My husband is very kind to me, but my husband's family is not. Should I get a divorce?

Most people will choose to divorce when they meet parents who are arrogant or heartless or ignore their small families for their own selfish desires. However, the author suggests that we should start from ourselves to find problems, don't hurt our families, and don't divorce.

Turn an enemy into a friend.

In the face of disrespect from her husband's family, her partner will be in a dilemma. You are generous and unwilling to give in to such an environment. Divorce affects the family and cracks feelings. The essence of the last question is that you don't want to sacrifice a little face for your family because of your own face.

Take a step back and broaden the horizon. What can you do if it's not good? Even if you call and send WeChat, can you still make trouble in front of you every day? Contradictions can be negotiated, misunderstandings can be sorted out, there is no perfect marriage, but you can't stand it unilaterally, and your other half still needs this home. Be sure to find reasons from yourself and try to make friends with people around you.

Mutual shielding

The people in your husband's family are not good to you, and of course they will not help your little family. How can a partner who loves you not feel such troubles? It's not good for you, and it doesn't give him face to some extent. Since both of them are suffering, why add fuel to the fire? Isn't it good to be a joke after dinner occasionally?

Those relatives are his relatives. He can't break up. You can ignore them completely. Why do you want to affect your hard-won marriage because of other people's attitudes? Your generosity is not to forgive those strangers, but to leave a step for your other half and give you enough face. When you are clamoring for a divorce, it is when they succeed. I believe he will be very sad if he loves you.

Home is the home of two people, not a group of people. Love is love that exists in each other's hearts. Don't need so many people to explain and understand. If you deviate from your original heart just because of the likes and dislikes of some irrelevant people, then ask yourself: Do you really love him?