Hengshui's "sky-high tuition fee" caused a heated discussion. Are you willing to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to send your children to school in three years?

If this happens at home, I guess I'd rather spend the money than send the children.

Actually, let alone hundreds of thousands. If the money is more than 200 thousand, 300 thousand, or even more, I may be willing to spend it.

The reason why we say "possible" means that there are certain conditions.

That is to say, the child still has some room for improvement. He wants to study and is willing to study hard.

Otherwise, if the children's grades are so poor that they can't even get into a junior college, then I might consider whether it would be better if I had the money to take the international education route.

Of course, the premise must be to see the child's wishes.

I know that some people will calculate the "economic account" on this issue, and some people will say "where there is gold, there will be light" and so on. In fact, I will also say.

I can only say this when I talk about other people's things. Even if someone comes across this kind of thing and asks me for advice, I may say the same thing.

But if this really happens, it must be another story.

So do people who say such things. When many people show an open mind and indifference in many things, the fundamental reason is not because they really think so, but because they have never met them.

Just like that joke, if you have enough money to donate it all, will you? Because the person who is asked the question knows that it is "if", he will generously express his willingness.

The answer itself can satisfy others and yourself.

But if it is not "if" but "true", it doesn't mean that no one will do it, but that more people will think of all kinds of things at this time and then think of all kinds of reasons not to do it.

Speaking of going to high school, I can understand that some parents obviously can't keep up with their children's studies. Even if they go to high school and graduate, let alone go to college, many parents still try their best to create such opportunities for their children.

Many parents will not hesitate to lend money to send their children to expensive private high schools.

I really understand the hearts of such parents.

In fact, they don't know that waiting for their results in three years will disappoint them, but for parents, even if there is only a glimmer of hope, they also hope to come true-this is what parents expect of their children, and this is their love for their children.

Although many things we see may be the result of parents' wishful thinking, children don't know how to cherish it, and "thinking about change when they are poor" ...

I wonder how many people will be such parents. Of course, I don't care how many people are like this, but I'm sure I am.

For the sake of children, even if there is only a little chance, I am willing to pay 200% effort, no matter how difficult it is.

On this issue, it is difficult for "rational" people to understand, because it is too easy to draw the conclusion of "uneconomical".

But for anxious parents, they tend to pay more attention to possible opportunities.

But this is what I want to say. We have been involved in children's education for a long time. The child is now in junior high school, and everything is still very good. And do we have too extreme rigid requirements for our children, such as being admitted to Tsinghua Peking University?

What we value most from the beginning is the guidance of children's interest in learning and the cultivation of study habits. If these are done well, children will hardly be bad at school and will have a lot less troubles.

For example, since junior high school, we have hardly taken care of his study, especially his study at home, which is arranged by him. Even if he stays up late to learn such things, we won't interfere. He doesn't sleep, we sleep together. Because he should learn to find the best study arrangement for himself, instead of doing it according to the conclusion of our "feeling" and "judgment".

But even so, if someone asks me one day, if I spend hundreds, 200,000 or 300,000 yuan, can I let my children see the north, will you? I will say: add a zero to the back, and I will try my best to collect enough money!

So if you were in this situation, what would you choose? Will you try to give your child more time and opportunities for change, or will you send your child directly to a vocational school or a technical school?