Is it a joke or harm to the marriage for the bride's family to pull a banner at the wedding to warn the groom?

This is both a ridicule and a warning.

Marriage is so strong and fragile. Maybe some people have no intention to do things, which will hurt their marriage. Maybe both of them are heartbroken, but they still won't let go.

There are many things at the wedding, which is a mockery. There's no need to be too serious. In our daily life, everyone's usual life is actually very depressing. Wedding is a very happy thing. In this joyful ceremony, there is no need to pay too much attention to some slightly excessive teasing.

The bride's family pulls banners to warn the groom at the wedding, which must contain a teasing mentality. Maybe it wasn't the mother's family. It is likely that some friends joined forces to do it. Everyone just wants to see a joke as a talk after dinner.

If you overreact, it is likely to make our relationship stiff, and it is also likely to bring great trouble to our future career and family.

The warning to pull the banner is actually a warning to the groom. Married life is really not easy. In marriage, it takes two people to work together to get to the end and grow old together.

The bride's family just wants to tell the groom, the bride and her family, please don't hurt her. If you choose to hurt her, you may have to pay the price. Prepare yourself.

Sometimes early warning is a good thing, at least it can make people prepare psychologically in advance, so there is no problem, and it feels a little puzzling.

The happiness of marriage is in your own hands. Try to cherish your happiness, everything is just a blessing.