3 ~ 4 years old baby's sense of humor formation period

My mother told a story to 3-year-old Wen Wen. At that time, she said, "This man has been following us like a bug …" Wen Wen suddenly giggled and said, "Follow the bug, haha!" At this time, the mother will think that the child is very cute, and it is also a good opportunity to cultivate the child's language and stimulate the thinking ability.

Children aged 3-4 will laugh because they hear funny words from adults or see some uncoordinated actions. This shows that children's sense of humor is forming, and parents' assistance is very important at this time.

Children born to the same parents, why do some children "love to laugh"? Some children like to frown? Who doesn't like "laughing" and "laughing" children? Who doesn't want to be close to children who often laugh?

Experts explain that the so-called sense of humor is the words or actions that make people who interact with it feel happy through language or body language. People who act in this way are called people with a sense of humor.

Children with a sense of humor are usually optimistic, constantly making laughter in their lives, making people around them feel relaxed and happy, and they will also have a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence. Therefore, children with a sense of humor are also more likely to get friendship.

According to research, a sense of humor begins in the first month after birth. For example, under the teasing of parents, the baby will keep laughing. 1 year-old children will laugh wildly because they play hide-and-seek. The development of children's sense of humor is related to the following factors:

1, language cognitive ability: children's cognitive and language ability develop to a certain extent, forming a sense of humor. When he hears or sees something interesting, he will laugh after judging. Children have a different sense of humor from adults.

2. Parental care: Children who are cared for by their parents before the age of 3 will show a good sense of humor. Therefore, parents should give their children more love and care, so that they can become "people with a sense of humor".

3. Pleasant learning atmosphere: In the process of children's growth and learning, if they have been in a relaxed and pleasant learning atmosphere, they will feel happy and encourage them to look at people or things around them with a happy mood, which is conducive to the formation of a sense of humor.

Cultivate children's sense of humor

People are born with a sense of humor. If parents can encourage and cultivate, it is not difficult for children to become humorous people. So how to cultivate children's sense of humor? Here are some methods for parents' reference:

Create an atmosphere:

When a child cries, if parents know how to create an atmosphere, hug him, pat him and appease him, "What's the matter, mom's little baby, why are you crying like Xiaohua Mall? Can mom do something for you? " Gentle and humorous expressions help children forget to cry, smile through tears and find happiness. Therefore, when the child tells some funny jokes and language, or shows some interesting actions, don't forget to give him some applause and encouragement, build his self-confidence and let himself and the child relax.

In addition, experts also remind parents to pay attention to some matters when guiding their children to have a sense of humor:

1, humorous language is based on the principle of not hurting others.

2. Language with a sense of humor should pay attention to interpersonal politeness.

3. Action with a sense of humor is based on the principle of not involving dangerous actions.

When telling jokes or performing antics with children, you should consider their age. Because adults think funny words or actions, children may not feel the same way However, if children think language or actions are funny, adults should laugh with them (although it is not necessarily funny from an adult's point of view).

The happiest thing for children is to do what they like. Even if children can't finish it, adults can't rush it. They should wait patiently, guide and help in time.

In short, language and things with a sense of humor can make children shine at the moment, which invisibly stimulates their thinking and language ability. When you say to your child, "If you don't put away your toys, I won't buy them for you in the future." In fact, we might as well add a little "humorous seasoning", for example, "It's time to go home and rest after playing with toys all day, or you will cry." Let yourself and your children relax in a purposeful language and atmosphere.

In addition, give children enough space to find their own life fun. I believe you can also cultivate a humorous and healthy child.