What about the wedding reception of the newlyweds? Must know the process and details.

How to make a return banquet? At present, many couples in Longyan are only children, holding weddings at the man's house. The woman's family felt that it was meaningless to eat at noon, so there was a "back door banquet". However, many couples don't know some knowledge about the back door banquet, and often make a lot of jokes. Let's take a look at how to make a good back door banquet.

1. What is a back door banquet?

Marriage customs of Han nationality. That is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law goes back to her mother's house with the bride to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives. This custom originated in ancient times, and it is also called "mothering", which means going home to visit parents after marriage. This is the last ceremony of marriage. Some daughters don't forget the kindness of their parents. The son-in-law thanks her parents-in-law and expresses the love and beauty of the newlyweds. Generally, the woman hosts a banquet, and the new son-in-law is seated, accompanied by the female elders. This is the custom of returning home in the Spring and Autumn Period, which was inherited by later generations. Because the "double door" is called "double door" because the newlyweds go back to the door together and take the auspicious meaning of pairs.

The bride's old man attaches great importance to returning home in three days, so the groom should make preparations in advance, both ideologically and as gifts, so as to leave a good impression on his parents-in-law.

Second, who will be invited to the party?

Most of the guests invited to the back door banquet are relatives and friends of the bride's family. Generally speaking, it is because the wedding banquet is far away and it is not convenient for relatives and friends to be present. Another is that some people can't be invited to the wedding banquet because of the large number of people, so they are invited to attend it when they return home. However, in either case, such a round-trip banquet will not be less or too big. After all, if you are only relatives, the number is limited, but if you count the friends of your parents and relatives, in this case, the number is still quite large!

3. When will the back door banquet be held?

As for the time of the back door banquet, there is a custom that it needs to be held within three days after the couple gets married. However, some people say that if it is a big event, it will only be held in the same year! But if it's the same city, it's best to finish it within three days, otherwise I always feel that there is something unfinished and there will be a psychological burden!

Fourth, the banquet ceremony

Strictly speaking, many back-to-back banquets can not be called back-to-back thank-you banquets at all, but are very similar to ordinary wedding ceremonies. Actually, mothering is the last step of the traditional wedding ceremony in China. If it is really the same as the wedding ceremony, it will lose its real cultural connotation and significance.

1. It is essential to highlight a theme at the thank-you banquet, that is, thank you. Who will thank you? How can I thank you? These should be done with special ceremonies. Rites are rules, and manners are performances. First of all, thank God, thank the ground, (three times), then thank parents (three times), thank guests (three times), children and girls for the candy ceremony.

There are also gifts from the bride to her parents at the banquet. Interaction between the groom and his parents-in-law; My mother-in-law summed up several advantages of the groom and what her mother-in-law had to tell him. The groom made a promise, presented flowers to his parents and spread the expression of Weng Xu's friendship.

3. At the homecoming ceremony, let the groom give a thank-you speech and show his talents. Finally, I remind you that these links can no longer appear: exchange tokens, make a glass of wine, and pay homage! Because these ceremonies can only be done once, this is a promise to each other. A promise of a thousand dollars represents a lifetime, and there is no need to promise again. However, champagne ceremony represents celebration, cake ceremony represents exuberant fertility, and kiss represents intimate love; It can be reflected again at the handover ceremony.

Huimen Banquet focuses on cheerful, reunion and joyful atmosphere. The whole ceremony should be reflected. There are more ethnic and folk things to show, beating gongs and drums, dancing dragons and lions, and cultural performances can be interspersed in wedding banquets.

And the layout of the banquet should be luxurious and festive. Bright red shaman background, beautiful lighting, crystal runway, spotlight, bubble machine, rainbow machine can all be used, lanterns can also be decorated, and flowers can be piled up, but try to give priority to red and pink to show luxury style, except for some props that are too western-style.