"I'm getting married, will you come?" How do men with high emotional intelligence respond when they receive information from their ex-girlfriends?

After breaking up, the best state should be to say goodbye to each other and be happy.

However, some people, maybe you can't understand their thoughts, because they don't seem to take love seriously and don't care about separation.

His ex-girlfriend is such a person. When we broke up, he said, "Let's delete each other in the future."

She said, "No, why did you delete me? Don't you want to know about my future? Rao can't be lovers, let's be friends. "

She added, "I won't delete you anyway."

When she said that, he naturally wouldn't delete her again, so he nodded and left her in his address book. In fact, this is a kind of suffering for him.

Because he can't go back to be friends, and he doesn't want to be friends with her.

He can't be like her. When he broke up, he could still laugh and laugh, thinking that a simple "sorry" could erase all the memories and she could easily let go.

However, he can't, because that's the person he once loved, and of course he still loved when he broke up.

Because of this, he could not bear to refuse her request not to delete himself. He has always been like this, preferring to grieve himself rather than make her sad by half.

He likes her. If you start from scratch, it should be six years.

At that time, both of them were still in college and met her at a party. It was love at first sight, but he was a timid person who dared to hide this love in his heart and felt unworthy.

So when two people can become friends later, his mood is very happy, and it is also a happy thing for him to look at the person he likes.

I didn't ask too many questions because I didn't dare to think about it.

He always felt that he hid this love very well and was not found by anyone. How can he expect that he didn't carefully hide it from her?

So when she graduated from college, she was in a bad mood after breaking up with her boyfriend in a different place. He played a comforting role for a long time, but in the end she confessed first: "Let's be together!" " "

02

He was surprised at her frankness, but she asked, "haven't you always liked me?" Embarrassed, he asked cautiously, "How do you know?"

She smiled: "A fool can see it."

Later, he also asked her why she wanted to be with herself. Her answer is, because during this time, I have seen his seriousness and sense of responsibility, and I think it is not easy for a person to like himself for many years.

So, she wants to give each other a chance.

For a long time afterwards, he felt that all this was like a dream. He couldn't believe that his dream could finally come true. He has nothing to give her except a heart that loves her.

He is the kind of person who can't wait to give all the good things in the world to each other after being together, so he is naturally kind to her.

That kind of kindness can really be described by Tao Xin Taolong.

Although she is in love and sometimes a little unreasonable, he always dotes on her. She is completely a person she likes, and I can't help it.

Even she sometimes jokes: "You are so kind to me, I am worried that you will spoil me."

He didn't hesitate at that time: "Don't be afraid, I will treat you well all my life."

Life is always too short when you are young.

A year later, they broke up, which was proposed by her. The reason for breaking up is: sorry, I still can't really like you. I feel guilty to see you being so kind to me.

He wondered, isn't she with herself because she likes it? She said no because he was kind to her and worried that if she missed it, she would never meet such a person again.

In this way, they broke up

03

After breaking up, she didn't want to delete her own practice, which once puzzled him and even doubted whether she had any difficulties but didn't want to be separated.

He didn't dare to ask her, but he kept a close eye on her news. From the circle of friends or mutual friends, she has existed in his life for too long and there is no way to erase it.

A later chat also made him fall into thinking.

She took the initiative to find him and said she was glad he didn't delete herself. This had to make him think more, and then he asked her, "Do you still like me?"

She replied, "I only regard you as my friend now."

He said there was no way to be friends, and she asked, "weren't we friends at the beginning?" I hope we can go back to that time. "

The state at that time? When he remembered it, it suddenly dawned on him why he felt that he had hidden his secret love very well, or did she notice it? Because his responsive attitude towards her has explained everything.

He seems to understand something vaguely, but he still says he can't be friends. That's it. Not deleting is his last thought about their love.

After this sentence was finished, she didn't reply, and in the days that followed, the two never said anything.

Until almost two years later, he has completely walked out of this relationship and has a girl who likes each other. It turned out that he almost forgot the existence of his ex-girlfriend.

Who knows, she sent him a message on her own initiative. The first sentence was: "I'm getting married. Will you come?"

He thought, how can this work? Isn't that obvious? But it is not easy to refuse directly. After thinking for a while, he replied with a message: "Is it free?" I don't bring money. "

There has been no reply. When she got up the next day, she deleted it herself. In fact, this is exactly what he wants. Even if she doesn't delete herself, he will delete her.

From the moment they broke up, they should no longer exist in each other's address books.

04

In this world, there are always some people you can't understand. For example, they don't like you in love, but they won't let you go.

Others want to enjoy each other's kindness, but refuse to give the same love.

All kinds of unfairness are actually the norm in love. It's just that some people, before coming out, are always like moths, desperate and touching themselves with blind persistence.

When you meet such a person, you must refuse after you leave. Now that we are separated, we can't expect to be friends again.

Only you can turn around smartly, and one day you will meet the person who is full of eyes in the vast sea of people. You like each other and get rewarded.

You should always believe that you who take love seriously deserve a wholehearted other half.