"She is a fake and dare not divorce", and her mother-in-law is blind and confident. How can she make her mother-in-law a laughing stock in the neighborhood?

As the saying goes, "love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families." In the twenty years before meeting the other half, every girl has fantasized about going hand in hand with the other half countless times. A wedding that satisfies both parents and is blessed by relatives and friends is undoubtedly the ultimate dream of every girl.

However, the reality is extremely complicated. In this society where everything can be clearly marked, a simple and beautiful marriage is accompanied by many complicated factors.

Personality, outlook and personality of both parties are no longer the only factors, from car to house, wedding date to marriage and childbirth, every bit is taken into account. Among them, the most influential factor, which is also the most concerned by both families, is the issue of bride price.

In recent years, the discussion about whether or not the bride price should be given and how much it should be given has never stopped. In China, the bride price has always been an established marriage custom, but it has changed from the physical object before the 1990 s to the cash now.

There is only a lot of social news about bride price. First, a mother in Henan threw herself into the river because the woman demanded a high bride price, and then a daughter-in-law in Huai' an divorced because her neighbor got a lot of bride price. A sacred marriage has become malodorous because of the bride price issue, and the two sides turned against each other because of the bride price issue and broke up in discord.

The bride price is something that everyone is talking about. After careful discussion, it is impossible to say right or wrong, and each has its own reasons. Some people say that the bride price is the first key to marriage and the touchstone of the man's family. How much you pay reflects how much the other party attaches importance to it. It is also said that the ultimate goal of two people getting married is to live together. It doesn't matter whether the bride price is paid or not, as long as the man has made up his mind.

I remember watching a very popular literary drama last year. A confident and chic woman meets a gentle and jade-like man. The two cherish and admire each other and decide to spend the rest of their lives together. Their feelings are pure and clean, without the fetters of material conditions, without the troubles of RV, and without the troubles of bride price and dowry account. They think that the hostess thinks that she is after love itself rather than bride price money.

The literary atmosphere of the whole drama is just right. The two abandon the choice of interests and pursue romance itself, reappearing the beauty of love in this impetuous era.

Unfortunately, life is not a TV series. Compared with the fantastic beauty and innocence of TV series, reality is always embarrassing.

Wang Xiaohe is such a girl who pursues the noumenon of love. She was born in a big city. Although her family background is not prominent, she is a well-off family. My father is an associate professor in a university and my mother is an outpatient doctor in a private hospital. Based on the principle of raising a poor son and a rich daughter, I have held this only daughter in my hand since I was a child.

Wang Xiaohe looks smart and wise. Since high school, many people have sent her love letters. It happened that he didn't like anyone, but he liked the way to study in a big city from a remote county.

Ming Lu's family is very poor, and his family has been short of money to pay for his college education. Therefore, when other students play truant in bars and indulge in their youth, Ming Lu will either study hard at school or take a part-time job outside. Others said that you should relax yourself when you go to college, but he didn't relax for a moment, adding a little stability.

This kind of bright road is something that Wang Xiaohe has never encountered. After their contact. I admire his sense of responsibility even more after learning that Ming Lu not only earns living expenses by working, but also sends money to his parents to supplement his family.

Their love is progressing smoothly. After working for less than two years, Mingmu proposed to her. Wang Xiaohe was eager to marry him and agreed without hesitation.

According to the marriage custom, no matter how the man's family is, some bride price should be given to show his appreciation for the woman. Just before the Wangs spoke, mother Lu came all the way from home.

Mother Lu held the hand and cried vaguely with tears: "Good girl, there are two younger brothers studying, and there is really no way to open the pot at home." Daughter, can you wait a while, let our family sell the house, and then give you the bride price money? "

Wang Xiaohe naturally doesn't want their family to sell their house. She thinks she doesn't care about the bride price money, but more about the attitude of the Lujia family. Since mother Lu is sincere at this point, she naturally values her very much, so she will marry him regardless of her parents' obstruction. Wang Mu couldn't resist her daughter's wishes, so she promised to marry her. After all, only Wang Xiaohe was spoiled by two people. On the wedding day, she quietly stuffed her daughter with100000 dowry.

"Wang Xiaohe, I agree that you must marry Lujia, but if you dare to tell anyone in Lujia about this hundred thousand dollars, don't call my mother again." Although Wang Xiaohe thought her mother's strict requirements were alarmist and thought too badly of people, she agreed to her parents.

Unexpectedly, her marriage didn't get the expected sweet marriage, but it tore open her mother-in-law's true face and fell into Fu Xi's hot water.

From the first day Wang Xiaohe married Lujia, her mother-in-law never gave her a good look. Wake her up before dawn, cook and do housework, always use foul language to dislike her stupidity.

"It takes so long to fry a dish, and you are too lazy to do it. I really don't understand why Xiaoming wants to marry you back! " Wang Xiaohe held his burnt hand in the shower. When she heard her mother-in-law's words, she couldn't help feeling sad. She was well educated by her parents since she was a child and never talked back to her elders. Although she doesn't understand why her mother-in-law is so dissatisfied with herself, she still listens to her mother-in-law and takes care of all kinds of housework.

I didn't understand why until I went out to take out the garbage and heard my mother-in-law pour bitter water on my neighbor's house.

"She is just a good family. When Xiao Ming married her, she didn't spend a penny. She grabbed it herself. " Mother-in-law has no education, so she caught several neighbors and began to criticize her new wife. The words "nobody wants it" and "a whore" blurted out, and the neighbors advised her to exercise restraint and not to make her daughter-in-law angry and divorce.

"Divorce? Does she dare? She dare not divorce, let alone a divorced woman dare to ask for it. She asked to marry into our family, how can she leave? " Mother-in-law seems to spoil Wang Xiaohe in front of the neighborhood in order to find enough face and inexplicable self-confidence.

I didn't know that Wang Xiaohe was heartbroken when he heard these words. When I got home, Minglu wanted to talk to him, but the other party first said, "Xiao He, my mother and I agreed two days ago that we would share my brother's living expenses. I think it is not easy for my mother to raise me, so I agreed. "

Wang Xiaohe felt cold, thinking that every time he watched his mother-in-law torture himself, he dared not let go of a word. He couldn't help getting angry: "Don't even think about it. Her own son is supporting himself. "

Liu Ming was startled by the sudden attack of his good-natured wife, and was about to speak when her mother-in-law rushed over.

"You are a worthless, vicious and cold-blooded person. This is your brother." It turns out that my mother-in-law has been eavesdropping outside the door.

"I treat them as brothers, I treat you as my own mother, have you ever treated me as my own daughter? Get up early every day to do housework, and you will scold me. Have you ever thought about my feelings? "

"Will, my mother is outspoken. How can you care about your elders? " Ming Road's words gave Wang Xiaohe a blow. She didn't expect her husband to ignore herself to this extent, so what's the point of this marriage she worked so hard for?

Wang Xiaohe ran home without anything, and two days later came to Ming Road with a divorce agreement. My mother-in-law stood there muttering, "Look who wants you, a divorced woman." Wang Xiaohe laughed instead of anger: "I'm looking after the old house at home, and I'm going to take out my hundred thousand dowry to repair it next year. Now it seems that it is not needed. "

This time, not only her mother-in-law was shocked, but even Mingmu was shocked. Wang Xiaohe, who was about to leave with the agreement, asked, "Why didn't you tell me about your dowry?"

"Why tell you? You are a wolf and a tiger. Since I want an empty-handed wife, I can naturally dominate my dowry. "

"Xiao-he, hey, it's mom's words. Mom apologizes to you. Can you live a good life in the future? " Mother-in-law also went up to pull her sleeve and kept her.

Wang Xiaohe looked at her mother-in-law's rare smiling face, more sad. If my parents hadn't forced me to defend myself, and if I hadn't heard her slander me behind my back, I didn't know how long I would stay in this cave.

"Dream on!" Wang Xiaohe pushed them away and left without looking back. At the door, the neighbors who used to gossip with mother Lu stared at her like a joke. The Lu family also vowed a few days ago that their daughter-in-law would not divorce. How long did it take? What a pity!

Wang Xiaohe always fantasizes that his marriage will be the same as his parents'. Husband and wife love each other, and the husband's family is reasonable. But I ended up like this, in the final analysis, because I didn't receive the bride price money.

In fact, yes or no, the bride price is just an appearance. The root cause of Wang Xiaohe's marriage failure is that he got married in a hurry without seeing clearly the character of the man's family.

Whether to give a bride price or not has always been a hot topic. Don't give a bride price when you get married, because your husband's family thinks you are coming from behind and looks down on you after marriage; Marriage requires a bride price, and the husband's family thinks that you bought it with your own money and enslaved you hard; Marriage requires a bride price, and my husband's family can afford it. I feel nothing, so I treat you like a prostitute. Don't give a bride price when you get married. Your husband's family thinks you are smart, considerate and will treat you as a daughter.

Whether it is necessary or not, the result is mixed. In the final analysis, whether a marriage is happy or not has nothing to do with whether it is a bride price.

If your marriage is unhappy, it's just the person you want to marry, and that family is not suitable for you from the beginning.

Although the bride price is important, it does not mean whether the marriage is happy or not. It is the most important thing to put aside the appearance of bride price, see each other's personality clearly, treat marriage carefully and be responsible for yourself.