Yue Yunpeng's remarks to apologize to the national football team now seem more like saving face for the national football team. Why is this?

I believe everyone knows about the performance of the national football team. Generally speaking, it is just "miserable". I don't know if the national football team knows that the results are so miserable. Maybe they have forgotten it a long time ago. However, this It's not the point. What we want to talk about is an incident of Yue Yunpeng back then. Yue Yunpeng ridiculed the national football team in various ways on the show, even losing to Syria. Unexpectedly, the national football team actually lost to Syria later.

Yue Yunpeng’s teasing about the national football team has become a prophecy

In a variety show, Yue Yunpeng talked about the national football team with his partner, and he said that he could join the national football team. Because the national football team has many advantages that attract them, such as being convinced to lose and not having a sense of team honor, etc. At first, everyone took this kind of ridicule as a joke. After all, the level of the national football team has never been high, which is recognized by everyone.

But Yue Yunpeng also said a joke, which directly pulled him into the center of public opinion. Yue Yunpeng said at the end of the performance that the national football team would lose to Syria, which made the audience laugh. After all, Syria was really in a bad situation at the time and was still in civil war.

No matter how bad the national football team is, it will not lose to the worst. So it's just an ordinary joke. But I never expected that the national football team would really verify it in a game, and Yue Yunpeng's joke would actually come true. What was originally a joke turned into a prophecy. This is a little embarrassing.

Yue Yunpeng apologized to the national football team

It’s okay. Yue Yunpeng’s crow-mouthed remarks suddenly aroused the dissatisfaction of the fans. As Yue Yunpeng’s matter began to be hotly discussed, some of the national football team People began to lose their footing and came out to attack Yue Yunpeng. I remember Zheng Zhi, the former captain of the national football team at the time, stood up and said: Yue Yunpeng's ridicule was very malicious and the self-esteem of the national football team was trampled on.

It’s not enough for this guy to jump all by himself. Oh no, it’s not enough for him to be embarrassed. He also attracted a group of people from the national football team to start besieging Yue Yunpeng and demanding Yue Yunpeng apologize. Now it’s better. Public opinion began to ferment, and Yue Yunpeng could not sit still. Seeing this situation, he could only stand up and apologize. As a result, his apology remarks really made many people feel a little embarrassed. He bluntly said sorry to the national football team.

But his attitude changed. He felt that he had hurt the fragile hearts of the national football players and the leaders of the Football Association. In order to express his sincerity, he decided to join the national football team. It can be seen from these words. They apologized, but they didn't fully apologize. In short, they were just angry. However, Yue Yunpeng's strange anger was actually to save face for them. However, what happened to the national football team later was even more shocking.

How to apologize correctly?

After listening to Xiao Yueyue's words, everyone knew that this was obviously not an apology. Although Xiao Yueyue is not here to apologize, I believe that we professionals will also face situations where we do wrong things. So how do we apologize for doing wrong things? Let me talk about how to apologize sincerely:

If You've hurt someone and you may want to apologize. No matter how reluctant you are, do it as soon as possible. Holding off without apologizing will make the situation worse. If you say sorry straight to the point or say too many irrelevant words, the other party will think you are prevaricating, which can only be counterproductive. An apology must begin with sorry.

If you have hurt the other party, then the other party has the right to an explanation. Remember to explain, not make excuses. There is a big difference between explaining and making excuses. Explanation is to tell why you made a mistake, while making excuses is to shirk responsibility. If you have the opportunity to correct it, focus on making it right. You can't change the past, but you can prove the importance of your relationship through your future performance. If circumstances warrant, reassure the person that a similar situation will never happen again.