Can single people be so anxious?

Being single for a long time can make people feel anxious for the following reasons.

First, the threshold of love is getting higher and higher, and I am afraid that I can't get married and have children.

When we were young, we felt that we were in no hurry to get married, so we also had a dispensable attitude towards love. When we meet true love, we often miss it because we don't know how to cherish it. It was not until I really reached marriageable age that I realized how difficult it was to really find a marriage partner. I don't like myself and I don't want to live with myself. People I like may not be interested in me. In this way, the age gradually increased, and finally became an older woman and man.

Second, if you are single and don't get married, you don't know what your future will be like and whether it is meaningful.

Nowadays, people often think too much at night, and the most worrying thing is how to go in the future, especially when they are alone. Being single for a long time makes me want someone to take care of myself and accompany me. When I am in trouble and helpless, there is no one around to comfort myself, even a silent hug is enough.

Therefore, under such circumstances, people will feel particularly lonely and helpless, so that their thoughts are more complicated, and even they have reached a conclusion about their own lives and become more and more afraid of the future.

Third, parents are getting worse every day, but they are still worried about themselves.

Because you are old, even if you are not in a hurry, your parents are worried about your marriage and arrange blind dates for you everywhere. You are often laughed at by your relatives and neighbors because you are still single.

In fact, the pressure on their shoulders is no less than yours. When you were young, they earned money for your education and support. The last wish is that you can find your own love and form a complete family. This is what they want to see most.

Based on the above factors, it is understandable that girls, especially those over 35 who are not married, will be under pressure. But there is no need to be overly anxious, because marriage is also about fate. Some people are destined to get married later, so just wait patiently. There will naturally be relatives.