A joke that thinks it cures childhood.

"Lucky people use childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood." This is what the famous Austrian psychiatrist Adler said.

If most psychologists tell people to be tolerant and learn to love by quoting other people's examples, then Adler interprets what an unfortunate and lucky life is through autobiography.

When we are still recalling the beautiful music and pictures of childhood, Adler's childhood memory is to fight against the disease.

In Adler's mind, childhood is such a picture:

Around him, there is no sympathy and love, but more ridicule and curses. Even the teachers at school have made a conclusion in advance about what he can do when he grows up.

Fortunately, his father played an indispensable role in his life, often encouraging him and making him worry about everything. Don't be bound by the immediate temporary difficulties. The present situation does not represent your future life. Your destiny is in your own hands.

This strong belief of his father accompanied Adler's life and made him famous all his life.

There is a saying on the Internet:

Some people feel that there is no justice in this world when they are born, and all the misfortunes come to them, and eventually they fall into self-pity and self-indulgence.

Although some people were born on haystacks, they must first bear the truth of their hearts and regard the so-called injustice of fate as the beginning of success.

What kind of mood do you have?

What kind of life will there be?

Some people say:

Life is really bitter, just like a baby crying at birth, which indicates that he is about to face the pain of life, but he is obsessed with the strange and mysterious world before him, grinning and smiling.

There are thousands of reasons for childhood misfortune, and luck is also a way, that is, not to live for difficulties, but to live for you ten years later.

Just like Zhang Haidi, the wheelchair is destined to accompany her all her life, but her pace will not be limited by the wheelchair. On the contrary, she has stepped into a farther life dream in her own way, even beyond her feet.

Zhang Haidi was paraplegic due to spinal hemangioma when he was a child. In the face of the cruel fate challenge, she did not feel depressed or sink, and fought against the disease with tenacious perseverance. Although she missed classes all her life, she taught herself English, Japanese and German, and studied in universities and graduate classes. Finally, the whole world heard of her progress.

See such a passage in the circle of friends:

Destiny is actually a hanging thing, and its quality lies in its own thoughts. The difference is that some people see the stone under their feet and kick it into the sea, while others will pick it up and build tall buildings.

Memory is incurable after all.

Thinking can change the world.

Read this sentence:

When you are still complaining that your parents have not given you a superior environment;

When you are still regretting not going to a good school;

When you are still regretting what you did as a child.

……

There are still people crawling with their lives, even if their arms are worn out, they will not stop moving forward. The seemingly unbearable pain was regarded as a kind of life practice in front of him, because he saw the road to his dream in the distance.

I have read about the understanding of three-dimensional and four-dimensional life on the Internet.

If the film curtain we see is three-dimensional, then the projector is four-dimensional. If you just try to turn off the movie by tearing off the curtain, the result is futile.

It's like our behavior, dissatisfied with all kinds of life at present. If we just change our behavior blindly, you will find it extremely tiring to live. Only by changing your thinking and letting yourself see a different world can you realize your mission of coming to this world.

Your eye for things.

Determines the quality of things.

I have read such a story.

Su Shi, a famous poet in the Song Dynasty, often meditated with his good friend, Zen Master Fo Yin.

Once, they agreed to sit quietly and take a look at each other.

Not long after, Su Shi first said, "Master, I think you look like a piece of shit."

At this time, he said slowly, "Sue, I think you are like a Buddha."

Su Dongpo was very proud after hearing this, thinking that his accomplishment was better than Fo Yin's.

When he got home, and Su Xiaomei about it, only to find that Su Xiaomei just shook his head and sighed:

"Your realm is too low, Fo Yin has a Buddha in his heart, and everything is a Buddha. You have shit in your heart, so watching others is shit. "

Everything is useless. In the eyes of a thousand people, it is a thousand forms. Whether it is good or bad, good or evil, or lucky depends on the person who carries it.

Just like Adler and Zhang Haidi, in the eyes of ordinary people, this fate is a bolt from the blue disaster for him. Maybe he will resign himself to wasting his life, or end it early.

On the contrary, like mussels, it will turn the rubbed sand into huge and bright pearls, which will shine brightly in the world.

The Book of Songs says: "There are bandits and gentlemen, such as sharpening."

It means: the cultivation of a gentleman is like a bone processor, which needs to be cut before discussion; Just like processing jade, it needs grinding after cutting!

Look at our life, isn't it an elaborate process? Cut off all unnecessary parts and leave a bright life.