Reading can change a person’s appearance

What changes reading is not the shape of the appearance, but the charm of the appearance. The change in a person's charm comes from the heart.

In the past few years, I have read many works by famous writers. I read and understand them carefully. I will excerpt and take notes when I encounter good sentences with emotion. I also write some lyrical words when I have time. Now I am sitting next to the computer typing these words. The sun is shining outside the window and the breeze is gentle. There were people chattering around, some playing music, and some laughing. Downstairs was a bustling city, bustling with traffic and people coming and going, making it extremely noisy. I can still sit quietly and express my thoughts completely and beautifully.

Reading can really change a person's appearance.

Of course, what changes is not the shape of the appearance, but the charm of the appearance. The change in a person's charm comes from the heart.

Zeng Guofan’s way of teaching his children to read is: “People’s temperament is difficult to change due to their innate nature. Only reading can change their temperament. Those who were good at physiognomy in ancient times also said that reading can change the physical appearance. ”

Sanmao also said: “The more you read, the more your appearance will change. Many times, you may think that many of the books you have read have become a passing smoke and are no longer remembered. In fact, they are still the underlying temperament. , in conversation, in the boundless mind, and of course it may also be revealed in life and writing. "

Phases come from the heart.

I used to be an extremely sharp person, impenetrable. Like a piece of jade that has not yet been polished, hard, self-centered, full of edges and thorns. Now, my personality has gradually become simple, light and ordinary.

Life is constantly being deleted and simplified. The blessings of reading and self-precipitation have made my heart become clearer and softer. I can handle many things with ease, I can take them up and let them go, and I am no longer so stubborn.

When I was a teenager, I was even more exaggerated. Maybe I was ignorant. I might have a big fight with someone because of someone else’s joke. I might also argue with my parents over trivial things. I might even fight against me at every turn. That girl you hate.

At that time, there were many people and things that I couldn’t stand, and my temper was also very bad. I accidentally exploded, like an enraged beast, circling back and forth, leaping and attacking, trying to gain momentum. Above, crushing people and devouring them. The anger, violence, uneasiness, tension, depression, confusion and reckless impulse derived from this process all reflect the lack and dark side of one's own personality.

In fact, when people hurt others, they themselves will also be hurt. Self-destruction, a vicious cycle, after carrying such dark emotions and injuries for a long time, people will become more and more insecure.

I don’t do that anymore.

Of course, there is also the credit of time.

Maybe it’s because I’ve grown up, or maybe it’s because I’ve seen so many people and things that I’ve become accustomed to them. But I really feel the change in myself.

The current self is peaceful and simple, generous and gentle, with a peaceful heart, like a plant that can quietly and freely accommodate everything in the world.

When I say I am peaceful, I feel that I will never get angry accidentally like before.

Instead, I like smiling more and more. Smile at everyone sincerely and from the bottom of your heart. The smile in the brows and the still water running deep are a kind of insight. I don’t think I have much life experience, because I am still young and not deeply involved in the world. I can only get my understanding of human affairs and worldly affairs from books.

Books have given me so many things. The abundance of my heart allows me to forgive and let go of the hurt and pain caused by others, and at the same time, it allows me to sublimate myself to a new level.

When I say I am simple, I feel that there are too few things I want.

When I read "Six Chapters of a Floating Life", I liked Yun Niang the most. Lin Yutang said that Yun Niang was the most lovable woman in the history of Chinese literature, and I followed his words.

The cute thing about Yun Niang is that she doesn't ask for much. As long as she is with Shen Fu, she is happy. She also said that her dream is: "When he was young, he and Jun Bu built here and bought ten acres of vegetable gardens around the house. I work as a servant and plant fruits and vegetables for my salary. You paint and I embroider for the sake of keeping the wine. I have enough food and clothing for my whole life, so I don’t need to plan a long trip.”

Actually, if you think about it carefully, Living in this world, how to live is not living. There are thousands of buildings, but only one can stay overnight. There are thousands of hectares of fertile land, but only three meals a day.

I don’t care about fine clothes, gold and silver, nor do I pursue glory, wealth, fancy cars and BMWs. There is only a worldly heart. What I want in this life is to be with a worthy person, to live in an ordinary life, to live happily ever after, and to grow old together.

Possessiveness often arises from need, insecurity and desire for desire. Evil comes from clinging to this desire. Many people with fierce looks are mostly those who don't have what they want. The more things you want in your heart, the more hatred and dissatisfaction you will feel towards the outside world, which will be reflected in your appearance and eyes.

Such a person, no matter how beautiful, is disgusting.

Simplicity is a silent force. A simple person, homely, plain and sincere, with a smile on his face that flows deep, and when he lowers his head, he will melt into a living gray dog.

Of course, dreams cannot be too simple.

People should have the most distant dreams and the simplest life.

In my eyes, everything in the world has gradually become something else.

The prosperity and decline of time, fate, choice, beauty and ugliness, gain and loss, all seem not so important. On the contrary, you are enjoying the process. In the human world, there are all kinds of good and evil beauties. In that process, you won’t get tired of watching villains do ugly things, and you won’t be surprised or amazed when you see gentlemen doing benevolent things and benefiting the world.

Always look at the parts of life that are destined to be incomplete and unfulfilling in a calm manner, without being surprised or happy.

In this process, you grow, and your heart becomes softer and quieter, as vast as the sea. That's what's good.

You can also appreciate others better. Treat relationships with others as plain water, not relying too much and trying to preserve them forever; nor deliberately clinging to, alienating, or getting closer.

Appreciate and love everyone so tepidly, fairly, tolerantly, clearly and seriously.

Baby Annie wrote in the book "Sleeping Sky": "Read handwritten letters. Turn off the lights and look at the neon lights outside the window in the dark. Read and fall asleep on rainy days. Meet people in coffee shops late at night in the snow and walk there. . Staying in other people’s homes, eating their food. Burning incense. Making tea. Smelling the faint scent of perfume in the clothes of others and falling asleep together on the cold winter street. . A little drunk.

All these are the joy of life. ”

This is also a kind of life that I yearn for. All I want in life is to have a small house, with every corner decorated to put down books.

In this way, you can read while eating, while sitting, reading while sleeping, and while basking in the sun. When I pick it up, there are books. When I turn around, I find it is a bookcase.

Such a day must be very pleasant and wonderful.

Or, vaguely, lying on a bed with carved tents, you can see him when you open your eyes, fall in love with him, and get up lazily. Thrushing eyebrows, dressing up, and finally, the two of them sat in front of the window, reading in the rain, planting flowers, and drinking tea.

Two people and one horse, peach blossoms in March, the world will be over tomorrow.

It is a joy to be able to slowly spend a trivial and ordinary life with him, being gentle and gentle.

As I write this, the sky outside the window has darkened, the willows are shining under the moon, and the peach blossoms are like a sea.

In conclusion, appearance comes from the heart, and a person’s appearance is determined by his heart. How soft and generous your heart is, how soft and calm your appearance is.

Nowadays, I occasionally show a slightly sinister look, perhaps because I have not practiced enough.

I hope that in the future, my bones and appearance will become softer and more beautiful.