What is the experience of middle age? Different attitudes towards life between thirty and just thirty.

Some people are in the hardest hit areas, and people around them are affected by the virus, which makes them feel sad about the value of life.

Some people are trapped by their family's livelihood and worry about the price of vegetables and housing. I don't have enough to eat and wear in Qi Fei, and I sigh that life is not easy.

Some people are bound by the future of their jobs, and they are worried that work stoppage will run counter to financial freedom, and feel the cruelty of reality.

Wang Xiaobo said in the Golden Age: "Life is a process of being hammered slowly. People get older day by day, expecting to disappear day by day, and finally become like a hammered cow. "

On the other hand, the preciousness of youth, the omnipotence of money and the brilliance of celebrities are always in contrast with your life.

When you pick up the photo album and browse the past of your youth, when you ride your bike past the luxury car building, when you look at your mobile phone and admire the entertainment of the stars, life will tell you that the ubiquitous crit will come to visit you at any time.

Sadly, most people always have cognitive delay. When they are in their prime and have not been ambushed in real life, they generally do not foresee that they will be finalized.

2 1 year-old you and 3 1 year-old you are always careless about people and things. Even if you feel strange, you will think that I have a stable source of income and strong support from my parents, and I don't need to work hard or change.

After the magical 2020,8090, I have reached the crossroads of my life. Yes, me too. Writing this article is not a sermon from my elders, but I am also a part of it. In fact, it has been a long time since the crossroads, and people have a deep understanding of the experience of middle age.

Standing at 30 and standing at 30 are actually two attitudes towards life.

When you are about to turn 30, one day you will suddenly think about life, because the future of work, marriage and family will begin to enter a stage summary. When you have finished thinking, you will begin to plan the future with all your strength. I have exhausted all my energy, and the second half will continue with all my energy and then fail, because many people have passed like this, just as easily as stepping on the threshold of their own homes, and all their ambitions in the past have vanished in the process.

What about after 30? If you don't stand up at the age of 30, you will always fall into a period of time.

The only benefit of the epidemic is that you can be decadent at home and empty at the same time, which means abandoning all previous right and wrong.

Standing at 30 seems like a joke. The heavy hammer of life shattered all your dreams, which turned into fantasies. Thirty may be the next attitude towards life.

Tell a true story that happened in my life.

This time last year, I was the deputy director of an early education center. I stopped for a while when I went, trying to catch the tail of youth and work hard.

At that time, the person in charge of the early education center was also full of ambitions. He wanted to be bigger and stronger on the existing basis and open a "branch" next year to create greater glories.

We talked for two full hours and eight hours, which was very satisfactory and happy, and it hit it off. I was parachuted in to take charge of marketing.

It never occurred to me that the prelude had already happened in front of me. As we all know, in the education industry, enrollment is the top priority. Before I came, the director outsourced a marketing agency, and the violence set off an explosion of potential customers. The activity was very successful, and colorful music was played.

Later, I vaguely felt that the follow-up enrollment was more difficult, because offline educational institutions had certain regional radiation, and the students in this area were digested and ready to drink the northwest wind.

Then I worked overtime every day. No matter how hard I try, I can't change the objective facts or turn the tide. Three months later, the ending song "Those Flowers" played, and we went our separate ways.

There is no regret, only anger, not unhappiness with the objective environment, but all the pain to yourself and others, which is essentially anger at your incompetence.

Of course, there is a sequel to this story. After the outbreak, the shopping mall where the early education center is located was unsealed. Once I revisited my old place, I couldn't find the facade of my old club. At first I thought I had a bad memory. Later, I looked carefully and found that the director's grand plan to open a branch was realized in disguise. My original two doors have been carved up by two later merchants, and they have really become "branches".

The director didn't find her AK-47, which was a great achievement. Like me, she lost to the objective environment with the right time and the right place or her own incompetence.

After all, the plan can't keep up with the change, and the goal of 30 has become just over 30.

Just thirty, set up the banner of your life.

There are three female stars in the TV series Thirty. It is an enviable upper pyramid, a maverick rebel and a standardized majority. They represent the typical living conditions of three classes in today's society.

According to the established story line, Gu Jia lived a husband and wife life, carefree; Wang Manni lived an enviable life and a happy life; Zhong lived an ordinary life, slowly but surely.

If the script reaches this point, the name of the play must be changed to 30. Although the ending of the TV series is not perfect, it is a true portrayal of 30, and it is not their desired attitude towards life.

Tv drama is a dramatic life, and reality is sometimes more dramatic than TV. The script of life will never be as smooth as you wish. When life stands at the age of 30, the story line changes with the time axis, and everyone's attitude towards life can also affect life.

1998, 27-year-old Ma founded Tencent in Shenzhen. 1999, 30-year-old Ma Yun founded Alibaba in Hangzhou. Yes, they are very successful now, but the process in the middle is not smooth sailing.

1999 internet bubble Tencent is struggling to sell QQ. In 2000, Alibaba's capital chain was about to collapse. At that time, hard work was very important, but attitude was more important. If you are crushed by your own psychology, there will be nothing in the future. Fortunately, they all survived, stood at the peak and became the trendsetter of the times.

2020 is destined to be a magical year, and the goal of 30 years has not been achieved. Do you think there is still a chance?

I don't think there may be, or there may not be, but the goal is just the goal, and it doesn't matter after 30.

Be the master of your own life, don't be embarrassed by the pressure of life, don't be disappointed by the splendor of outsiders, work hard for the goal of thirty with a posture of thirty, fight for your dreams, relax and advance and retreat.

2020 is destined to be an extraordinary year, but we will take everyone alive seriously!

-This article is dedicated to the last loser who was still dreaming in 10 and the next winner who woke up in 10.

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