The husband was accidentally paralyzed before the wedding, and the wife has been guarding her for 41 years: Although she has no children, she never regrets it

What is love? Very simple, four words: never leave. If you can leave and give up, it is not love or love is not thorough enough. To love someone is to know how to cherish each other and live in each other's heart. Companionship is the longest confession of love. If you never leave me, I will depend on you for life and death. If you are in deep crisis, I will compensate you with my life.

Wang Mingfang probably loved her husband very much, otherwise she would not have guarded him for 41 years after his paralysis and took good care of him until he passed away first. So don’t envy the couples hugging each other on the street, but envy the old people walking hand in hand. Because from them, you can understand more clearly what true love is!

At the age of 25, Wang Mingfang met and fell in love with her husband Tang Shaodou through someone’s introduction. Two years later, they got married and planned to hold a wedding some time later. However, an accident changed everything. Tang Shaodou unfortunately fell to the ground while working, resulting in total paralysis.

Some people say that husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when faced with disaster. Many couples who have been married for a long time are like this, not to mention that Wang Mingfang and Tang Shaodou have not held a wedding yet. Therefore, many relatives and friends, including her husband Tang Shaodou, advised Wang Mingfang to leave. After all, she was still young and could start a new life and have a better life. However, when her husband needed her the most, Wang Mingfang did not float away like a cloud. Instead, she decided to stay and take care of him for the rest of her life, and fulfilled this promise with practical actions.

In order to spare her bedridden husband Tang Shaodou from suffering, Wang Mingfang insisted on scrubbing his body, changing clothes, washing, cooking and feeding him every day. What seemed like trivial matters to outsiders was the most important thing for her husband. Important things. Sometimes, Tang Shaodou would feel depressed after lying down for a long time, so Wang Mingfang would move his body and take him out to bask in the sun and breathe fresh air.

It is easy to take care of patients in one or two days. If you persist for a month or two, it is not difficult. But if you spend many years without rest or relaxation, and spend all day around patients, it is probably not something that ordinary people can do! But Wang Mingfang did it. She chose to use her thin shoulders to shoulder the burden of taking care of her husband, and she carried it for 41 years.

Many people don’t understand what Wang Mingfang is trying to do. She and her husband have not had children, and they have no worries in their hearts. Why waste her life on this? If she didn't love thoroughly and deeply, how could she give so willingly!

It was his wife's love that made Tang Shaodou feel the preciousness of life. Therefore, even if he suffers bad luck and suffers physically and mentally, he must maintain an optimistic attitude and share the joys and sorrows with his wife. On the one hand, Tang Shaodou was indeed unfortunate. He was unexpectedly paralyzed at a young age. On the other hand, he was lucky enough that his new wife did not leave and stayed with him until his old age.

In fact, looking back on the accident that year, Wang Mingfang regretted not letting her husband go home early that day, otherwise he might not have suffered such a sudden disaster. But she always said: She has taken care of her husband for 41 years, even though they have no children, but she will never regret it! After her husband passed away, Wang Mingfang continued to protect her and his home.

Not everyone can withstand all kinds of hardships, and some people will quit midway and end up with a miserable life. In life, only feelings that can withstand various tests are true feelings! To this day, I hope someone will have sex with you in the evening, and someone will ask you whether the porridge is warm.