A mother-in-law in Shandong thinks that her son-in-law doesn't give gifts or even make trouble at home during the New Year. Is it appropriate for mother-in-law to do this?

I have seen the news, and the title of the event has been written clearly, so I don't need to repeat it. Then my personal view on this matter is that both sides are wrong. Why? Because as an uncle, you should go and see two old people. This is a matter of course, and everyone knows it.

? Secondly, this is the mother-in-law. Although uncle is wrong, that is not the reason for your mistake! After the Chinese New Year, people don't visit their house, so you go to their house to make trouble, just like quarreling. If you do this, neither side will care. Some netizens must say that if you don't go to your daughter-in-law's house, you must make trouble at home!

You can't look at it that way. Why don't you visit your parents in one place? A gift? It's just a matter of different opinions that you are poor and you missed the ceremony. Let's put aside the incident of people making trouble. Let's just say that it's wrong not to accompany my daughter-in-law to her parents' home during the New Year, and it's wrong for him to talk about his vision.

Then let's talk about mother-in-law. If people don't come, you make trouble. What about the second year? What if people don't go in the second year? Only once a year? Besides, there is an old saying, okay? Uncle is a guest in front of the door? Yes, if my parents-in-law are smarter, they will be good to my daughter-in-law. Why? Because your leap girl has gone to live with someone else, how your family treats your leap girl depends on how your parents treat him at ordinary times.

Therefore, in this matter, both sides are at fault, but both sides feel that they are right. This kind of thing is the most difficult to convince. My son-in-law must think that my mother-in-law is wrong and shouldn't make trouble or anything, and then she just doesn't mention that she lost her gift. My daughter's family must have insisted that my uncle's family lost the gift and thought it was right to go to their house to crusade. They should go into the house and throw some plates to drive away the Japanese!

This kind of thing depends on how to deal with this leap girl in the middle, and whether this leap girl has weight and voice in both sides' hearts. This matter can only be solved by the leap girl, and it can't be solved by letting the second person go. Personally, I think my mother-in-law is the most wrong person here. Why? Because she embarrassed the whole thing and it was hard to end it. Tell me about this New Year's Eve. She is a real relative.

Here, I advise all young people not to miss this gift anyway. No matter what the reason, if the gift must be poor, you must explain the reason, and you can't just let it go. You see, trouble is coming. Someone must say that it is wrong for my mother-in-law to go to her uncle's house to make trouble, but can this be avoided? Of course, as long as the children say hello in advance! It's all wrong, don't recite it.