What kind of experience is it to have no children all your life?

The experience of being childless for a lifetime is mixed, and at each stage of life, the feelings and experiences are different.

When I was young, I had less stress in my life, which made me less happy to raise children than my peers.

The biggest feeling in middle age is that there will always be different eyes among relatives of the same age, and at the same time, I have accumulated wealth and feel that life has no ultimate purpose.

When I am old, I lack a lot of happiness, but I feel a little lonely. The most important thing is that I have no one to support me.

I remember a few years ago, when I saw friends around me always carrying babies, I had a flash of thought that I wanted to have a baby or not. When I reached my age, I realized that it was really impossible not to have a baby. Although I was not as free and easy as those unmarried people or as maverick as Dink, I felt that it was really not easy to make up my mind to have a baby.

Suddenly, I found that more and more young people around me had the idea of whether to have children. A friend, in his early 3s, had been married to his wife for seven years. Because he was too playful, he didn't have children. His parents were all pushing for a baby. Their parents were on good terms. After retirement, their spare time activities were really rich. Playing mahjong, dancing and singing were full. Originally, they suddenly wanted to have a baby.

When you reach middle age, if you don't have children, it's a real goal. You are a little confused. There is an uncle who doesn't have children. Although he has good living conditions, who can he give him except himself? It's a pity for his wealth. The key point is that there are always people among relatives who chat after dinner, that is, he has no children, he is really a freak, and he must be lonely when he is old. I think this is true. It is your freedom not to have children, but in the big environment where human beings thrive, there is no doubt that you are an alternative.

When a childless person is getting old, his wife also leaves you early, which is undoubtedly loneliness occupying most of your life. I remember that my neighbor has a mother-in-law who has no children. After retirement, she occasionally picks up garbage. She always watches her eating noodles alone in front of the door in the morning, and she looks out the window in a daze at dusk. Fortunately, she is physically strong. If there are three illnesses and two pains, who cares? Even if my nephew and niece are more filial, they can't care about their parents.

On the other hand, if you can, you must have children. They can bring you happiness and give you a pension. If you really don't want children, try to make money. If you save enough money, you won't have to worry about providing for the elderly!