict.

For example, Liu's requirements for his eldest daughter to win the championship are as high as those for Xu Xin and Ma Long.

Compared with the strict requirements for his daughter, Liu dotes on his wife in every way.

Although we have been together for 29 years, we are still as sweet as our first love. Always forgetful when going out, Liu Ye doesn't lose his temper. She waited slowly at the door, occasionally secretly saying to her daughter, "Is mom worried?"

When her daughter quarreled with her mother, Liu even felt like a "peacemaker". One moment my wife called to complain that my daughter was disobedient, and the other moment my daughter called to tell her mother.

Although Liu said that there are three women in the family and there are many things, her face is still very proud. Frankly speaking, I just help them solve their problems.

And his wife has no complaints about Liu. She said I know Liu. He is busy with work and many things, but in fact he takes care of his family and is really good to me and my children.

No matter how busy Liu is, as long as time permits, he always takes time to arrange a stuttering meal on one day of the week. I will also take a family photo with my family every year; As for Liu's phone, no matter how many years, it has never been disconnected.

Especially on the important wedding anniversary, Liu never forgets to send flowers to his wife and take her to barbecue, which is as sweet and romantic as ever.

After watching Liu He together for 29 years, I suddenly feel that they are the role models that young people should learn the most.

A couple can't be perfect in everything and get along with each other everywhere, but a truly loving couple will never indulge in complaints and disgust, but will work together, support each other and achieve each other.

I hope you can be together for many years like Liu He. Just like before, I just want to win a heart and never give up.