What should I pay attention to when naming my child?

Now the number of children in the family is much less than before, but even so, many families have begun to think about how to name their children before they are born. Moreover, many families will be upset because it is too difficult to name.

Why is it difficult to choose a name? Nowadays, with the improvement of national cultural level, people are more and more entangled in choosing names. Parents always want to give their children a unique and meaningful name. Often think too much, and it is even more difficult to choose a name. In addition, there are these four points that have been bothering people.

1, with high rate of duplicate names.

It is inevitable to have the same name, but the family doesn't want to have the same name as other children, so it is very tangled to choose the name. There are many jokes on the Internet, such as Chen Jiayi, Li Jiayi and Zhao Jiayi. Although the words are different, the sounds are still the same. It can be seen that the problem of duplicate names is really a headache for parents.

2. Don't use genealogy.

Before choosing names, including the parents of the post-90 s generation, they still used genealogy to choose names. Because there are already fixed words, it is easier to choose that name. Now, without those restrictions, parents' worries and thoughts have increased, making it more difficult to choose a name.

There are too many personal surnames.

There are too many people with different surnames. According to incomplete statistics, what is the biggest surname in China now? Wang? Last name. It's difficult to choose a name for this surname. I accidentally renamed it, and it was quite difficult to name it.

4. The family disagreed.

Today's children are mostly the only child generation. Both husband and wife have a child. Both of them are treasures, and their names are equally famous. Sometimes a woman's parents want her children to take her surname. As a result, family opinions are not unified, and it is also very difficult for both husband and wife to name their babies.

Name? Big? , blessing? Small? There are also some parents who have high hopes for their children in their names, or want to bring blessings to their children through atmospheric names. But sometimes you say its name. Big? Not necessarily a good thing.

There was once a classmate, surnamed Qi, whose parents named their children for good luck. Qi Tianfu? . However, children are not as blessed as the name implies. Qi Tianfu is not only physically exhausted, but also not so smooth. Later, the family heard what the old man said? Children can't take too big a name, which will be bad for children? Change the name of the child. But most of this statement comes from superstition, which is not desirable, but it is too much to throw away. Big? The name is still not suitable for children.

? Big? The name should not be chosen, and there are also these reasons: 1, and the problem of matching yourself.

If parents put their high hopes on their children in their names, their children will get better and better. If the child is not so good, there will be a gap with the name. The gap is too big, and children live in this kind of pointing. I once heard that there was a man named? King? But people are mediocre, weak, always bullied by others, and later changed their names? Wang Xuan? Yes

2. Children's stress problem

When children are sensible and know the meaning of names, it will inevitably give them some pressure. Children worry that they will be laughed at if they are not so good. There was once a child whose name was given by his parents? Li Chenglong? Parents always tell their children that his name is to achieve something great, and children always feel pressured.

3. First impressions

If the name is nice? Big? When we meet for the first time and introduce each other, it will give people a very arrogant first impression. Whether it is social or work, the first impression is very important. If you carry it on your back because of your name? Arrogance Obviously, his reputation will hinder the children's next interpersonal communication.

Therefore, parents should carefully consider when naming their children, and it is recommended not to take too many names. Big? . One is not to put too much pressure on children because of their names, and the other is to make them modest.

Parents are advised not to search online when naming their children, because others will also search online, and the rate of duplicate names will increase. It can be found in the Book of Songs, Chuci and other documents, so as to obtain a good name with rich literary talent and no duplication of names.