My mother said that I would eat inside and choose outside. Is that too much?

Yes, too many. Since childhood, the person we rely on most is our mother, and we also feel that in her eyes, we should be her proudest, so it must be particularly uncomfortable to be told by her mother to eat outside.

My mother is a very strong woman. She is overbearing, too. She thinks she has done nothing wrong in her life. The life she arranged for me and my father is the greatest dedication of her life. No matter whether her tyranny makes people feel comfortable or not, she will scold you for being unfilial if you feel uncomfortable and resist.

So until I entered the university, my life was arranged by my mother. When I was studying, I had no friends and I was not allowed to make friends. In their words, making friends affects your studies. I sing very well, and I was born with a good voice. When the music teacher came to my mother and asked me to learn music, my mother thought it was hopeless and blew the teacher away.

I draw well, so the art teacher also came to my mother and asked me to learn art and accept me as an apprentice. My mother continued to blow the art teacher away in a friendly way with this attitude of doing nothing. So, finally, under her pressure, I gave up hope of preparing for the college entrance examination. I said, I hate reciting. I want to study science.

But during the subject examination, I was dragged back to the liberal arts examination room by the class teacher. All this is because that powerful mother begged him. My mother's persuasion level is first-class. I have to admit that she doesn't read much. If she does, with her social skills and eloquence, she will be able to become a leader or a female entrepreneur.

What frightens me most is that every time I disagree with her wishes, she will turn her face and deny people, saying that I am a guy who eats inside and picks outside.