How to deal with people who ridicule you through jokes?

In interpersonal communication, we have to wear a mask of truth and falsehood to adapt to the hypocrisy of life, integrate into the circle of the general trend, and expand the so-called contacts.

So I hid my emotions, blurred my likes and dislikes, went with the flow, and even clearly heard the ridicule in my words, saw the contempt in my eyes, pretended not to know the grievances, and greeted me with a smile.

This kind of behavior seems to stabilize a relationship, but it actually brings a lot of trouble to itself, because some people who push their luck like to pick soft persimmons.

When your relationship is out of balance and the other person ignores you, it will not help at all, but will continue to hurt you and make you sensitive, inferior and timid.

If you directly ridicule the injury, a gentle-tempered person can be positive, but I am afraid that someone will slander you with jokes and make you swallow your teeth.

Just like I saw a video of several girls shopping, the thinner girl deliberately pointed to the clothes in size xs and said to the fatter girl, "You don't know if this skirt xx can be worn on one leg." Then she smiled.

The fat girl changed her face and stopped talking. She said exaggeratedly, "No, I was just joking. What about you? " , drove each other gnashing said it doesn't matter, but also echoed her excessive jokes.

False friendship is simply not worth the effort to make friends, so don't have the heart to meet someone who is joking but actually mocking you.

Being pampered is zero and countless times.

Peace and friendship are engraved in our bones. We always subconsciously resist and dodge provocations and dare not reply directly. So when we reacted, we found that we were "recognized as cowardice" and had to secretly regret it.

I was going to get it back with interest next time, but when I got angry, I lost the courage to denounce it, so I had to maintain my face and continue to associate.

But others don't buy your generosity. On the contrary, they will label you weak and deceivable. Every time a bad taste comes up or she shows superiority, she will step on your head left and right.

There is a saying that you are exhausted again and again. If you gradually lose the courage to resist, you will become a persimmon that anyone can pinch. What's more sad is that you don't know where to resist. After all, one or two are easy to handle, and everyone is so hard to get rid of.

Anyone who doesn't want things to go beyond expectations will be eliminated directly in the bud. Tell the person who slanders you with a joke of zero connivance that you are not made of dough, so that she will never dare to make you bully you again.

Petting is either zero or countless times. How to choose depends on your different thoughts.

Anyway, some people are just wooden sticks, and they have to knock to get along with you. In this case, why be tolerant and patient with them?

Fight back with skill.

The reason why others hurt you with jokes is because they dare not and don't want to tear their faces, and want to find some sense of existence, so they choose a trick that will make you suffer a dumb loss whether you fight back or not.

In order to avoid being caught, you should be skillful even if you turn your back.

For example, at the beginning of the article, one girl ridiculed another girl for being fat, and she could totally laugh at me with "Your courage comes from lentils". After a few seconds' pause, I replied with a smile, "You can't even make a joke", leaving her speechless and unable to tell the bitterness of eating Rhizoma Coptidis.

Deal with a man as he deals with you is the smartest and most reliable way to fight back.

After all, it is still possible to leave room for a slap in the face. It can be easily solved by blocking her trembling mouth with what she said.

The so-called rational travel around the world, unreasonable, unable to move, should not casually carry your pot, so turning your face directly is the next policy, and blindly forbearing is the next policy. If you really can't find something to refute, it's better to be patient than to turn your face. After all, talking is better than nothing.

Proper toughness is your protective color.

Angular people will be polished and smooth after being tempered by life, so as to better adapt to social interpersonal communication and achieve their desired goals.

But many people often only remember how to adapt, but forget the original intention, so it is a blessing to encourage themselves to bear it every time they encounter injustice and slander. They don't care if they have big hands and good temper. In order to make their hearts feel better, they find excuses to expand their circle of friends to comfort themselves.

But, I don't know, connections only work for each other. Unilateral flattery goes against the original intention and can't meet any of your needs, but the loss of your own interests is endless.

It can be seen that appropriate toughness is the protective color of your survival and the premise of a better life.

So, when you meet someone who hurts you with jokes, don't resist turning your face. Reply directly to the joke that you don't like ta stepping on your sore spot, indicating that you will mind being sad, angry and impolite.

People sometimes belong to the tentacles of snails. They go out to explore without contact, shrinking faster than anyone else.

Maybe no one knows how much bluff is hidden in it, but as long as you are sure that you have enough confidence, fearless courage and know how to protect yourself, then others will have to weigh it if they want to bully you.

There are always people in life who can't see how you are and attack you with specious topics. In this case, you must know how to protect yourself.

Don't be afraid of the consequences of turning your face, because a person who slanders you in a joking way doesn't have the courage to admit your Excellence, and doesn't know how to praise a narrow-minded and scheming person. It's not worth your trouble to make friends.

And with the help of the other party's door-to-door delivery to divide the boundaries, you can clear the circle while safeguarding your own interests, which just sets up a mature, stable and powerful person.

This is not to encourage you to be competitive in everything, but to tell you that a moderate sharpness is a pure land to protect your inner goodness, so that you will not be forced to fall into the grass and do things that you regret.

In fact, there are only two or three friends left in life, and others can get along well, be respected wherever they go, and live as they please. Never sacrifice your bottom line principle to please others.

After all, a scholar cannot tell the truth when he meets a soldier. Instead of telling a chicken that it won't work, let him take a step back and press it hard. It is better to solve the contradiction in another way. There is no need to compromise himself and make do with others, so he can bear it and avoid being bullied into a soft persimmon.