My brother-in-law asked me to borrow my car to travel, but my wife was unhappy. What should I do?

I am a person from the countryside. Men of our generation are more diligent. The only drawback is that they don't like reading. My wife and I met in junior high school, and we were already flirting at that time. I was naughty and took her out to work together.

I went out to work in spite of the opposition of my family. When I first went out, I really didn't have any money. They had a very difficult time. In fact, I feel very guilty to see my wife being taken out to work like this. I have repeatedly advised her to go back to school and stop suffering outside with me, but she just followed me all the time. They had a hard time in the city.

My wife has a younger brother at home, five years younger than her. When she eloped with me, her parents didn't say anything, but also provided for their son to go to school, as if this daughter was dispensable. Speaking of which, my wife is poor. At home, she does all kinds of farm work every day when she comes back from school, and sometimes she takes her brother with her. Our two families are not far away, and I saw all this in her eyes.

I have been rolling around this city for many years before I can make a difference. After years of hardships, I secretly vowed to be good to my wife. She has been with me for so many years, and now life is getting better and better. I have to be nice to her.

After working hard outside for nine years and falling in love for nine years, we came home in rags, made a little money and went home to get married. At that time, our bride price was not as high as it is now, and we could get married by paying more than 10 thousand. At that time, her brother became a hooligan because of his parents' doting. Knowing that we made some money outside, he wanted to borrow it from us.

Later we bought a house and a car in the city, and no one in the village dared to marry my brother-in-law. My mother-in-law asked us to live in the city with my brother-in-law and find him a girl. This is a big problem. If my brother-in-law doesn't turn over a new leaf, how dare a girl marry him?

I came back from work that day and saw my brother-in-law sitting in the living room. When I put my things down, he said he wanted to borrow my car. After I asked him for a long time, he told me that he wanted to go to road trip with his friends. I thought it was no big deal. I asked my wife's opinion before I promised him. My wife refused, so I refused my brother-in-law.

However, I was restless for the next few days. My brother-in-law has been whispering in my ear that I want to borrow the car. I really couldn't stand his trivial ideas and lent them to him. When he goes, no one will bother me and my wife. On the third day after he went, I fell asleep in the middle of the night and was woken up by the phone soon. When I answered the phone in a daze, I heard my brother-in-law crying and said something had happened. I woke up suddenly and woke my wife up a little. Later, I told my wife that paper can't wrap fire.

When my wife and I arrived there, my brother-in-law was obviously scared. I saw the car rush to the guardrail and almost rushed out. Seeing this almost accident scene, I was relieved, and then I began to feel bad about my car. Later I learned that the tire slipped and I couldn't control it. Fortunately, there is nothing wrong with this man. When I got home, my wife slapped me and told me not to lend it to my brother-in-law. I won't borrow it if something happens. Fortunately, there is nothing wrong with people, otherwise I would be all wet!