China's parents' jokes about tutoring their children.

I think the biggest failure is that parents always want to decide their children's lives with their own ideas and want their children to be a continuation of their lives.

There is no doubt that China's parents love their children, which can be proved by their upbringing and constant help when they grow up. However, parents' education in China always expects children to follow their own preset path.

Parents interfere too much in their children's lives, but they call their children's resistance rebellion. I grew up under the care of my parents, and I didn't have my own ideas until I went to college. Whether I choose a school in primary school or a liberal arts school in high school, or I volunteer to fill in the college entrance examination, I have never made my own choice. My parents made a decision for me.

When I entered the university, I saw a wider world and began to have my own ideas and opinions, which made me unwilling to follow my parents' ideas after graduation. This makes my parents very angry, and we also have many contradictions. My parents criticized me for being rebellious, but I think this is my life.

In fact, most parents in China think that their children can avoid detours with their own life experience, but the times have long been different, and everyone wants to get out of their own life path.

Don't let go when it's time to let go, but always compare your children with other children. My grades dropped badly in high school. Every time I go home on holiday, my mother always tells me how much the children next door have improved their grades, and then scolds me for not studying hard, but I really feel that I have done my best.

My mother will not consider how many cram schools the children next door have enrolled in, nor how much the children next door have spent on cram schools. It will only make me study hard, but I really have the will but I can't. The more academic performance declines, the more nervous and nervous it is, and it becomes a vicious circle.

When I was in college, my mother always called me and told me not to fall in love. I should study hard first. There are many opportunities after work. But less than a year after I graduated from college, my mother urged me to get married long ago and compared me with my classmates in the village next door. At my age, children are over two years old.

I think most children in China will have some similar experiences when they grow up. This kind of education has left a deep imprint on our growth, which makes people feel inferior and want to escape.

Everyone has their own views on education in China, but no matter how many shortcomings parents have in education, they are sincerely doing a good job for their children.

After being a parent, it may be helpful for the growth of children to get rid of the shortcomings in the Chinese parenting style that we think.